Exit plan discussion for LTR/Married Red Pill

Mostly_Fatal · 2016-05-18T02:23:33+00:00

You sound like you're in the anger phase, friend. While that is understandable, I would hold off on too many significant life altering decisions until you have had time to cool down.

Brewjo · 2016-05-18T09:24:20+00:00

I do some "extracurricular" things that she knows about so I plan on stopping that so she can't blackmail me if she gets desperate after the break.

Whaaaat?

That would just be calling you out on your shitty behavior, unless she knew walking in that you needed the odd male-sauna trip to relieve 'tension of the Lingam'.

Deapluv · 2016-05-18T06:40:00+00:00

Your post is lacking in any semblance of substance and as such it will be very challenging for anyone to give you advice.

What is your issue? What is your proposed test? How long have you been together? What US state have you been co-habitating in? What jurisdiction did you get married In?

Why are you engaging in extracurricular activities? what does that even mean?

Pastelitomaracucho · 2016-05-18T06:52:03+00:00

Get it together first as the other posters have stated.

I had my own exit plan since the beginning but it was very case specific. The most important part of it was to get her to get a job a become financially independent. With that, we never made large purchases together, and didn't get pregnant.

I also consulted a lawyer before marriage on my possibilities for a swift and painless divorce here in Europe.

In the end my divorce came amicably with minimum damage.

Venenarium · 2016-05-18T08:55:32+00:00

It seems like you've overdosed on red pills brother. What makes you believe she's a cheat? How does she treat you?

jfrm · 2016-05-18T09:18:16+00:00

If you are new to red pill, you haven't changed or implemented nothing. First you focus on yourself, you improve, you lift, you drop bad habits. This takes time and discipline. Whether this saves your marriage or not is irrelevant. You will be a better man, you will lead and have confidence. If you want methodical, elaborate a plan for your improvements.

stonepimpletilists · 2016-05-18T10:49:38+00:00

No preparation, no information, and it's a half cocked idea.

this will end badly, get your shit together

Title	Exit plan discussion for LTR/Married Red Pill
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Date	May 18, 2016 1:47 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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