I’ve been day gaming for about a year now in a foreign country But I’ve never escalated as fast and as easily than when I went to the club for the first time ever.

Here is me in a video talking about exactly what happened, there is a little bit of club footage, and some animations (cause I like to draw). ~ https://youtu.be/IqZQS1mzJxk

I put some effort into it, but you can just read this post too! it's the same thing.

I Faced rejection and fear constantly when I was out daygaming in nature parks, crowded streets, hobby centers, etc.. I learned to get good at conversation and I am much more fun and engaging than how I previously was.

And it was so much easier with that solid base to get girls at the club. But although day gaming helped me I still wish I wasn't so reluctant to go to clubs in the past, I might have improved faster.

What Happened:

Went to a club on a Friday night, made eye contact with a girl sitting and vibing to music, I opened non-verbally with a wave and smile from across the room, we exchanged smiles and I approached her and said you look like you want to dance. She did come with another guy who didn't like the idea of us dancing, they had a little bit of a back and forth the first time (I danced with her twice and he was much more angry the second time) but she eventually took my hand, gentlemen in that moment you have to realize some things aren't your battle and they should handle it between themselves, anyway, things escalated pretty quickly on the dance floor. She started grinding on me, which let me know it's okay to keep going, btw I was Shocked by this! I mean I guess it's expected but I don't even know her name! goes to show how much environment matters... and alcohol... Anyway I started escalating to a point of it barely being acceptable. We continued for a while. And as I was leaving the dance floor with her she told me 'thank you' in such a sincere way that it made me chuckle, in my head I was thinking 'that's my line.'

I then brought her back (I took her number later) and decided to dance with other girls. Probably looked bad to her but I didn’t really care. My friend said I looked like a kid in a candy store and it did kind of feel like it.

It's getting a bit long so I'll leave it here for now.