DAE observe few to zero men using the word "slut" against a woman or women in general, but when hanging around female friends hear the word used between regular and often?

121895 · 2014-06-03T22:08:57+00:00

"That chick is nasty" or "That bitch is gross."

That's more what I'd expect to say or hear. Women use the words "slut" and "whore" to attack other women so those words have been filled with venom. Men are really just trying to warn each other about promiscuous women because no one wants to date the town bicycle. So it's fine to just call a woman disgusting or say she sleeps around and the point has been made. No need to label her or even say it within earshot.

And yeah guys tend to use the word "fag" to refer to effeminate bluepill betas, not actual homosexual men. Louis CK and Bill Burr explain that shit perfectly.

2014-06-04T01:39:29+00:00

the biggest perpetrators of harm against women are other women.

NoLongerSisyphus · 2014-06-04T00:39:44+00:00

Feminist: "YOU can't use that word... That's OUR word."

HolographicWhaleTail · 2014-06-04T00:35:52+00:00

First noticed this in the 6th grade when I got a referral to the principal's office for using the word "bitch". My teacher went on about how it was offensive to women and I couldn't believe my ears. My argument was "they say it more than me!"

jacks1000 · 2014-06-04T00:29:38+00:00

I can't recall ever hearing a guy refer to a gal as a "slut" other than in anger when a girlfriend cheated; a woman who was cheated on would likely refer to him as a "cheating asshole" or a "prick."

"Slut Shaming" is something that blue pillers and feminists pretty much just make up, part of their usual masochistic projections.

RAL9000 · 2014-06-03T22:11:07+00:00

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FeelLikeFlexing · 2014-06-03T23:42:24+00:00

Personally, I don't name call in general. Even in heated arguments. But obviously, women will call themselves sluts, or whores, or bitches or whatever. The hypocrisy is expected from them considering they are naturally immature beings (Read: most responsible teenager in the house).

knitro · 2014-06-03T22:51:37+00:00

I think you're generally right, in that there's a lot more invective when women use the word. I'm trying to think of an equivalent male on male term, the closest I've come up with is douche. If a girl calls you that it means one thing, if a guy does it can mean another (but this isn't perfect).

I'll use the term slutty, but when I say it doesn't necessarily have a hateful feeling behind it. It's a descriptor (really just means promiscuous) which isn't inherently bad or the hallmark of a bad person (sluts are fun!), but it might help explain when I don't see someone fit for a longer term commitment.

"How come you aren't hanging out with Ashley anymore?"

"She's a fun girl but she's a bit too slutty to date seriously"

Using it in this context I've never had any one object to my word choice. It implies I know her and her behavior well enough to make the judgement. Contrast it with:

"Oh my god Kelly slept with him last night, she's such a slut"

This one removes the context and goes straight for a pejorative. It's more problematic.

Most people don't acknowledge these nuances.

TorontoMike · 2014-06-04T07:18:06+00:00

I always love The Red Pill for giving me an epiphany about my life.

That all the men and women i have known have been using the exact same term with different meanings to it.

All the times I can think of guy friends using the term slut or slutty ( out side of times just to insult a woman ) has been as a description with out that great of judgement . The term "Friends with benefits" or "Sex Positive women" would be the Feminist PC term now a day She is the baseball team's slut , the town slut , she is a bit of a slut

Meant as a warning to the other guy, You better wear a condom and don't go announcing your wedding plans and buying a ring for it is not going to last that long. The bad connotations only being the slut is beneath you if you are looking for love and romance and a relationship.

One rung down but not the bottom of humanity.

To a women the slut is the bottom of humanity, I have seen them say it with venom when they accuse her of stealing a boyfriend or a crush and it is meant that the woman will have sex with anyone , your boyfriend your husband , your brother your father. The slut is the lowest of the low. I have seen a group of women go from BFF besties to doing and saying the cruelest things that I would not do to my worst enemy.

So yeah you are not the only one .

121895 · 2014-06-04T04:02:11+00:00

Female friends? Sorry, doesn't compute. I refuse to accept that women make genuinely good friends. Even the women I was friends with benefits with were just the benefits and not the friend.

Brad_Wesley · 2014-06-04T07:04:42+00:00

Yup. My guy friends will use the word slut sometimes, but not in the way women use it. I'll give in example:

Guy 1: Hey, what are we doing tonight?

Guy 2: Man, drinking i guess, but I have to bring my girlfriend

Guy 3: Tell her to bring some friends

Guy 2: Yeah, she has a few friends coming

Guy 1: Are they sluts

Guy 2: Yeah

Guys 1 and 3 :Awesome.

Starrucca · 2014-06-04T00:35:17+00:00

In my circle of friends, we generally refer to girls as hoes or clowns. Occasionally a hewer, only If she's reallllllllll nasty will we call her a slut.

Nerf_Circus · 2014-06-04T03:27:46+00:00

I heard it last night, I haven't seen this posted yet so maybe I'm off base. Guys would only use slut, for women they can't or don't plan on sleeping with. Betas love the word, as there are so many girls riding the CC that they can never have. Girls use it for all women but themselves. It rises their value, the pot wouldn't call the kettle black so calling someone else a slut, means they aren't a slut.

Guy and girls both have double standards in that way.

niczar · 2014-06-04T06:07:24+00:00

Something I noticed a long time ago. When someone asks a French woman (I'm French) if a friend of hers is hot, she will either say "elle a du charme" (literally, she has unspecified attractive qualities) or "elle est un peu vulgaire" (she's a bit of a slut). The first one actually means "she's uglier than me", and the second means "she's hotter than me."

Crimson_Rot · 2014-06-04T06:24:45+00:00

Ya picking up a chic from her FLOC at a pub, and they sarcastically call her a slut and an easy lay

POOR_IMPULSE_CONTR0L · 2014-06-04T07:27:29+00:00

Ratchet ass bitch

2014-06-04T00:11:58+00:00

I use "whore" often but you wont hear that coming out of my mouth in public too much.

I know and care about what I want in a partner and I refuse to accept anything less; no hoes, only homemaker material, and considering I'm not even getting minimum wage right now that's not happening too soon.

I think it's untrue that women exclusively try to manipulate women in the sexual marketplace, they're manipulation is supply side my manipulation is demand side. they're trying to keep the value of their product high through advertizing value and denigrating the value of the competition. I'm trying to trying to find a better product and make that product more well known for it's quality thus increasing demand and hopefully production making it more common and lower in value so that it is more available to the everyman which would make those that don't meet those standards plummet in value. I know that society at large deserves a better product. I don't want this whoring to snowball anymore because in 15-20 years I plan on having kids and I don't want this for them.

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