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-15

STDs = battle scars. Sex is like football, why do I do it and risk my body? for the game.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 08:27 AM
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One of the biggest flaws of TRP is thinking sex is so meaningful. Consider it like a great back massage and you will start to not give a fuck. Then women will give more of a fuck about you in turn. GG
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 08:26 AM
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Right on, I understand. Just lead and learn from mistakes, it is the path to knowing what you want in life.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 08:02 AM
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both are beta, you basically said what do you want to do about this relationship? and she said lets stay together and not sleep with others for no reason.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 07:35 AM
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Why leave the decision up to her, you are already beta. I would do don't ask don't tell until she gets back. If it works when you are together again, it means your relationship was strong, if not you are better off anyway. Basically 6 months apart never happened or it ends a soon to end relationship.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 07:17 AM
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Why not make it open for six months? whats the point of long distance?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 06:17 AM
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While I agree with some of this post, religion and a return to traditional values are not the direction we need. Humanity does need a cause or something to believe in, a diety that was thought up by people thousands of years ago is not that cause. Let's find a worthy one instead of believing in a glorified santa claus.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 07:57 AM
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I drove not only one but two 1991 Honda Civics around back to back and got laid constantly with grade A pussy. What does that make me?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 12:48 PM
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Why the hell would you want a vasectomy at 23. Your doctor is right, you are a dumb-ass. Might as well get a giant dick tattooed on your forehead while you are at it to make up for you lack of being a man in control of his destiny.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 11:59 AM
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You are as intelligent as a sack of rocks and judgmental to boot. Go hide in a Sunday school or something, the world is too hard for you.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 07:14 AM
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for example you completely ignored the fact that I said both become more efficient with gym time and focus on health. You read what you want to read.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 11:38 AM
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because you need a fresh perspective
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 11:21 AM
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reading stuff that reinforces your point of view isn't a new perspective.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 11:19 AM
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I have been traveling the world for 10 years, slept with over 100 women, and have a gf that is 8 years younger than me. pretty close guess, blinders ftw
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 11:16 AM
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Thats because you still can't understand the value of seeing the the world from a perspective besides your own.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 11:15 AM
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Explain to me how you plan to travel the world in a meaningful way while you work 50 hours a week for the man on 2 weeks of vacation a year. 2 weeks of travel is a nicely packaged escape from reality. It never actually becomes your reality. As such, your perspective is hardly altered. Time is a limited resource, read the post again a few more times to understand.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 10:42 AM
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When is the last time you learned about a new way to look at the world? A new philosophy on life? Read a book that changed your outlook on life? 5 hours a week isn't so much time though. Some guys are going every day for 2 hours, plus all the time they spend maintaining their muscle and looking in the mirror. Let's not forget the diet required to get jacked. It just gets silly.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 10:33 AM
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12 hours = combined gym and work time plus driving around to do so.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 09:55 AM
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All of this is just great and dandy, fairly obvious stuff for me to be frank. The real problem still remains. If you consider one of your life purposes to have kids, how do you do that successfully without marriage. For me marriage is not much more than that, a way to have kids. If I didnt want kids, no chance I would get married.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 08:57 AM
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Broscience is great. Religion is trash, end story
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 10:42 AM
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It's not defeatist. I just don't play by the rules, instead I make my own.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 04:39 AM
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No it's not that you will always be beta. It is that you will always be beta if you play by the same rules as everyone else. Its cool bro, go drink your protein shakes and learn MMA, maybe then you can become a real "alpha".
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 04:38 AM
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PUA is where you got most of the clever ideas on this forum. The rest is the conservative trash red pill tacked on after they stole those ideas.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 04:36 AM
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You put yourself securely into the zone of friends.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 03:50 AM
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You have a lot to learn, grasshopper.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 03:23 AM
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Compare muscles, money, and clothes to going to your local plastic surgery clinic and getting a big fake dick. If a woman had a choice, would they pick a real, genetically awesome dick, or your fake dick? Further, would they pick a genetically awesome dick or the mind that controls it? Work on your mind, not your fake dick.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 03:19 AM
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I have nothing to do with BP, let's just say I have an extensive history in seduction and pickup. Red Pill is a toxic weak version of pickup theory full of conservative losers that lost at their own game. It's not all bad advice but there is so much toxicity that it makes me sick.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 03:16 AM
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I never said I was a red piller, nor do I have any desire to be so. I am not looking for a unicorn or any other fairy tale Disney bullshit. I want a realistic relationship that makes life pleasurable and allows me to produce good offspring. Your problem is that you can't adapt to changes in society and you stink of fear. If you really want this strategy to work for you are going to have to move to the middle East or go back in time.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 02:48 AM
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None of these things are even close to being on top. GM at Taco Bell? Wtf. the MVP was he natural alpha who practiced just as hard as the beta who couldn't compare. It's a losing game. Muscles, clothes and money are a sure way to being fake alpha, I know because I have none and steal women constantly from guys who have all three. Stop playing by the rules society wants you to, it's not getting you to where you want to be.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 02:43 AM
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what's not? monogamous relationships seem pretty damn zero-sum to me.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 02:38 AM
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Because I don't primarily equate sex with value or purpose in a relationship. I also don't look at the woman I am with as an investment or property. Sex is a chemical release. With the invention of the condom, sex is not so incredibly different from a massage. Imagine your woman has fucked 30 other guys that were exact copies of yourself. Would you still feel insecure? Likely not. The real issue is that society is becoming every man (and woman) for themselves. We fear other people because we thi…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 05:52 PM
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This is the society we (men) created. Women are just finally a part of the madness. Don't blame the players, blame the game.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 03:32 PM
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What about sigma mode? is that like clint eastwood?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 09:32 AM
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why are we answering questions with more questions?
/r/askTRP30/04/16 06:23 PM
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What if I just want to see what the men of red pill think and don't need an answer to the question at all?
/r/askTRP30/04/16 06:21 PM
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what is she providing you at this point besides comfort? Demote her back to casual ass, never elevate her again.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 06:19 PM
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how did you sleep with most nationalities?
/r/askTRP30/04/16 06:15 PM
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says the guy who slept with 2
/r/askTRP30/04/16 06:13 PM
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train hard but realize there are far more important things in life. 80/20 principal. Greek philosophers lived in a violent unsafe world compared to now broski.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 07:40 AM
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deep, not following in the damn gym to the gym. It means they think going to the gym is the answer because some other meaty bro told them so.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 07:38 AM
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truthfully I think the term alpha is silly, I used it to see what people think when I combine it with an idea that is not silly. results are interesting. such as the dumbass below who didn't even notice the content just the alpha part. I'm more interested in the concept of "Uberman" than I am of "alpha" ;)
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 07:30 AM
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it's not friction, it's useless babble. give me something with an ounce of smarts and we can have a conversation.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 07:27 AM
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What value does your comment add to the world? go back to your Cheetos.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 02:40 PM
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The problem is time. You have a limited amount to dedicate. Priorities are real.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 02:39 PM
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I am hot. Again, perception is everything.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 02:07 PM
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I have, knowledge trumps it any day. It is a factor though but not as large a one as people here seem to think. Ask yourself this, when someone follows other bros to the gym thinking it will make them alpha, are they following someone else or creating their own world?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 02:06 PM
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There are many ways to become powerful, muscles in the modern age are not even close to one of the best. Hardly anyone even talks about knowledge around here.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 01:58 PM
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I like it.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 05:58 PM
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I'm not looking for an answer to copy. I'm looking to understand others.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 05:04 PM
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what would be a measure for success then.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 03:39 PM
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at what point do you feel like you have you achieved what you intended to?
/r/askTRP21/04/16 03:31 PM
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Yea tough call here. I want kids but I want other women.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 04:13 PM
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Did you read my post? Look at criteria 2. In my case, I often sleep with women that are intellectually similar to me. Far more than I did before I made the realization this post talks about. There is more to seduction that just what you highlight though. Sometimes you there is a need to explore your sexuality. Sometimes there is a need to sleep with an utterly beautiful woman. Sometimes there is a need for an exciting, raw sexual encounter without the intellectual nature or deep connection. My c…
/r/seduction13/02/14 05:06 AM
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If I wanted to read tucker max, I would do just that.
/r/seduction01/02/14 02:28 AM
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Still not buying it.
/r/seduction31/01/14 04:40 PM
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This smells reeks of fabrication.
/r/seduction31/01/14 05:59 AM
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I think a few of the responses here are a bit off. It's not that you came on too strong or too weak. Rather I think you were lacking confidence and intent in what you did. Don't be a puppet performing the required steps on a girl to get in her pants. Get into the moment, feel her comfort level, respond dynamically. You will never come on too strong if you learn to read women better. Get them sexually turned on and then respond to their body. It seems to me that you were following a routine rathe…
/r/seduction31/01/14 05:25 AM
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I was playing with your words. It comes down to the reality. Both of us are uncomfortable with holding hands in public, even though we both say we shouldn't be. Status ultimately, is something you cant fully shed. I won't disagree that trying is a good thing though. The more you are able to disregard it, the more you can focus on what makes you happy about a woman. In reality though, a balance between status and physical attraction is what is best for most.
/r/seduction23/11/13 05:05 AM
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I've taken this a bit deeper and I think you are missing it a bit. That's the whole point of my post. Your standards are based on what? Social status or physical attraction/enjoyment? If your standards are based on enjoying them as you say happens when you become more secure and confident, why not hold their hand? Holding hands feels nice. If its cold, it keeps your hand warm. If you have high status anyway, who cares what other people think about your standards? You don't do some of these girlf…
/r/seduction22/11/13 11:35 AM
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I agree really with this, however I realized even though I have come a long long way in this regard, I am still susceptible to feeling pressure from society and status. It seems nearly impossible to totally shake off. As an example: I have been seeing a regular girl for about 6 months now. We have fantastic sex, I really like her smell, body, taste, curves, wetness, etc... She is the type of girl who I would define as providing me with intense sexual attraction. On the other hand, she is not ter…
/r/seduction22/11/13 09:45 AM
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I never said I wasn't with other girls. I've slept with about 20 since we broke up. Sleeping with three regulars at the moment. Some of them have been quite good. It's just that sexually, this girl was "that" good. Trust me.
/r/seduction29/10/13 02:34 PM
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I've slept with women from around 15 different countries or so and I have the following to recommend. Focus on communicating your intent or what you are trying to convey with lots of body language. If you are trying to be funny use body language to show it. Trying to be seductive, again body language. Slow down your speaking a bit especially enunciating final word sounds more. Ask interesting but simple questions and avoid intense sarcasm or inside/cultural jokes. Realize that beyond awkward bod…
/r/seduction12/09/13 04:32 AM
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So let me get this straight. A girl sits next you, says she wants to kiss you, FOLLOWS you after you leave, and grabs your dick to get you to come home with her. What in the world makes you think that you are taking advantage of her/doing something she would regret? Alcohol lowers inhibitions not turns someone into a mindless zombie. (unless they are black out drunk, in which case she would have been sleeping on a bench somewhere, not talking to you) She clearly just wanted to have sex with you …
/r/seduction04/09/13 03:13 AM
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Maybe he's just being honest about his ratings unlike 90% of the chumps on this seddit. Anyway even if not, whats wrong with a 7?
/r/seduction23/07/13 11:18 AM
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Yea I get that, however they generally at least try to give a semblance of femininity when you first meet them generally, especially when hot. Not always, but generally.
/r/seduction16/07/13 02:15 PM
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Why would you not want sex?
/r/seduction15/07/13 10:39 AM
-2

Girls really say "Ewww" and "fucking crazy or retarded?" Sorry, maybe sometimes but it sounds more like what a guy thinks girls say to me. (Or hopes)
/r/seduction09/07/13 10:59 AM
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When it comes to tales of prowess, men lie and exaggerate everywhere. When it comes to tales of prowess over the internet, men lie and exaggerate even more everywhere. The problem is that most FR's and stories with PUA's are so much of a dick measuring contest rather than providing useful information. The purpose of a FR is to teach others, not show how cool one is. It has gotten so bad with Seddit that I literally have to take -2 or -3 off practically every HB rating I read and cut out heaps of…
/r/seduction09/07/13 05:03 AM
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It seems unbelievable to me because the guy sounds cheesy as hell, the girls responses are in the same cheesy dialogue, and finally what respectable guy says "doll" himself up?
/r/seduction09/07/13 04:13 AM
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In the meantime, might want to check out the section of Mark Manson's book on fake alphas.
/r/seduction08/07/13 04:12 AM
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Good luck with that one Bro!
/r/seduction07/07/13 05:34 PM
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Don't react to it in a negative way. Just go with it, say "age is only a state of mind" etc... Currently dating sleeping with a girl 7 years younger and 9 years older than me. Age is only important if you think its important.
/r/seduction07/07/13 05:03 PM
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I completely disagree with this. Responding like this comes across as jealous and angry. It doesn't show how Alpha you are but rather how Alpha you are not. Best response: agree with her or use it to transition into a sexual discussion about her type of men.
/r/seduction07/07/13 07:09 AM
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The fact that you listed the brands of the cologne you wear, shows me that you are extremely caught up on material things. Being obsessed with materialism especially in a way that is used to get women, is typical of a strong lack of confidence and lack of experience. Brands and cologne are just crutches, stop trying to use them to get tail. As an example, I stopped using cologne about 3-4 years ago. I wear scented deodorant and nothing more. I also buy clothing without brand labels intentionally…
/r/seduction05/07/13 04:37 AM
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Yea that's basically the idea. A bro is a dude who hugely overcompensates for his lack of confidence by hitting the gym nonstop, mainly for the beach and appearance, tans, uses bro vocabulary because he doesn't want to seem "smart" which is perceived as non-masculine, and generally acts like a tool. These guys generally don't much to offer hence the over-compensation on appearance and "acting cool" Not saying you are one, just sounded like it a bit from the writing.
/r/seduction03/07/13 03:18 PM
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You see the problem with your response right? -She says there is no chemistry You say the kiss for her was great You say you are a 7 she is a 6 You say the kiss for you was great Something doesn't add up. Based on the admission that you made about chemistry, which of the next three responses would you say is most likely to be true and which are not? I'm going to put my money on 1 being the false statement and 2 being questionable. Speaking frankly there is one other possibility in my mind. She t…
/r/seduction03/07/13 02:59 PM
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Thinking that there is some kind of magical rule to getting girls is like thinking there is a magical pickup line. There are guidelines and even those are flexible. The game is mostly marketing and about cash. Not saying I didn't enjoy reading it, but I wouldn't take it too literally. Again I repeat, don't buy a drink to get something in return. As for myself, I never buy drinks as an approach to a girl. The reason for this is simple. Why would I want to buy a drink for a girl I don't even know …
/r/seduction03/07/13 02:31 PM
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I don't really agree with this. It's never so cut and dry that you must always follow the same rule. It really depends on why you buy that drink. Buy it because you want her to fuck you later and you just hurt your chances. Buy the drink simply because you want to and you are fine. The question is, how often do you really want to just buy someone a drink?
/r/seduction03/07/13 10:26 AM
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You are a confidence coach? What does that mean out of curiosity? How was the kiss? like was it boner good or just decent? How do you think the kiss was for her? Make her quite wet good or decent? Sounds like she possibly doesn't want a boyfriend at the moment (or an awkward work situation) and thought you wanted that from her. Make it clear you are not looking for really serious (unless you actually are). As for looks, would you say you are better looking than her or worse relatively?
/r/seduction03/07/13 10:10 AM
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Honestly, there are heaps of issues just from this short post I can see. You say you don't care about women, but then you get angry about not getting them and seeing "ugly" guys with them. This is a bit of denial if you ask me. I think you care about women far more than you realize. Second, If you only have an opener and then run out of things to say are you really an interesting person? When you are talking with your guy friends are you the kind of person who has a lot to say and can carry a co…
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:15 AM
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Hmm, I see. The swingers club thing still miffs me but I have to say, interesting responses. I'm honestly just surprised that so many women consider going to a swingers club especially on a first date? Maybe I have the wrong mental image of this club. Anyway, when it comes to women, what YOU find attractive is really key. In my case, I have also slept with quite a few women from online over the past few years. I mainly approach but now and then I find a hot girl through the internet. I usually g…
/r/seduction02/07/13 02:59 AM
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Sorry but this post just comes off as a bit strange to me. How does one go from being a virgin less than a year ago to deciding to take women to a swinger's club and banging them in front of strangers. Further, no offense but people that hang in swinger's establishements are usually a bit old, and relatively unattractive. Are we talking about 50 women of quality here or is this just a pure quantity thing? Last, don't you find playing get to know you games over the web slighty boring? Why not pla…
/r/seduction01/07/13 10:24 AM
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Seduction is just like other things in life. The more you do the better you get. The only part of seduction that I agree can be more luck (thus numbers game) is the initial phase. Even the initial phase can be greatly improved with practice but there are always going to be a percent of women you simply can't get. As such, more numbers are required to achieve a lot of results. As for dating and relationships though, these are not numbers games. These days I likely have probably around a 75% chanc…
/r/seduction20/06/13 11:29 AM
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Maybe hes just actually realistic unlike 95% of the posts on this seddit. If I didn't know better I could swear there is nothing less than HB8's in the world according to most FRs.
/r/seduction09/06/13 12:43 PM
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But in the case you don't have any red flags, nothing else positive? What if you have pictures of you from all over the world? Or photos of your artwork? or playing in a band? Or hiking Mount Everest? Other than not wanting tons of women to be part my personal life without knowing them well, I don't see much bad in it unless you are not that interesting or your profile sucks. If you think a really good job or being with other hot women is the only thing that you can impress women with, I think y…
/r/seduction04/06/13 04:52 PM
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You answered your own question, you've never been laid.
/r/seduction30/05/13 04:34 AM
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If you think this post is boiled down to honesty, you are truly delusional about yourself and the world around you. Try being "real" instead.
/r/seduction24/05/13 05:44 AM
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Let me summarize what you said so you see why I am being harsh: -when I was young almost all the girls liked me because of my wit, style, looks etc.. I just didn't know what to do yet. -later when I had this hb11 girlfriend, who was maybe the hottest girl in the world a true 11, she wanted me but I still didn't know what to do -Then i started fucking my neighbor and became a sex god, so much that she literally lost her mind. -Then I went back and fucked my hb11 exgirl (the hottest girl in the wo…
/r/seduction24/05/13 05:15 AM
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This is one of the most narcissistic posts I've read in ages. I'm actually amazed by how much you love yourself right now. I wonder when posts seddit will further break the 1-10 scale by labeling women as hb "12" or even "15". Bahahahah Anyway, I almost hope you have an STD to bring you down a few pegs like when you couldn't get it up but then that's pretty evil of me. If anything, you have HPV and that seems unlikely.
/r/seduction24/05/13 03:47 AM
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In fact, she just might. Read something recently where a guy was starting pickup with another skilled PUA who went out and told girls "Can I pee in your butthole." Brought a girl home the same night from this actual line followed by "I'm going to lick your butthole." Further, I live in Korea. When I arrived, I spoke almost zero Korean. Body language alone has enabled me to sleep with girls that basically spoke next to zero English. Correct body language and confidence makes magic happen.
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:23 AM
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She likes another guy, who cares? You like a girl so you feel guilty about liking another girl? Wtf is this? I probably like about 10-20 girls on average at a given time, who cares? Why can you only like 1 person at the same time let alone date 1 person or fuck 1 person at the same time? Is this a Disney Movie or some shit? Grow some balls, make a move. You are so far into the friendzone it scares me. Steps are simple 1. See cute girl 2. Share eye contact 3. Talk to cute girl 4. Ask cute girl ou…
/r/seduction22/05/13 02:59 AM
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Don't feel guilty in the least. Worst case scenario, you touched a girls breasts when she wasn't quite comfortable enough with you yet. Big deal, they are just boobs. Never make excuses for being a sexual being. Also don't try to hide or deny the fact that you are or you will just come off as creepy. "If you own it, women will come.. or cum"
/r/seduction21/05/13 12:07 PM
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This means your body language sucks or your confidence sucks. Again I repeat, what you are saying is not the reason you are getting shut down.
/r/seduction21/05/13 02:28 AM
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I like this. I've been gravitating towards being much more direct lately but more in situations where I can see she's into me. Less time wasted playing games this way. Usually I wait for a kiss before I mention my place but thats more of a date situation. I will try it out, see how it goes.
/r/seduction20/05/13 10:57 AM
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If you leave and come back and pretend you are a different person, you just went from being a can of easy cheese to a vat of mac and cheese.
/r/seduction20/05/13 10:38 AM
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I dont really agree with this. Most of the reason noobs fail with chicks is because they think they "need" an opener and "need" to say all the right things to not be placed in the friend zone. In reality you can say some pretty random shit but with the right body language and eyes that show with total confidence "I could have you" what you say is not incredibly relevant.
/r/seduction20/05/13 10:23 AM
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This reminds me of http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m20jajKIcy1r89ce5o1_400.jpg
/r/seduction20/05/13 05:22 AM
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There is no perfect opener. If there was, this would be far from it.
/r/seduction20/05/13 04:48 AM
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I get the point of an opinion opener. In the case that you actually interested in the response its fine. In this scenario, it was a good thing to start with and quite a good transition from the topic you were discussing. Now if you go out and use the same line 10 times tomorrow, it turns into canned cheese. Why talk at a girl without having a purpose in what you are saying. This is not communication, it's spewing cheese out of your mouth because you think it will get you laid. I don't agree with…
/r/seduction20/05/13 04:27 AM
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The problem is routines are generally lame. Unless you are totally obsessed with speedos and women's opinion on them, who wants to go around asking the same question all day? All your routines and kino and Mystery Method got you a bunch of giggling. Always be real, always be closing. The only routine you should be practicing is the one you use to get her to orgasm.
/r/seduction19/05/13 05:05 PM
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HB10 ZZzz this seddit. Anyway, I going to try to analyze this by giving you my observation of the story you told me. You met a hot girl, played a little game with her (not a bad move) then you proceeded to try to get an awkward hug from her for playing your game. (why would you hug someone for playing a game?) she probably thought you were weird at this point unless you had 100 percent confidence, and even then it would have still probably been weird. Next your questions about her were decent, s…
/r/seduction19/05/13 04:22 PM
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I love the seddit rating system. Last time i checked online dating sites the hottest woman in the whole damn city was like an hb8. I used to think it was -2 points on every hb rating on this site, now ive decided its -3
/r/seduction18/05/13 11:45 AM
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Never said it was hard, I just prefer to have a wing rather than game solo and I'm a bit tired of having wings that are scared to talk to girls unless they are hammered.
/r/seduction17/05/13 03:50 PM
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Canned cheesy crap. Reminds me of http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m20jajKIcy1r89ce5o1_400.jpg
/r/seduction16/05/13 03:01 PM
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They are saying this because you are making statements that are likely not truly how you feel but instead a way to validate yourself. As an example let's say you see a girl society would consider beautiful but you don't actually believe 100% deep down she is beautiful. When you say she is beautiful it's more to make you feel good that you are talking to her. Girls can read this, they sense it in your lack of conviction and body language. Try saying what you really feel about someone instead of w…
/r/seduction16/05/13 07:51 AM
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Confidence comes from different things for everyone, it could be a nice car, a nice body, good looks, experience, traveling, wisdom, etc.. Finding your own source of confidence is quite important. What makes you feel like you are a great person in life? What makes you feel more successful than those around you? As an example I will share my most important sources. For me the primary source of confidence has been experience in life. A large factor is experience with women but this extends to expe…
/r/seduction16/05/13 04:57 AM
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Genetics could be worth more for initial response/attraction but believe me, women are amazing at determining a guy's overall value beyond his looks. Not only are they good at this, but they do it faster than you would imagine. More than a few times, I have been out and approached a woman when I was too drunk or just having a bit of an off night. I kid you not, the woman would be extremely receptive for the first few seconds but as soon as I started talking, showed my body language, or indicated…
/r/seduction16/05/13 02:07 AM
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Nor is it your business to tell me what i can and cant do on reddit
/r/seduction14/05/13 10:58 AM
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You missed my point. If you tell a snowboarder you jumped a 50 foot jump when you in fact only did a 30 foot jump, he is more likely to give up, fail, or get hurt than land a 50 foot jump, based on his perceived notion of what is possible. This is especially true if he is a beginner.
/r/seduction13/05/13 06:33 PM
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The reason I even mention this is because with all the 8s and 9s everyone keeps talking about, some people are going to get totally unrealistic expectations from this site. From my experience with pickup, its generally at least -1 any time someone posts a field report to prove something. To sell something on the other hand, I would say minus 2 is a solid expectation.
/r/seduction13/05/13 06:03 PM
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9.5? photo. Too many 8s and 9s on this forum for me to believe it.
/r/seduction13/05/13 11:50 AM
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Good to have goals but I have to be straight, If you have oneitis over a girl you haven't even been with, you are far far from being alpha. Keep progressing, you will get there.
/r/seduction12/05/13 10:42 AM
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Haha, there's quite a bit of difference between being alpha and talking to a few girls in public. (about 2 years worth I would say). Nice job anyway.
/r/seduction09/05/13 02:41 AM
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Watch this if you are curious how to deal with more innocent girls or relationships in general that you are not willing commit to from traditional point of view. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V9owHXPPe_Q
/r/seduction08/05/13 05:29 AM
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Wait a second. I'm a bit curious why you are becoming narcissistic and developing inner game from girls giving you a bit of a attention. I don't mean to belittle you but did you even kiss any of the women that supposedly fell for you? What makes you think you were the only one they were interested in at the time? I see this a lot with guys that are a bit unused to attention and I realize it does in fact feel quite good to be noticed a lot, especially if you are not used to it. I think you are al…
/r/seduction08/05/13 04:43 AM
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Hmm, I don't really understand this. If you have wet dreams you are probably not lacking sex drive. What makes you say you don't have enough drive?
/r/seduction29/04/13 10:19 AM
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"The third time it luck was a big factor, met two women at a bar when out solo, went to a gay club with both of them and they and they brought me back to one of their apartments." I sat next to two chicks at the bar, started gaming one of them. They thought I was cute and took me dancing. After I went back with them and brought up the question game. I mentioned that I had been in a threesome before. It was smooth sailing from there. On this occasion though, one of the woman was leading the inter…
/r/seduction23/04/13 12:06 PM
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First let me say although I think the dual induction massage seems like a decent idea and is quite exotic, It's not really going to bridge the gap from 3 people hanging out to having threesome in most cases. If a girl is down for a dual induction massage, she is probably already down for the threesome. Most times, in my opinion, I think you need something more first to get things a bit more sexual. (unless the girls are both pretty freaky) Questions you can ask the girls... What is something cra…
/r/seduction22/04/13 02:43 PM
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I actually disagree with what you are saying here and it's not what i was implying. You are saying you should lie and then get the girls to compete for your dick. This will result in nothing but problems or an awkward situation. Instead you want the girls to feel like it's a three way exchange where everyone is getting something they want rather than a competition. Ideally, each person should want to hook up with the other two people as close to equally as possible
/r/seduction22/04/13 10:01 AM
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Having been in threesomes on three separate occasions now, I may be able to offer some insight. Two of the Three times I pulled it off, it was because I planted the idea in at least one of the two girls' mind prior to it happening. The third time it luck was a big factor, met two women at a bar when out solo, went to a gay club with both of them and they and they brought me back to one of their apartments. Plant the idea by somehow talking a bit sexually with the girl who is most interested in y…
/r/seduction22/04/13 04:57 AM
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Right on, everyone has different standards I suppose. In my case, I live in Seoul and if I go to the club with the hottest women in Seoul, (with lots of international runway models), even then, I would have a hard time saying the place is packed with 9's (though there are many of them). Anyway nice work with the field report :)
/r/seduction21/04/13 01:26 PM
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I don't mean to put a damper on your post but was this place really full of hb9's? I think people throw around HB8 and HB9 on this forum wayy too much. I mean I guess it really depends on your scale, but for me I rate girls simply by how often I would see that girl in a given month. If there are HB9's running around everywhere, you dont have much room between HB9 and HB10 which is damn near perfect. HB 5 average, see them everywhere. HB 6 average girl made up, bit above average, see them everywh…
/r/seduction21/04/13 01:05 PM
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Assuming you mean you are already past the early part of the date and escalation touching etc.. Best closing/get a girl to want to fuck me move is a combination of two things for me. 1. Similar to what robot army said, get good at teasing girls. In my case I do this with kissing. Kiss a girl a bit, nothing too deep, then pull back and look her in the eyes a bit, maybe give her a smirk. Kiss a bit more and then make sure you are the one who disengages from the kiss rather than her, make her want …
/r/seduction12/04/13 04:13 PM
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I agree with the OP on one aspect of his post but on another I strongly disagree. I disagree because even when I have regular and consistent sex in my life, it has remained an extremely important thing for me. I find that sex is one of the most important things in life, at least in my case, because it allows me to fully live in the moment. I can escape worrying about the past and future and appreciate the "now" like almost nothing else. It also allows for connection with another person in a way …
/r/seduction12/04/13 08:24 AM
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First time lay or 3rd or 4th time? In the case it's not a first time, I just ask them to shower with me. If they say why, just say it's to save water in a mischievous manner. :)
/r/seduction04/04/13 04:53 AM
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