What up ladies lol

been married for 3 years, i am not gonna lie me and the ol had had good times. On a real note though, for 3 years i've been asking her to clean/cook/workout... Zero! always says she'll do it but she don't. Last night i tried to talk about it and she tried to flip the switch went to her room saying she didn't want to talk about it, so i said look i'm out, we're done. She came back and gave me full grief, crying drama etc. So i said you need to meet my needs that i've been asking about for 3 damn years or i'm out, she said ok cool i will but we still gotta go through the baby making (we have no kids). I said we'll put the kid making process on hold until i see change in your behavior because right now i'm not getting any, so she said "nope, no deal" and went to bed last night. So i went ahead and booked a ticket, packed up and when she called me from work today i was at the airport, she lost it!! crying, multiple texts/calls begging me to stay. I was at the gate fellas when there was technical issues with the plane and they cancelled my flight, so i called her and said come get me so she left to come get me. We get home and she's in the best behavior I've ever seen from her, i said i still wasn't staying so she kept begging so i said look go speak to my mom and have a talk with her about what just happened, i needed a second opinion. after their conversation is over, my mother calls me and she says she feels sorry for me, that my wife sounds manipulative and that she upset her but it's my choice.

Guys i don't know what to do here, everything she asks of me i do it but all i want is a clean house/a home meal and a wife who works out. am i asking for much here?