Dating a formerly fat chick

Cold_August · 2014-01-14T17:27:30+00:00

I've dated a hot girl that resented the special treatment due to the hotness, I've dated a former fatty that wasn't hot that had the biggest sense of entitlement of any girl I'd met.

Hurgurka · 2014-01-14T17:35:08+00:00

The problem you're going to find is that as a fatty she still had orbiters and probably still got action, if she's looking good now her hamster will be going into overdrive. She'll want twice as much attention, money, time and will put out half as much as she'll think she's god's gift.

If this is an IRL dilemma go with the naturally hot one, if someone got fat once there's always a chance they'll do it again.

catlkthief · 2014-01-14T19:45:07+00:00

It wouldn't be a good idea OP. I know a girl that was way chubby back in the day and lost serious weight into her 20's. I was there for the progress. While fat she would day dream about getting guys. Fast foward a year, she's super skinny and pretty. now there are guys around her and what does she do? Bang every SINGLE ONE OF THEM. She knows she's got it going on, she now wants dates, wants dudes with money, she's making up for all her lost time. The worst of all if you were to meet a ex-chubby down the line as LTR status you'd think she'd have that ugly duckling syndrome thought her mid 20's and doesn't have a tumultuous past. She's an ex fattie too, so once she got a beta hook line and sinker guess what's going to happen? She's going to get fat again because she can, cuz the beta will always look at her as that pristine young girl he met and how in his eyes he's finally the one banging the hot chick and he'll be okay with that.

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culofiesta · 2014-01-14T22:23:37+00:00

The problem I see is what I call "fat mind". Some people, no matter how much weight they lose and no matter how good of a shape they're in, are just a couple of weeks away from being morbidly obese again. Their brain still thinks like a fat person and they lost weight through serious discipline and self denial rather than just a need for self improvement or health. If they slack on the effort in the slightest they'll be a hamplanet again.

They don't lose weight, they just go through short periods where they aren't fat but they'll regain it back because their mind is broken.

pcadrian · 2014-01-14T19:07:21+00:00

girls who used to be fat and then slimmed down

They make great partners, as in their mind they often still see themselves as fat, and haven't been corrupted by all the attention attractive women get on a regular basis. Definitely the better choice, but por que no los dos?

whiskey_bearfist · 2014-01-14T19:39:07+00:00

depends entirely on the girl. ive met smokin hot girls with good values who are great to be around, and former fatties who worked hard but use it to get validation.

i say fuck em both, and screw an LTR.

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PaulRivers10 · 2014-01-14T21:31:01+00:00

I don't think there's any problem with it. You have some risks, but hardly have more risks than you would have with any other woman - she might regain the weight later, her fatness might have been holding back her sex drive and now she'll sleep with everyone, etc - but the thing is, these aren't really any more risky than the risk you have with any other chick.

There are no unicorns. If she's attractive now and you're into it, I wouldn't let anything hold me back.

Title	Dating a formerly fat chick
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	January 14, 2014 5:23 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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