At the beginning. Or ever.

"but I really like her, shes different dude, maybe if I keep pushing to see her, call & text all day, snapchat her, retweet and like her last Facebook post, she'll agree."

Alright I'll keep this really simple.

Many of us have been like that at one point, or a couple. It's merely the natural process of transforming from a needy pussy to a dick.

Stick this in your skull before you think of sticking it in her, when a girl is interested in you, assuming you're not one ugly needy mofo and have a decent personality, she will literally do ANYTHING to talk, see and seks you.

What im trying to say is, Extra Effort is really unnecessary.

Why?

Because you actually have less power than you think. She has all the power in letting you in, literally.

If you're thinking of "new ways" to attract her and make her like you, you're just wasting your time and being needy.

And when you start putting that Extra Effort, whether it be texting or face to face, you'll just end up looking needy and unattractive.

"But dude, if I don't put any effort, things will just end ."

Nope, things will Just End because she wasn't interested in you in the first place and your Extra Effortz would've gotten you a First Class ticket to Orbit-ion, on UA.

So what do I Do?

Don't push it if you want to do that later.

Pull out if you're already being needy, also do that later.