This is a long one, let me know any critiques if you have any. tldr at the bottom

I have a long history of overthinking things and striking out at bars, so I decided to switch my tactics, and though this has only worked once, I've only done it twice. The first time I got cock blocked, and last night I pulled an 8 thats crazy for me.

Let's start with my mindset going out. Usually I go to bars with a bigger group (5-6 people) and approached every girl I found attractive to try and chase/fuck, but last night it was just me and one of my closest homies. I went out and told him "yo lets try and make as many "friends" as we can tonight. So that's what I tried to do.

Bar was packed with college girls and guys so I walked in, went to the bar, was vibing to the music and sparked a convo with the girl and guy that were next to me. Girl wasn't hot but I didn't really care, just wanted to get out of my head and just say hey. Got their snaps (ik trp is against snaps but its worked well for me so far at least for meeting randos at a bar) and this was a rinse and repeat cycle. Just talking to everyone and vibing to the music.

An hour or two in I noticed a girl staring at me. So my coveted conversation starter was "hey". What I've realized especially after tonight is that if a girl wants to fuck you she's going to make it pretty obvious as long as you're not a pleb. She responded well when I put my arm on her lower back, but on a scale from 1-10 as far as her interest she was like a 6. After hey I'd say what are you drinking (if they have a drink) or why aren't you drinking (dont buy them a drink if they ask, Ill talk more about that in a bit). From there just talk about random shit, I asked stuff like do they go to my school, where they're from, their major etc.

What I learned is if they aren't trying to keep the convo, say I have to piss or hope you have a good night. If they are responding positively but you're still unsure if interested say yo Im gonna head to the bathroom but if you see me around dont be a stranger and if they approach you after that I'd shoot the shot and try to escalate. If you can tell they're interested (if you catch her staring, rubbing on you, any ioi) say hey and escalate.

heres where the girl I fucked comes in. Ill call her B. I saw her quickly look at me and look away when I looked at her, so I said hey. She got close so I grabbed her stared in her eyes and she said she came here with the guy next to us (basically we cant kiss here) I asked for her number and she said "in front of him??" got the number and I said I'm gonna go look for my friend and let her miss me a bit.

I left and talked to another group of girls (under 21) and said "why dont you have a drink". They said they'll pay me to buy them one. I was like ok, went to the bar, got me and my boy a drink (which took like 20 minutes) and went the opposite direction of where the girls were that asked me that.

I run into B and the same chicks that said buy me a drink talking lol. They asked where are the drinks and I said "I forgot" with a smirk. B then grabs me and says you're buying other girls drinks now? (playfully) and I told her I dont buy girls drinks. The drinks girls left, and we vibe for a bit, kiss a bit and I tell her "theres this movie that I've never seen before... and it'd be a cool experience to watch it with you." She said which movie, and I said Toy story. She said bet, and I said let's leave. Went to the front and she called the uber for me.. crazy

threw up on my foot in the uber, cleaned me up when we got to her place. Let her get sobered up/sorted and told her gimme head and from there we fucked 3 times, literally did not go to sleep last night and I'm typing this the same day so some stuff may sound brain dead

anyway she was telling me how I was a 10, and how she doesn't know how she got me the whole night. Planning on chilling with her again on sunday. I'm gaming other girls but shitt she watch anime, obsessed with me, likes to be choked.. (first time for me), and showing me all her gift cards for restaurants she wants to spend on me. ima try and keep this going for as long as I can

now that I finished reading it I feel dumb but hopefully it'll help someone out.

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TLDR: Just say hi.. If a girls is interested, she'll make it known. Dont chase after low interest girls.. dont chase after them in general. Got a bitch that'll do anything for me from it. Got a chick that will buy me things and do crazy things for me now.