Do you automatically assume guys who aren't attracted to younger women are beta?

[deleted] · 2013-07-25T15:52:45+00:00

Just curious about your thoughts. Personally it seems beta as fuck to change your preferences in women just because some other guy said "you should fuck younger chicks." Who are you to tell me what to do with my dick?

Like you, I find older women very sexually attractive. Fortunately for me, I also find younger women very sexually attractive, but I see where you're coming from.

I also see what you're missing. When you see advice like this:

Don't waste your time. Fuck younger women.

The speaker assuming that you'd rather fuck younger women than older women—most men do, after all. In other words, what they're really saying is:

Don't waste your time. Pursue the women you find most attractive. Don't let western society's shaming of men's natural sexual preferences prevent you from pursuing younger women, if they're what you want.

DaddyMonster · 2013-07-25T16:20:29+00:00

While exceptions may exist, every single man I've ever met who had a spouse who was older than him was certifiably blue pill beta, despite staying fit, having a good job, lifting, being popular and having younger girls chase after him, blah blah. My oldest brother is a prime example, and he got divorce raped big time. Why? He wasn't dominant enough with her, and he accepted too much shit from her.

The things mentioned above, staying fit etc, do not make you alpha. You can be famous, ultra fit and ultra wealthy and still be beta as fuck. Alpha is much more of a mindset than anything else. Being fit, wealthy, etc, facilitates that mindset, but if you're meek, unselfish, accept shit and let her call the shots, you're still beta even if you're famous and wealthy.

If you came across an entire forum of guys who said you were wrong for liking younger women you would want to know why they were so mislead, whether you asked them or not.

Wrong. Wouldn't care. At all. There's the validation bit for you.

Look, you post follows the normal pattern of "here's an personal anecdote. AHA! GOTCHA! Explain yourselves!"

TRP is concerned with the lowest common denominators for human behaviour. There will be statistical outliers that defy the norm, but those do not detract from the soundness of TRP.

If you're happy, then good for you. No one here gives a fuck.

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AlwaysLateToThreads · 2013-07-25T18:05:51+00:00

It's called personal preference. Fuck whoever genuinely makes you horny and happy.

enticingasthatmaybe · 2013-07-25T15:32:56+00:00

Do you automatically assume guys who aren't attracted to younger women are beta?

No, but seeking validation on the internet certainly is.

[deleted] · 2013-07-25T19:07:10+00:00

Most men are attracted to younger women - whether or not most men can get with younger women (young in general) is something else.

P.S I'm not into using Greek words to label people. Or any other words ftm. Alpha, beta, delta, gamma, omega - what's next?

icallmyselfmonster · 2013-07-25T19:43:29+00:00

There is a school of thought that male sexuality can be imprinted at a certain age. I often feel outlier behavior is through exposure at a young age. In my own case I see it in myself.

I have a close friend who is into older women, he have been molested by his nanny.

I do find men though that like women of the same age or older are often just conforming to social conditioning.

The_PUA_Punanny · 2013-07-25T21:16:46+00:00

I'm 31 now and my fiancee is 35.

That part is beta. Get ready to spend the next 20 years as slave to the result of her biological clock.

Never get married.

brotential · 2013-07-25T16:31:36+00:00

While your situation is rare, I could believe it happens.

I have a couple of friends who are the exact same way

Now the limits of credibility are being stretched. Out of the 3 of you, I'd wager at least 2 are lying.

Ask yourselves the following questions. If your older GFs suddenly said, "Actually I am only 21", would you suddenly lose attraction for them? If a hot girl you assumed was 21 told you she was 35 would you suddenly be attracted to her?

If you look into it a lot of famous guys are married to women older than they are. How do you explain this?

These women are beards.

Oh, and liking older women isn't beta. What makes one beta in this context is pursuing older women because one knows the younger women are out of one's league.

Veritisia · 2013-07-25T17:00:03+00:00

ITT: If you are asking a question on the internet, without context (because you can never have context on the internet) you are asking for others to validate your opinions.

Everyone gets high from time to time and goes on the redpill but keep that high mind to yourself, it is beta to everyone that doesn't know you. I made myself realize this while high. Cannabis reduces some of your beta inhibitions and will make you look more beta because it looses your lips. And if your not stoned, and you posted, your most likely beta. For those redpill faggots that hate weed, tits of gtfo.

Title	Do you automatically assume guys who aren't attracted to younger women are beta?
Author	kdzomb
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Comments	15
Date	July 25, 2013 3:25 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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