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Spot on. Patrice preached this too, to deny them of your emotions so they have to feed off their own; let that hamster wheel spin out.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 04:32 AM
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Well that's a good attitude and response, I'll give you that. This place isn't very forgiving to 99% of posts like yours, so it was simply surprising to me. I didn't downvote you btw, but I sure as shit can't upvote this post. And I do wish you well on your red pill journey. Take all the advice here to heart, and don't ever try and hold a woman accountable for her misdeeds. It's a fool's errand. You can rub a dog's nose in its own shit to teach it to not shit in the house. Doesn't work with wome…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 04:21 AM
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how the hell is this guy's post 100% upvoted? It's needy as fuck and OP clearly doesn't get TRP if he's wondering why some cheating thot isn't expressing guilt and remorse for her actions. Women don't ever take responsibility like that, man, it's one of the most basic aspects of the red pill. Am I missing something here??
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:06 AM
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You know what? Of all the men I've known in my life...friends, co-workers, relatives etc, every one of them who I've talked to about relationships has been cheated on at least a couple times by ex gf's. This sub isn't about hating women, btw, it's about understanding their very nature so you don't have to hate them (or yourself) when you find yourself in OP's shoes.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 06:17 AM
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Exactly. Sure it's female hypergamy and in her nature to trade up, but I swear some of these hoes actually get off on their own manipulation.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 06:05 AM
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Yeah, for real. It's never worked well for me. They'll sometimes even sit there insisting to you that they appreciate you opening up and letting them know how you're feeling. Hell, maybe a few of them actually mean it. More often than not though, you could set a timer after that moment and countdown to Dry Vagina Day.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 06:20 PM
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She deceived and manipulated you, dude. Save your dignity and don't EVER take her back. The whole thing is fucked. Secondly, spare yourself the time and headache, and don't even bother asking her these questions which you think are so important. Girls spout all kinds of nonsense when you ask them post-breakup questions. She CHEATED on you. What makes you think that she won't just bullshit you more when you ask her about it??? You were friends for the last 3 years and "grew real close over the pa…
/r/seduction29/09/19 08:15 AM
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You could adopt what I started telling myself a while back after an embarrassing break up... Regarding cringey memories with an ex: There is no past, only lessons. The rest is useless. Or, "fuck the past right in the ass!". I borrowed that one. Take the lessons, let go of the shame.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 07:30 AM
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In short that we as men can love women more unconditionally than they can love us. Or we're at least more forgiving, more reasonable, and more accepting in terms of a woman's flaws and weaknesses. Men have a much greater capacity for being loyal, women are loyal to their feelings. They live in the moment and are guided strictly by their emotions. And he's right, women will never be the answer to whatever those issues/weaknesses of yours are. As a man you're expected to comfort her (at times and …
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:35 AM
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You won't wanna hear this, but I tried Cialis not too long ago and it honestly didn't give me "porn star like qualities". Sure it gave me an epic boner and rounds 2 and 3 happened pretty easily with almost zero refractory needed. BUT I was still cumming way too fast. A lot of ppl say it's a psychological issue but I can't quite wrap my head around this or how exactly to surmount it. Ppl also swear by the reverse kegel method, so you could look into practicing those. In the meantime, remember tha…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:18 AM
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You're on some "save sweet spergy girl" shit. Dude, you dated for a WEEK, and you said it's been over a year. GET THE FUCK OVER IT. I'm still trying to pry off the tentacles of the last precious little witch who dumped me. That fling at least lasted a few months, and it's been 2 months since the break, but even I should be smacked upside the head for still tripping over some chick. Your time in this life is precious and you're wasting it on some REALLY dumb shit, man. You will kick yourself late…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 02:32 AM
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Women aren't lovable, they're leavable.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:25 AM
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what everyone else will tell you: don't ever reach out to a cheating ex (or better yet any ex). what enlightening information do you hope to hear? She's a chick, it's gonna be a bunch of chickspeak gobbledygook, and since you're obviously too nice as is, you'll probably take her garbage make-believe "reasons" to heart, and now she's fucked you over yet again. Been there. Don't give her the satisfaction.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 10:45 PM
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I've finally realized that this is an unhealthy trait and a red flag from my own experience. If a girl is texting you all day non-stop right after you begin dating her, then she's unstable as fuck, probably codependent, and worse, possibly BPD or something of that ilk. They're crazy about you for a while and then they fade out and disappear (idealization, devaluation, discard). I get that female nature is this way in general, to an extent; They get bored fast without the proper stimulus. But the…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 06:09 AM
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I don't see why it has to be one or the other, of those viewpoints Tolstoy lays out; Yes, life is ultimately meaningless in that everything is impermanent and what you do doesn't really matter much. And yes, you can still see this for what it is, and STILL enjoy the fuck out of life for the limited time you're here. I don't see that last part as being ignorant, really. You can be completely aware of the first part and still embrace the joys and challenges of life. Or then there's Camus' take, wh…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 08:53 PM
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I'm sorry dude but this is bullshit. Being muscular and having money never hurts. Lifting is great for several obvious reasons, but claiming that you "have to be jacked" just to hook up with cute chicks is a fucking lie. Be interesting, be self-amused, be funny...be able to show her that you're perfectly content with yourself and life. Most women are boring, but honestly the average dude is pretty fucking boring too. So be interesting. "Cool" manifests itself in all kinds of different ways. You …
/r/askTRP17/08/19 12:07 AM
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or you do it in a "sly" way... mention a couple ideas for dinner. Be like, "sooo I was thinking we could cook some steaks, that would be Plan A...or we go grab some pizza, that would be...PLAN B (and you say this while holding a fixed stare and raising an eyebrow). You're not alpha if you don't do it this way.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 01:22 AM
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its 2019 man. most of these hoes are out the door before you can finish saying the word commitment. ...raw dog is still a scary dog tho
/r/askTRP05/08/19 03:30 AM
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"Welcome evermore to gods and men is the self-helping man. For him all doors are flung wide, him all tongues greet, all honors crown, all eyes follow with desire. Our love goes out to him and embraces him, because he did not need it." - Ralph Waldo Emerson, "Self-Reliance" He realized this great (and still crucially relevant) truth in 1841. Pretty amazing.
/r/seduction02/08/19 05:46 AM
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Once you actually start liking yourself more, and believe that you're the shit, you'll naturally care less about what any other person thinks about you (self-validation), and this in turn leads to ALL kinds of people liking you more. Most people don't operate this way, and so when a person comes along who truly doesn't care what others think, and projects this through their words and body language, it's a real novelty for others to witness. It's refreshing. Most ppl deep down want to act and beh…
/r/askTRP09/05/19 06:11 AM
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honestly no, I hardly EVER see this hot chick/less attractive guy couple, but I sure hear about it a lot lol. Seriously, 9 times out of 10, if there's a discrepancy then it's usually a pretty solid looking dude (like 7-8 out of 10) with what I and many others would describe as a plain jane. I feel like I see this every time I step outside. As it's been said, women don't typically date down or even across, only up.
/r/seduction09/02/19 02:17 AM
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sure, but I think the real question is still "how much does being only average looking (or worse) deter a man from even GETTING in that door?", which you didn't really touch on in your comment.
/r/seduction09/02/19 02:11 AM
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fair enough. I was also directing that comment at the person up above you literally just said "fuk off u bitch". That just isn't helpful to anybody, and all it is most likely is some 17 yr old idiot trying to flex nuts on the internet. You're right, you did have some good advice. Although I would say for most dudes, especially ones stuck at Level 1 like OP, it could take a longgg time to build up a rotation of 10-15 women. Like sure it's definitely something to shoot for, but not something that …
/r/askTRP24/12/18 12:02 AM
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yeah man, just go out and scrape together a 15-chick rotation. ​ Oh and also, stop being a little bitch faggot. ​ It's not the *worst* advice in the world really. But this sub's simplistically brutal way of delivering the "tough love" cracks me up man. A lot of armchair chads around here fronting like tough guys. Pretty comical. ​ OP's text idea IS needy as fuck, and should be avoided at all costs, but how about giving him some actual digestible advice rather than calling him a bitch ass faggot …
/r/askTRP23/12/18 10:51 PM
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Hey I want to address the rest of your last message here, but I just wanted to mention an update first. So yesterday was the last day of this current sequence of classes, before our break starts. Low and behold, I bumped into Olivia and her older lady study buddy Kathleen. I guess they were there to sign off on final grades for their class (they're normally over at a different campus these days so it was a surprise). When I tried saying hi to them in the hall, I was met with total disinterest. K…
/r/askTRP22/12/18 08:22 PM
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If you value yourself and your time then I don't think this chick's worth the hassle. It's really up to you to define your own boundaries and where you draw the line, what you will and won't accept. Personally, I have a hard time accepting this much resistance like you're receiving from this woman. Someone who makes you jump through hoops like this is placing a higher value on their own time than yours. Like you'd be oh so lucky to get a chance with her. Fuck that. If you're an awesome dude then…
/r/seduction22/12/18 03:07 AM
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good answer
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:10 AM
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The Rise of Theodore Roosevelt by Edmund Morris Teddy was a bad motherfucker.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 05:47 AM
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Seeking validation from others is the crux of your problem, as others will not make and keep you happy, especially women. That is only very fleeting validation, and if you're in that mind state of constantly looking to girls for a hit of that "happiness", then they will absolutely sense it and be turned off. You've gotta build and maintain your own ecosystem of positive emotions. It's easier said than done, and it can take a long time, but it's the only real solution. You said that you're fat, s…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 05:52 AM
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because most people are emotional cowards, especially young women, and would rather just vanish from your life than own up to even a single moment of realness and/or awkward confrontation. Let these people go and leave that space for more deserving people to enter your awesome life.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 07:04 PM
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It can be tricky because a girl's "maybe" could be coming from a totally different place than another girl's maybe. "Maybe" could mean that she's not attracted and is giving you a polite "no". Or she could have a legit interest in you but is tangled up with some other dude, in which case you very well might hear back from this chick once barry bonehead fumbles the ball. At this point I wouldn't so much pursue a maybe girl as much as I might just leave the door open and walk away. She'll either s…
/r/askTRP09/12/18 03:18 AM
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I feel like charm is something that comes naturally to me, and girls can sense it pretty easily, often times without complimenting them at all. Don't try to amuse women, just be self-amused. If anything you'd be much better off lightly teasing them, and even then it shouldn't really be something you're trying to do...if you genuinely like and enjoy yourself enough, then the charm and playful energy will just flow out of you naturally.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 04:21 AM
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the general rule is to not do movie dates. Think about it, you two sit there quietly for 2 hrs...boring af. Think up activities which are more original and stimulating, and which also allow for you to actually connect more with the chick.
/r/seduction06/12/18 02:01 AM
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Become cooler, get in better shape, quit drinking or smoking pot 24/7 if this is an issue, socialize a LOT more, learn to be funnier, wittier, able to make light of most situations, be more playful and teasing with women. And for fuck's sake, pick a hobby (better yet a PASSION) that's way more interesting than frisbee. Pick up a camera or a guitar, start a punk band, etc. Read more, meditate more to clear out the useless negative nonsense in your head...I could go on all day. The point is if you…
/r/seduction06/12/18 01:44 AM
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your outlook is depressing as fuck, dude.
/r/seduction05/12/18 07:50 PM
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Fuck, man. If all of that is even close to being true, then I empathize with you. Do you have any interest in playing music? This is more random than the usual advice you'll get here...but you should seriously pick up a guitar. You are full of rage and angst and bitterness (which seems somewhat understandable if not also detrimental). You need some kind of release. I wouldn't even worry about fucking chicks right now. You need to find a passion and empower yourself with it.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 06:25 AM
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I think Hitler said it first.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 08:42 AM
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Dude, quit acting like a stubborn little bitch. You made this post, asked for advice, you get sound advice, then you choose to refuse the advice...wtf. Most guys around here know that asking a woman for date confirmation subcommunicates low-key weakness. This is pretty basic shit imo. When people try and help you, you could at least show some modicum of appreciation and humility. You've shown neither.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 05:07 AM
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Realizing the absurdity and wishful thinking of phrases such as "women aren't visual creatures". yeah, good one.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 06:56 AM
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My dude, this is EXACTLY the kind of response I was looking for with this post. I'll check the link out for sure. Thank you.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:53 AM
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i don't get why some of you ass twats are downvoting this post. I mean shit, I'm calling myself out on being lame for this crap. And asking an essential question about something that's surely at least somewhat more relevant and crucial than like 90 plus percent of the illiterate teen garbage posts made around here. You guys are funny.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:52 AM
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Good response, but I'm already a proud owner of Meditations. I should re-read it.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:44 AM
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of course man, I'm not a total fucking sap. I put myself out there and invited her out, got her number etc. She declined, throwing out some pretty typical chick excuses. For what it's worth, the event I invited her to was on a Monday night, and she works early. Still, we all know here that girls make time for guys who they like, and make excuses for the rest. Pretty sure she just started seeing some guy from her work like just a week before I made my move. So yeah, timing isn't great. But yes I'…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:43 AM
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Thanks, this was definitely relatable. I guess the refrain from everyone here is basically "don't be a pussy and create excuses to not fuck". Fair enough. There are logistical issues though. Like my grandma has actually cockblocked me before while living here. She doesn't like the idea of me having girls spend the night, because as she states, "I guess I'm just old fashioned". My grandfather is 96 years old and quite a bit older than her, and he just laughs at her when she says this. He has no p…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 05:52 PM
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Thanks for the reminder. I'm just gonna make this my mantra for now lol.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 05:31 AM
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cause you're just doing what every other inexperienced thirsty sucker out there does, you don't hear back from a chick and so you double down and reach out to "remind" her that you're still interested. They know. Without even diving further into specifics here, do you really think that play sounds attractive? It isn't, and the only thing you'll remind her of is the fact that you're just another thirsty, desperate, impatient chump. Hang back and do nothing. Forget about her. Maybe you'll run into…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 06:10 AM
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I'm not entirely sure of what all I just read there. You wrote so many words, and yet kept things so vague. Something this confusing to read, suggests to me that you yourself must be awfully confused. If the hell that you speak of happens to involve a drug addiction, then you need to deal with that issue first and foremost, as priority number one, without exception. You do not sound well, and if you haven't already, I would seriously seek out some help, through doctors, counselors, therapists, e…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 06:49 AM
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Well the response you got up at the top is really the only viable solution...love yourself more, by means of making a more concerted effort to self-improve and do healthier things for yourself. Self-improvement eventually leads to you becoming a more attractive person, thus more likely to receive physical attention and contact from ze womenz. This is basic stuff. I mean what else is there to say, in terms of addressing your desire for a woman's touch? See an escort (not the best idea)? You could…
/r/askTRP01/09/18 06:38 PM
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The right answer here is "who gives a fuck". Youre building muscle? Dope. Have an actual purpose in this life? Even better. Women are fickle, and no, not every single woman who covers up is necessarily doing this out of finding a guy unattractive. Maybe she is, or maybe it's cause she's an insecure little bitch about her own body and this expresses itself through her fidgeting and covering up her tits sometimes, etc. Who knows, and again, who cares.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:22 AM
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I've got several months of sobriety myself, and have had other sober stints and phases through the years, varying in length. Tbh it doesn't sound like what you need is more relaxation. You most likely need more action, or a greater purpose, which will require instilling more discipline into your daily routine. I know, all things that you probably weren't hoping to hear. Complacency leads to relapse, generally speaking, but you're already talking about dosing other drugs so I'm not even sure just…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 07:12 AM
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An AFC gets cheated on and dumped by his one and only gf of several months. He takes 4 and a half years to get over his stupid feelings for this strumpet. He moves on but begins to long for some mousy girl who he sees daily on his bus route to work. He fantasizes and crushes over her, enraptured by various daydream scenarios involving this woman and the tender romance they'd share, if only she'd notice how super special and sweet he is. After a year of hesitation, he musters up a modest amount o…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:42 AM
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like having chicken salad on rye instead of tuna on toast?
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:06 AM
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Yeah online dating is a beast, I know. I think there's a bit more leniency in that setting since there's no real rapport yet. You're just a profile on a website then. I'm feeling a bit salty because I gave a specific girl another chance this week, who totally flaked on me a couple times in the past. I walked away and didn't talk to her for a year. She reached out finally, acted SUPER interested in seeing me, asked me to hang out, then still flaked. I try to just laugh at this stuff after familia…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 07:00 PM
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Even if they do come back, it doesn't necessarily mean jack shit. In fact, if they ever had even an ounce of attraction towards you, then they usually WILL come back, just a matter of time. But many of them will come back, act enthused and try to set plans with you...then exhibit the exact same flaky behavior all over again. Some will do this endlessly. These are girls who have no real intention of seeing you, they don't want you, but they want to know that you still want them. They are the wors…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:32 PM
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all the idiocy you can handle? cmon man, you're the one who used the term "rocket surgery"...
/r/askTRP26/07/18 03:18 PM
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not worth it. if you were a true wuss bag orbiter, then they probably in turn treated you like garbage, naturally. You'll remember this fact in the back of your mind, and always feel some resentment toward them. Somewhere in their mind they'll remember you were a total bitch before, and always resent you for it (and be scanning/testing extra hard with you for those beta traits). This is my experience.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 05:47 AM
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Regardless of whether you follow RSD or not, this video on "structural integrity" is probably the most valuable one I've ever seen. It's all about having boundaries, being on purpose, and is chalk full of red-pill wisdom. The analogies he uses in this are pretty brilliant. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PPpIGQ9ZWFw
/r/askTRP14/07/18 05:00 PM
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Just my observation after seeing a couple of his vids, I find that red pill coach dude to be cringey as fuck. He has this whole weird affectation going on that is almost reminiscent of a villain in a b-movie. He seems to be in love with the sound of his own voice. I can't exactly disagree with much of his content itself, but it's pretty basic TRP stuff that anyone who's browsed through the sidebar a few times could figure out. I'd think twice before hitching my wagon to his star.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 05:18 AM
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yeah that part sounded like something out of the Dennis Reynolds playbook smh Something maybe a dark triad would do on a rainy day out of boredom. This guy merely talking about it sounds disastrous.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 02:39 AM
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It's the truth, but also serves as a great reminder to love yourself, although perhaps not totally unconditionally. It should be with the condition that you're doing the things you know you ought to be doing for yourself. You don't need anyone else's love or approval, just your own. It's an initially painful realization but a potentially powerful catalyst and massive re-frame.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 05:06 PM
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I agree with what you're saying, but most people sadly interpret it in the more vain and basic way that I described. What you're talking about is the actual expression a person makes through their eyes, which definitely communicates a myriad of different ideas and emotions.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 06:10 PM
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"the eyes are the window to the soul" saying has to be one of the biggest shams in the history of sayings. There are countless beautiful looking women with gorgeous, alluring eyes...and the soul of a wretched hell beast. That being said, your eyes are a great indicator of your liver function, and overall bodily health. Sleep, diet, and exercise are all factors. If you have any substance abuse issues, then obviously that's going to show in the eyes. Staring at a computer screen all day, not getti…
/r/askTRP04/07/18 12:05 AM
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Book of Pook, now we're talking. Everyone on here should be familiar with Pook's teachings imo. It's all really invaluable stuff and super digestible too.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 10:13 PM
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I'm admittedly envious of you, almost to a point of suspicion. If you truly were a fat, ugly, lazy, socially awkward piece of shit, then this transformation you're describing, within only 2 months, sounds miraculous. I've been going pretty hard at the self-improvement for the past few months, and while I've definitely noticed certain benefits, they sure are a lot more gradual than those that OP describes. Perhaps you're a more handsome dude than myself, and your looks were simply obscured by you…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 10:01 PM
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Unsure if sarcasmz or not, but deprecation and depreciation are both words with different meanings. Pretty sure OP purposely used the latter.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 11:18 PM
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The weekend is basically already here. If this chick actually thought you were "very attractive", and you kino'd her IN the damn grocery store, then she isn't gonna forget you over the next few days. How many guys do you think are actually kino'ing bitches in the grocery store? Hint: not many. I agree that with new chicks it's best to not ask them out for a weekend date. Tomorrow's Friday and she probably already has plans if she's even remotely attractive and social. Plus if you ask her out on …
/r/askTRP29/06/18 04:39 AM
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They say that the best way to achieve high self-esteem is to act in an esteemable way Your new mantra needs to be FUCK THE PAST RIGHT IN ITS ASS. The only way to do this is to take action, as others have mentioned. Life is difficult for everyone, more so for some, but it's not meant to be easy. I don't know how young you are, but it is true that the older you get, the faster time feels like it's moving past you. Don't bother yourself anymore with thoughts of ending your life, as life will take c…
/r/askTRP28/06/18 03:26 AM
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yep it's frustrating. Girls are very good at teasing out just as much of a piece of that carrot as necessary, in order to get their validation treat from you, only to respond back with a lame excuse or disappear right after. I have just enough of a history with this chick though, that I know she will hit me up again if I cut contact. I'm just thinking it'll take at least 2 or more instances of her texting me (including either an apology or a firm suggestion of meeting up or both) before I respon…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:47 PM
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huh, yeah I guess I was confused...cause I've already done what you've just described. I had considered that more just "falling back", or not actively pursuing. I really thought a soft next was where you purposely ignore a girl for a given amount of time, maybe a few days or a week etc, after she's shown disrespect/flakiness, among other behaviors.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:34 PM
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Lol you wanna rub her face in her own shit, we get the feeling, but those of us who've EVER applied this know that it DOES NOT WORK. You'll just give her the benefit of knowing that she affected you so much on an emotional level. Don't say anything and forget about her, don't afford her any real conclusion. That's the best you can do. Also, she's fucking 19, man. The Chaddiest Chad isn't going to keep her around for more than several months to a year most likely. Young girls aren't looking to se…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 03:33 AM
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In short, forget about this chick and move on. She sounds like a headache and nothing real great is gonna come out of this. The only real positive takeaway for you here is to prove to yourself that you're capable of re-attracting a girl who you fucked up with...ok, 1 pt awarded to your ego. It's not a bad experiment and practice for your game. I'm going through the same scenario right now, finally turning the tables on a chick who I fucked up with like 2 years ago (one of the reasons I found thi…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 06:40 PM
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That's a big realization to have, and even once having it, putting it into practice is yet another step. Reminds me of an RSD video I saw awhile back. Julien was talking about how a man with needy energy is sort of like a guy walking around with a huge boner. He needs to cum but he isn't able to jack himself off, so to speak. So he has to go around seeking out other people to help jack him off. It sounds funny but it's a pretty solid metaphor: Fill your own cup of positive emotions vs constantly…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 05:54 PM
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smh, you're growing your dick? I mean hey, all the best to ya... your 7 inches though, that's pretty decent. I'd think your TRP efforts of self-improvement would be a lot more fruitful if delegated to other actual important areas of your life. We all know chicks dig dudes with big dicks (whoa what a shocker), but I honestly cringe a little bit when I see guys on here hammering this fact home in their posts. Like what's the point? What service are you really doing by repeating something that most…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 08:54 PM
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enlightened
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 06:33 PM
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Schrodinger's boyfriend should seriously be vaulted into official TRP terminology. It's perfect.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 06:23 PM
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hey man, don't forget about his hypothetical big dick
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 11:52 PM
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you don't necessarily have to treat em like dirt, but to ask for permission to cuddle...oof. May as well have said to her, "Mommy will you hold me?"
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 06:09 AM
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And if you remind them to her, you are so unforgiving, how dare you? What I've also noticed at times in this situation, is that they'll say they have no recollection of making X comment. In which case she either truly doesn't remember because it was a totally disingenuous comment on her part, or her feels have changed and she's feigning a lack of memory to absolve herself of blame. Trying to hold a woman accountable for her past comments is usually a fool's errand.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 12:56 AM
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I think you're forgetting the part about him also being ripped and famous.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 09:08 PM
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this chick sounds oh-so fickle, and I agree with what others said in respect to that when a woman REALLY likes you, she'll make things easy for you, not difficult. When a girl is on the fence like this, with the maybe's and might's and possibly's, you do what's known as the "take-away". It basically sounds something like, "Hey that's cool, let's just meet up another time when your schedule's open". The feeling you want to invoke in her is that you're busy and have other things going on, and that…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 12:03 AM
3

It's a great time to be alive for men who have cultivated real discipline in their lives. For everyone else, it actually seems to be a case of too much freedom, and it leads to stagnation and purposeless behavior. The infinite choice of paths is a luxury for the conscientious few, but doesn't always serve well the man who lacks agency of character and moves by the whim of base pleasures.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 07:00 PM
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Wow. That went from female hypergamy, and the willingness of thots to participate in the documentation of their own sluttyness, to...tackling the national dairy/farming system and its policymakers. Ambitious, if not a bit meandering.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 06:25 PM
6

"approach anxiety" is going to take on a whole new meaning.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 11:46 PM
2

Already on it brother, as I'm an artist myself. My background is in photography but I'm an aspiring screenwriter/filmmaker as well. I got clean in order to pursue these things more vigorously.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 06:23 AM
5

I've got 46 days today, but I'm a recovering alcoholic and truly needed to quit. I won't go into the details because every drunk's story is essentially the same imo. I would feel excited about having this many days sober, but I've been here (and further) before and relapsed, several times. Trying to be as level-headed about this shit as possible. In my experience, it's a fine line between being more driven and adding on new goals, vs taking on too many changes, all at once, then becoming overwhe…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 12:08 AM
3

depends on what you're supposed to apologize for. Making amends for every single wrongdoing ever committed seems like a bit much to me. However, did you fuck any of your good friends over while drunk? If there are some legitimate apologies in order, especially to people that you truly care about, then I see nothing unmanly about making those. Quite the opposite. EDIT: there are some situations where you have to ask yoruself: if you were that other person, would you even necessarily appreciate or…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 11:41 PM
3

Just ignore or laugh at her when she goes bitch mode. I love my grandmother because she's family, and I'm supportive when she really needs help, but I do not like the woman. I've watched her nag my grandfather (who is a classic old WW2 guy and total saint of a man), and typically go into these sour moods where she bullies family members. It disgusted me even as a child. In the past few years I reached a point where I just had enough of her shit. When she gets all witchy, I either tease her or ig…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 07:32 PM
1

The American Dream, they call it. It's such an ingrained concept and way of life that even Jordan Peterson, of all people, basically insists that you MUST settle down with a wife and kids, or be doomed to an unpleasant life of regret. Pretty sad to hear this stubborn bullshit from such an otherwise great thinker.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 05:33 AM
3

You have a few (somewhat) reasonable points, but you also contradict yourself and get some things wrong here. For example, you talk about approaching women/strangers, and how it's important that you're dong this because YOU feel like it, which is fine. But you then also say that if you can't chat up a stranger and leave a smile on their face, then "you're fucked bro". Lol. You see the contradiction there? It's not about them or whether they accept or reject your approach, it's about doing what y…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 07:57 PM
4

I agree that there's a bit of a narcissistic tone, and I personally skip over most posts by ppl as young as the OP...however, where in his post is he actually asking for advice? I don't see any actual questions being asked, just "pro tips".
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 07:36 PM
12

They never just like you for who you are...there are so many factors that can predictably work for or against you when it comes to a woman's interest in you. This is what TRP is all about. Sidebar fo sho. Yeah, I'm sure at some point she was really into you, but how a girl feels about you one moment, in no way guarantees how she'll feel about you the next week, the next day, or the next hour. They are fickle creatures. She ghosted you while also telling you that you were "the most caring person"…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 12:26 AM
8

what exactly does the "compensating for small dick type of physique" look like then?? If you already just said that chicks like big dudes and low body-fat w/ muscles dudes. You talkin super jacked short guys who look like mutants? Cause that's all I'm able to come up with per your vague reference.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 07:47 PM
2

Some say that it all started with Piglet (a small pig). Basically you throw "let" on the end of a noun, such as Manlet (small man) Example: "Yo, did you hear about Patrick? Katy said his pussy-eating game is on point." "Yeah, that's cause he's rockin' a Dicklet." "Oh word??" or something like that.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 03:31 AM
1

Full monk mode is sounding like the best option for myself right now. I honestly don't think I would act like a total chump if I did meet a girl in the near future and she started losing interest. I've beaten this stuff into my head so much over the past year or so. I have also plated a couple chicks in the past several months, without succumbing to chumpyness, but I also wasn't super into them beyond their bodies. I know none of us are immune to falling back into beta tendencies, but I'd like t…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 10:51 PM
2

Yes, you can "borrow abundance" from your future improved self, IF you buy into it and are actually taking the rigorous steps toward improvement. Todd Valentine talked about this in some lecture I saw a few years ago, he referred to this concept as "the seeds of entitlement". EDIT: Hah I see now that someone already referenced this. Glad some of you guys saw that lecture, it was one of his better ones imo
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 07:12 PM
1

Shit man...that is scary. Yes, the transition back into using is alarmingly rapid. I've experienced that myself with booze. I actually hadn't even specifically considered the whole element of dating chicks in recovery, but that's a cautionary tale that I will definitely heed. Congrats on your freedom and staying sober during all that time locked up, and also through that girl's relapse. I imagine a lot of guys would relapse along with their partner in a situation like that, if their sobriety was…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 06:24 PM
1

Some solid points, thanks for the response. Yeah, the idea behind that AA advice is that you'll meet someone, things fall apart, oneitis/shit feelings ensue, and boom you are primed for a relapse. However that advice they give isn't really taking red-pilled men into account. I'm still relatively new to the whole practice of becoming less attached, free of outcome dependence etc, although I genuinely feel like I'd also handle a rejection or breakup 10x better than I would have a year ago. I guess…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 05:42 PM
2

The best thing you can do, regarding music, is to seek out and explore stuff that is completely new to you. I've found this to be beneficial. Those weak playlists with the Elliott Smith songs and other sad bastard artists...into the trash, brother. A red-pilled man doesn't have time to wallow in self-pity and romanticized sadness. Especially if you have a history of listening to that kind of music when you've been sad/depressed in the past. It's one of the comfort blankets that you'd be wise to …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 10:00 PM
1

You do realize that a lot of guys aren't so fortunately blessed with good facial aesthetics, right? For some men, even if they do cut down on excess body fat (which they should), that still isn't going to give them this sexy "angular" face which you speak of.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 07:50 PM
4

Self-Reliance, the practice of filling one's own cup, has served me as the keystone for my recent transformation towards becoming a more respectable man. The fact that these dummies are even attempting to link such a positive thing to "toxic masculinity" is downright mind-boggling. "Beyond the pale" doesn't begin to describe how disgraceful and laughable these people are. I literally refer to this passage once a week, as a healthy reminder... "Welcome evermore to gods and men is the self-helping…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 06:34 PM
3

You're actually making me feel lucky for being a struggling artist lol. I mean that sincerely. So thank you. My advice is to not take this world (and yourself) so seriously. Take some time off work and go travel to places you've never been, if possible. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 09:04 AM
5

Unless you're literally a 10, there will always be girls now and then doing that kind of shit. Ignore them or even laugh at them if you want. Once you reach a genuine state of DGAF, a lot of this stuff is just downright amusing. Also girls don't know you ofc, and so they just assume you're a creep, initially. You're working against a "guilty until proven innocent" type of mentality with most women (again, this excludes the best looking men).
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 10:44 PM
1

Absolutely. I'm well aware that most women are as horny or hornier than most men, but she truly was sex-obsessed. There was a post around here recently that linked an RSD video where Tyler discusses "what makes a slut"...how basically you should want a girl who totally loves having sex and is experienced, and then what the distinction is between that type of girl vs a slut. A slut usually tends to be a girl who has massive attention and validation issues. She not only enjoys sex for the sake of …
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 06:47 AM
2

Furreal. I didn't have much firsthand experience with BPD before this girl, but I'm pretty sure she has it. Coke addiction, history of self-harm, daddy issues, mood swings, huge fear of abandonment etc. It's all there. I almost have to tip my hat to her for delivering such an oscar-worthy performance in those first couple months when I met her. She was very convincing in her "sweetness". The BP version of myself is almost dead now, thank the fuck christ, due to rigorous efforts and constant red-…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 12:50 AM
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Women are all the same, PERIOD. Is what I would counter with here. Not just until they've "earned their special place" or w/e. That is the point of AWALT, is it not? To never fully let your guard down in thinking, "Ahh finally, she's proven her specialness to me now and I can accept her for the wonderful special lady she is"...naw man. They are ever-cunning, and some of them are VERY good at faking specialness from the get go to lure you in. The girl that brought me here was the sweetest little …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 06:35 PM
1

The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida contains some great writing on the subject. I'd start there.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 10:20 PM
11

With the exception of food (which doesn't require other people), you don't need any of that shit you mentioned to feel happy. You've just convinced yourself that you do. Yes I have been happy without friends before in my life, although that's not really my ideal. I've been happy before with hardly any money in my pocket. And I've certainly been happy at times without women. "Fill your own cup" does not imply that you should go WITHOUT any of these things though, it just means that you aren't REL…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 03:36 AM
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I really don't get why this isn't being upvoted more. It's so essential. A man without a purpose is going to be lost, if not with women then at least within himself. If you can't pin down exactly what your specific purpose or path is at this very moment, then let THAT be your purpose; a continuous quest to figure out what that thing is, what it is that moves and inspires you the most. Fucking hot women is great, but it isn't going to satisfy this thing we're talking about. You have to fill your …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 10:53 PM
1

A full life? Naw dude. The only full thing about that lifestyle is gonna be your blimped out haagen-dazs bod.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 09:05 PM
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