I am talking to bit of hot girls right 7-8s maybe a 9. They 100% have orbiters around them. The question is if these women see them (including me) as options (potential partner/hookup) or merely ego boosts. The answer could be either but most of the time it’s going to be ego boosters.

If they hit you up on the regular and show genuine interest (yeah who knows, they may be lying) you are seen as an option. If they hit you up rarely, you’re an ego booster. This could be vise versa but that’s how it usually is.

If you are high value male and messaging/communication works around your schedule then you are seen as an option or even THE option. Still though, if you are a high value male you can still be used as a ego boost, it comes down to whether she actually likes you or not. If she would fuck, then she likes you. Otherwise you’re an ego boost that is in a pile of simps orbiting her and I advice you to leave. The other situation is being in a smaller category of options that she is willing to fuck/get with. That’s just how social media has it. They (even 6-7 type girls) have a lot of guys to choose from. You aren’t only messaging one girl and she isn’t only messaging one guy. The point is to decide whether you are an option (in her rotation) or an ego booster and act accordingly.

TL;DR Woman on social media have so many options (paradox of choice). You are either an option or a ego booster. You find out which one you are by seeing whether she is DTF or not.