I’ve read and experienced enough to understand some good things about women, life, and enjoying the best parts of them both while minimizing the negatives. I’m going to start posting as I’ve been gaming since my first gf broke up w me, and I searched “how to get a girlfriend” on the internet at like 17 years old.

I’m 21 been w a good amount of girls, the level of girl is not as constant as I’d like. But that’s why I’m here and posting. To put a number probably around 80 chicks. With like 15 of them being hot af. I wanted to post and share some of what I feel and believe to be what has helped me enjoy my time. And also things I’m pretty sure are my major sticking points.

Love this sub because I used to do dread game without even knowing it as a 14 yo. And would literally tell y gf that when I did that shit she was instantly more into me and how fucked that was. Little did I know I was actually right in what I was doing. And now looking back I realize how fucked society is because I used to get called jerk and asshole more times then I could count and the second I say to myself damn I should actually be a little nicer I’d get 0 play... reality is real bros, and like it or not most of the game info on this forum is real and right.

and hope there is some value in my post for y’all.

What’s awesome and will help in LIFE

  1. distinguish fake friends from true as day good ones who want the best from you,
    ———— if you don’t do this you’ll end up giving all that positive energy you need to enjoy your life to some sack of shit who will talk behind your back the second they get. PRO TIP: you’re to good for that Shit

  2. people’s egos are enormous —— given the opportunity I think most people would rather lie to themselves for the 1000th time, knowing that they are then even attempt to say that MAYBE they are wrong. But you cannot fight this, especially before someone values your opinion so don’t even try to tell some crazy bro or some chick some wholesome healthy advice that’s coming from a great place. Save that for you’re #real friends who love and appreciate you

  3. friends are your therapy —— remember how I said to distinguish those real friends from the fake ones. Hang out w them, call them, be good to them and use them.... not for your own gain, but to let out some steam, a real friend is happy to hear about something that’s on your mind, when you care enough to do the same for them, you’ve got a good mate on your hands, who will save your ass from going crazy overthinking about some bullshit, more times than you can count.

What will help in game

  1. At least go up and fucking chat for a minute. —- this is basic maybe to basic, but if your not even at a point where you can go up to people, and at least have like 5 pleasant exchanges that leaves them smiling your fucked bro. Some tips I have for this —— a) whatever you say needs to make YOU smile. Like dark humor express it. Don’t say something that would offput your grandma but be a little edgy that’s great. You’re a goofball like me? Say something like “so ladies are you always this cute or is it just tonight?” ——-b) start saying things for YOU, instead of others, make it relatable, but do it for YOU. You’re good energy will come back 10 fold in the way you view life and people view YOU. I literally talk to about 8/10 people I see even if it’s just one word.