DO NOT GIVE IN

Bear-With-Bit · 2017-06-07T04:46:58+00:00

trying to keep above the power struggle

Power is freedom to walk away.

The sex is amazing tho

Trust me, brother, you've already had the best she can give to you.

MRPFuckMe1 · 2017-06-07T04:50:17+00:00

Haha! I fucking like you. No homo...

In the interest of advice, I'd say just stop texting. If she gives you shit, just say the arrangement didn't work out and leave it at that. You're ready to next her anyway.

LouisdeHeisenberg · 2017-06-07T03:40:18+00:00

Tough situation. I'd start with responding to her nude texts. That way she knows that she'll get what she wants when she sends what you want. Don't let the sex distract you, you're not in the proverbial bed every second of your relationship, you're in a real relationship that's not based on sex.

SkorchZang · 2017-06-07T06:06:39+00:00

Give an inch, she'll take a mile. Important stuff to know for any man.

The bigger problem in your situation with the GF is how she thinks she is entitled to certain things from you, and entitled to demand what she thinks she's owed. You're in the kind of politician position, who is hit from all sides by loudmouth SJW's demanding this and that (all of it ridiculous), but the politician doesn't give a shit that it's ridiculous, he wants the SJWs to go away more. They make him fear for his reputation being tarnished, with their loud noises. "Fuck it, maybe unicorn IS a gender. Makes no fucking difference to me. Just make them go away."

You're that politician, man. Bad place to be, in the age of the SJW woman. It doesn't matter if your GF hasn't asked you to chop your dick off yet, to help the starving children of Somalia develop a healthier, more peaceful gender identity. She's operating using the same exact psych playbook. You're falling for it because you're in her frame of reference, not in your own. You're reacting, she's establishing all the ground rules. The fear is real, and the annoyance that you dunno where to throw it, to get it outta your face, is the flipside of the suppressed fear (no one wants to admit his GF scares him).

She's only able to do all these things and annoy you that much because of the specific fears you've got on board, and do not want to face. Think about the ways she scares you: maybe it scares you she could leave. Maybe like the politicians, you don't want it getting out of hand and all over your friend's facebooks. Maybe it's some complex Herr Doktur Freud shit where your GF somehow reminds you of your mother deep down and you're scared mother will abandon you, so as her baby you'll be helpless and die. Could be all of the above, all working together, and more, but the answers if you want some, are all in that direction! GF is feeding off of your annoyance, anger, she can unconsciously tell when it gets under your skin and will keep on doing more and more of those things to test you to the limit. It's what all girls do in the situation. Shutting it down can be as simple as turning that valve and delivering no more vulnerabilities for her to feed off of. Those demands of hers will be shushed all on their own, without you saying a thing about them. The problem is finding that valve in the muck of old fears that run you without your knowledge and who knows what, can be tricky.

The bottom line is: your deep, hidden and semi-forgotten problems are surfacing. All thanks to little sweet her, doing her job of taking you apart so very well. Besides being extremely annoying it's also extremely useful. You get a good shot at fixing a lot of those previously buried problems for good, whereas last time you faced them you had to kinda cover them up with the old leaves and bushes, then pretend there's nothing to see there and that you're just fine with never thinking about any of that ever again.

Merwebb · 2017-06-07T04:55:28+00:00

Stop texting and dont give explanations. If she sends nudes again, good for her, but the texts are gone for good.

DeathToTheZog · 2017-06-07T06:18:14+00:00

You are thinking wrong. Who gives a fuck what beta bux does? Who cares if she wants you to text more?

You are not in your own frame. Get there. Sounds like some highschool bullshit.

TrogRP · 2017-06-07T05:49:43+00:00

IM THE BAD GUY FOR NOT INITIATING TEXTING BLAH FUCKING BLAH.

Well according to TRP we are aware that women often rely on attention as a way to prop up their self esteem.

she thinks its fine for HER not to text me when shes out with friends. Its fine for HER to miss a day of texting. Its fine for HER to be busy through the day but still expect texts from me.

This chick sounds like she doesn't give a single fuck about anything but validation from you, which in your case is texts and sex. I'd highly consider nexting, this type of one sided bullshit only shows that she won't respect your needs and will try to use you as an emotional crutch going forward. She's forcing you to give undivided attention for access to her body. She has the power. NEXT.

kealh · 2017-06-07T02:35:13+00:00

You clearly didn't train her properly. Though, I do not know how to handle this situation.

Redteen224 · 2017-06-07T05:47:30+00:00

Ahaha every single girl I have ever spoken to has complained about my texting habits. In the end you have to decide what you want out of your relationship and how you handle that.

Jax77789 · 2017-06-07T06:47:43+00:00

You sure this is not just a shit-test ? Just tell the bitch she has to fuck you better if she wants more attention. Or just dump her, depends on how much you value her relative to your mental peace.

edwardhwhite · 2017-06-07T07:43:19+00:00

RIP ME TO PIECES PLEASE

You already did it, brother

nyamiraman · 2017-06-07T08:46:04+00:00

I've been that beta bux that texted the LTR all day, would get my balls kicked in for falling asleep before her, berated and dumped. Luckily i'd never beg for her to come back, keep my cool, she'd always apologise. Texting is for losers who have nothing to do all day. Soft next this one.Been there, there's nothing more you can get from her.

keysomea · 2017-06-07T09:38:34+00:00

Nexting seems like the best advice

Title	DO NOT GIVE IN
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Upvotes	15
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Date	June 7, 2017 2:10 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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