Advice to other men of the Redpill.

It's a tough world we live in. Society has led us to believe that marriage is the golden ticket to happiness; Be a good providing husband and you will live happily ever after. The glorious Disney movie delusion. As many of you have realized, this is not reality.

A solution needs to be found, however I see some extremely disturbing trends taking place on this forum and being given as advice to other so called “beta” men intended to solve their problems. I am here to give some of my own tips to prevent you from being a dumbass or going down the same path to failure.

Tip #1 Stop blaming women for all your problems. This system is one that was mostly created by society rather than by nature. The alpha male succeeds because we (men) created a competitive, possessive, dog eat dog society where only a few come out on top. Women did not create all your problems. Yes, modern feminism is garbage, don’t be the male equivalent of it.

Tip #2 Stop thinking that you will solve the problem by making yourself “alpha”. Only a small number of people can ever be on top in this system at a given point in time. The ones that are naturally alpha are almost always going to win in the end. Don’t play a losing game unless you are naturally capable of far more than you have realized in life so far and have the genes to back it.

Tip# 3 Stop thinking that muscles, money, and the mid-life crisis sports car are going to make you the top dog. Material crap gets women that are no more than the objects they value so much. It’s not being alpha, it’s being a good corporate tool and feeding a system that made you a loser in the first place.

Tip# 4 Stop removing your ability to have children or considering it a non-option. If you really dislike kids fine but removing one of your main life purposes because you are struggling in modern society is just accepting defeat and in my opinion the ultimate sign of weakness. If nothing else, find a surrogate and raise a kid to make a world you want to live in.

Tip #5 Stop insisting on women with a low partner count, this is another massive sign of weakness. Nothing says I can’t handle competition more than keeping women in a little sheltered bubble your basement. Monogamy didn’t work? Why not try alternative relationships? Again, the system is the problem not sex history. Innocent women will still leave you for an upgrade in a broken system, regardless of their partner count.

Tip #6 Stop following the rules of society. You fail as a beta so you try to become the alpha? Why not live outside of the system entirely? Make your own rules, find someone who thinks like you do.

Tip#7 Push your comfort zone, take risks. Living outside the norm is not easy. People are followers. Create your own reality but realize it will take risk and tons of hard work. Instead of wasting countless hours at your work making money you don’t need and countless hours in the gym to make muscles that still won’t make you alpha, try to learn a new way to think and live.