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Female appreciation thread.

LordXerces

March 19, 2014
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Title Female appreciation thread.
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LordXerces

Upvotes 16
Comments 12
Date March 19, 2014 12:28 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women might seem unfair if you want to sleep with them, but I've associated myself with women on self-help groups in the past who were absolutely amazing.

Even IRL there are a few girls in my college like that.

And of course, my dear mother (though I want to add that my father is alpha and a good man).

I think I'll view women in a skeptical way only when I want to sleep with them. Otherwise, as friends and family, it depends on who they are.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My mother wakes up every morning with a smile on her face and a song in her heart. She is genuinely grateful for another day to improve herself and is dedicated to leaving the world better than she found it. She's always been my biggest, my loudest, and sometimes my only, fan.

My oldest sister is perhaps the most kind-hearted and gentle person I've ever met. Quick to admit fault and self-sacrificing to the extreme. I was a troubled kid and growing up she would go to great lengths to cover my tracks and always struggled to keep our lifeline open even during my darkest days.

Another one of my sisters waited while my brother-in-law sat in prison for years. She visited him every single week no matter how sick or tired she was and went to every hearing even though she was terrified. She was breaking down out of fear and anguish and would bawl her eyes out at home but used every ounce of her strength to pull it together while visiting him behind glass just so he wouldn't have to worry about her.

Most women are a huge disappointment compared to them. They tend to be petty, manipulative, dishonest, and self-serving. I've grown up knowing the best of women and I recognize them when I see them. Good women are rare and seem to come almost entirely from good parenting.

[–]1PaulRivers102 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Post-college, I had a job for two years that I hated that was all older guys. I left that job, but I had no friends, I was living at my dads place, and I was just - pretty depressed. Like "life is going nowhere" depressed, not "wanting to kill myself" depressed, but still - I felt really really old and like any enjoyment in my life was just over.

I went into a recruiter, and he seemed like a cool guy, and he asks me "what do you want from a job?" and I said "I want to work with hot chicks". :D And he...found me a job working with hot chicks.

This was 7 years ago, at that time hot chicks were all about fun and feeling good. At least the ones where I was were. I found myself at a company where there was implicit pressure to always be in a good mood.

And it was FANTASTIC. This is what women bring (or used to bring) to the table - a sense of emotional balance. It really turned my life around and I felt like there was a reason to be alive again. I didn't date any of them (all the ones I'd be interested in were married), and wasn't even at that company that long (unfortunately) but I went on to date 2 way more attractive girls than I had ever dated before after that, but more importantly my whole life just got better. I was happier, I felt better, I felt like it was enjoyable to be alive.

[–]GM3d61 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

My dogs, Three really awesome dogs that make my day better. They are all female.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

But I am, as a lot people here are,

This is not a representative sample of TRP. I also suspect you're new, even using the "swallowing the pill" phrase coming up. This means you're probably in shock and bitter from your old beta mindset being broken up each time you come here.

a little disillusioned regarding the amount of quality women out there, or lack thereof, after swallowing the pill. No matter how enlightening TRP is, it is without a doubt a cesspool of cynical realism,

There is that blue bill beta speak - a "cesspool" - I take offense at that description. This place is a fountain of youth for the male mindset and teaches you how to be what you're supposed to be. Go away if you think otherwise. Question the "cesspool" in purplepill.

and although I cannot speak for everyone, it's easy to cross out the potential good in women when stories of feminists, sluts and hamsters are continuously shoved in our faces.

You don't speak for everyone and I laugh at the implication that you speak for anyone with a true RP mindset. You didn't even talk about someone close to you for your female role model, you went with a friend's mom, which leads me to believe you didn't have related/friend male/female role models to shape you into the man you're supposed to be - and yes, it takes proper influence from men and women growing up - both are essential to your development and have essential differences that you learn from.

You just haven't met enough potential sexual mates who have been good to you - it doesn't mean that there aren't any. A "good woman" or "non-slut" to you is a woman who convinces you that she's slept with a certain amount of men that you don't consider slutty, or she convinces you of certain histories/behaviors that you don't deem slutty. Complete feminine-minded hamstering horseshit.

[–]LordXerces[S] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Someone has a fighter spirit! Good!

This is not a representative sample of TRP. I also suspect you're new, even using the "swallowing the pill" phrase coming up. This means you're probably in shock and bitter from your old beta mindset being broken up each time you come here.

Of course it is not a representative sample of TRP as a whole, nor did I ever claim my opinion to be shared with everyone. But it has been a recurring theme here lately of many disillusioned men who have almost given up on women after being faced with the truth.

There is that blue bill beta speak - a "cesspool" - I take offense at that description. This place is a fountain of youth for the male mindset and teaches you how to be what you're supposed to be. Go away if you think otherwise. Question the "cesspool" in purplepill.

"Blue pill beta speak". I'm not sure if I should laugh or cry at this. Okay, if you insist, I guess. And regarding cesspool; English is not my first language, so if there is such great offense in that word, I retract my statement. A pool of cynical realism then. Have it your way.

You don't speak for everyone and I laugh at the implication that you speak for anyone with a true RP mindset. You didn't even talk about someone close to you for your female role model, you went with a friend's mom, which leads me to believe you didn't have related/friend male/female role models to shape you into the man you're supposed to be - and yes, it takes proper influence from men and women growing up - both are essential to your development and have essential differences that you learn from.

You just haven't met enough potential sexual mates who have been good to you - it doesn't mean that there aren't any. A "good woman" or "non-slut" to you is a woman who convinces you that she's slept with a certain amount of men that you don't consider slutty, or she convinces you of certain histories/behaviors that you don't deem slutty. Complete feminine-minded hamstering horseshit.

I kneel in thy presence, sire, great lord of dark enlightenment and RP knowledge. I am not worthy of thy words!

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

But it has been a recurring theme here lately of many disillusioned men who have almost given up on women after being faced with the truth.

This is as much of a recurring theme as noticing the recurring theme of all of a sudden always seeing for rent signs everywhere when you happen to be looking for a new place.

To clarify, you're focusing on one or two posts that squeak by that are not representative of RP mindset. The point here is to be happy and attract women to you.

A pool of cynical realism then.

You're still implying something negative about the thought here, when this place is only about positive thoughts for the male identity. And if you don't think that people are motivated by self-interest, you might need more life experience across the board.

I kneel in thy presence, sire, great lord of dark enlightenment and RP knowledge. I am not worthy of thy words!

Case in point. The medieval nerd speak that emerges from anxiety. Read up and self improve, beta.

[–]LordXerces[S] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You're still implying something negative about the thought here, when this place is only about positive thoughts for the male identity. And if you don't think that people are motivated by self-interest, you might need more life experience across the board.

Well that's a crock of shit I've ever seen one. This place focuses on positive thoughts for the male identity, but there is also a huge limelight on the negative and hypocritical aspects of women.

I think the one who needs to read up and self improve here is you, considering how you're taking the first opportunity you are given to rise above another man and turn things into an online dick-measuring competition. I get it, you're 6"10, your beard is made of titanium and women faint at the scent of your testosterone. I am very impressed!

And if you think I made this thread to refute general TRP philosophy, god bless you.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This place focuses on positive thoughts for the male identity, but there is also a huge limelight on the negative and hypocritical aspects of women.

Focusing on the realities of women is positive thought for the male identity. You should improve your critical reading skills too.

[–]LordXerces[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How about focusing on yourself instead of trying to lecture everyone to become more like you. If we're talking about self-improvement here, I'd begin on getting familiar with narcissistic and grandiose personality disorder. And if you really want to help people (which is clearly not your intent either way) and get your point across, try something a little constructive the next time.

[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My daughter. She's not quite 3 yet and is already about twice as smart as I am.

Just last night, we were wrestling and tackling each other. She's actually pretty tricky for a toddler. After a few minutes, we're laughing like lunatics. My wife walks in and demands to know why I'm getting her so worked up before bed time and why the fuck can't I handle our daughter better.

I respond, "Because I'm daddy, not mom number two." She chimes in, "Yeah, he's daddy!" We high-five. My wife tells me I'm handling bed time tonight, to which I respond, "I was totally going to tell you the same thing!" Two hours later, I saunter into the bedroom. My wife's still fuming. "Sex?" I ask.

[–]SneakyTouchy0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My little sister is one of the most amazing women I've even known. She's the type who will hit me up at 10pm to play bloody murder pc games over the internet, the type who can sniff out a cunt or douchbag within minutes, and the type who can look at TRP ideas and say, "yep, pretty much." She also never hamsters like most every other woman I've met. No bullshit excuses. It is what it is. She even warned me about my previous ex, and I was stupid to ignore her.

There are not enough women like her in the world.

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