Did I handle this correctly ?

bouba_al · 2015-09-11T11:02:00+00:00

Big test. Best result: Agree and Amplify.

"I know, my tits are better than yours!"

therougepill · 2015-09-10T22:43:30+00:00

And I know that I'm trying to lose weight , it's the effort that matters.

Uh actually no. No one gives a shit about the effort. Don't try to lose weight. Lose weight. It's not rocket science. Work out. Eat less.

mooseman44 · 2015-09-10T21:05:03+00:00

I would've responded: "maybe I could borrow one of yours".

nomoreusernames678 · 2015-09-10T21:08:46+00:00

My suggestion is to give the impression that her opinion is irrelevant. Make joking comments that tell her you don't give a shit about what she says. Ask her if she's jealous of your superior cup size.

imadazhell · 2015-09-10T23:33:00+00:00

...and just let her have the last word and continue to ignore her for the rest of the class. I know what I'm doing .

No, you dont. Why would you ignore a chick who tried to bust your chops? First word out of my mouth would have been a funny comment like "You mean for my moobs"? Then lick my index fingers and rub my nips. Make her laugh, hold frame, control the game.

UniversalFapture · 2015-09-10T23:35:08+00:00

I realize a great body won't be handed to me and I must work for it like I've done for the past 3 years

Its the effort that matters

You are lying to yourself. You obviously don't want to hear this otherwise you would have figured it out for yourself but if you still have man tits after three years of 'hard work'. Your idea of work is a joke.

It's all about results, no prize for effort in the real world mate so get on r/fitness, track macros and get into shape.

With regards to how you handled the situation, I have found that direct insults in relation to the appearance of oneself are best combatted with the agree and amplify technique followed by a small retaliatory quip not a silence that can be associated with being moody and losing frame.

4benny2lava0 · 2015-09-11T05:09:12+00:00

Agree and escalate.

I do need a bra. You look like you dont need one. Maybe we can help eachother out.

golden_canary · 2015-09-11T18:33:57+00:00

I think you handled this correctly. She should not have insulted you, and no matter the gender or excuse she makes, being mean is being mean. That being said, you can't let anger get the best of you every time someone is mean. People are going to bully you (and everyone) your whole life, but the best thing to do is ignore it. Not only will you be happier for letting it go, but it will irk your antagonizers to know that you don't care. At the end of the day she was just trying to get a response from you and you defeated her by not giving one.

Also, good luck with the weight loss. It's very hard to lose weight, and it's even harder when you're in the process. You're doing everything right, eating healthy and exercising but no one can see it yet. You'll show her when she comes pining when you look like a 10.

Title	Did I handle this correctly ?
Author	UniversalFapture
Upvotes	0
Comments	24
Date	September 10, 2015 8:53 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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