For '16, I'm going full circle

redpillspeeddate · 2016-01-01T16:57:32+00:00

To find happiness I find you need to set yourself up a few lists.

Qualifications for a plate or ONS
Hardline Dealbreakers - she shows one of these she is nexted or reduced from any hope of an LTR to at best a plate
Your exact description of what your unicorn would be.

Understand that your unicorn will still be a woman and AWALT but once you understand that there is quality differences among women you can filter hard to find what you want. Filtering can be fun but time consuming.

I would argue having a hard fast list of deal breakers is something most guys don't have, but once you have know never to show it to woman especially if it disqualifies them. Nothing pisses off a girl more than the fact that YOU rejected them when that's their job.

As an example here is mine:

Deal breakers

No Single Moms
No Lawyers
No small dogs
No more than 1 cat - Preferably none, like animals but would rather own one when a house is in the picture
No Depression or history of such (Chronic not situational)
No Eating Disorders
No More than 26 BMI, ideally lower than 23
No hardcore religion - I'm an Atheist, no issue with others, but not converting
Not a vegetarian or gluten free
No rape or abuse history
No acholisim or addictions
Under 29 - I do want kids, but not in an immediate time frame, girls over 30 rush it.
Over 24 - Need common ground, girls I have dated under this are tougher to find it with.

I actually landed an amazing LTR who actually satisfied all of my lists and it has been awesome with her, but an LTR is hard mode and if you don't keep frame and lead then her attraction to you will wane. It's hard but fun work because as long as you know what you want, can read what she wants and then deliver, it seems to work out well.

As long as you are the prize she will happily follow.

TaurusSilver_FLT · 2016-01-01T18:49:46+00:00

You need to fully swallow the red pill. The reality might be grim, but you'll have to accept it, however unpleasant it might be.

Two points to keep in mind:

Women don't love the way men love. Also, AWALT.
You don't need somebody else to complete you. Live your life for yourself, the way you want it to. Enjoy the freedom that comes with being truly self-sufficient.

0io- · 2016-01-01T18:51:02+00:00

Even if you find the perfect girl for you, you'll kill your long term relationship or marriage by acting beta all the time. It's a hardwired feature of women's brains.

Read over on the married red pill sub. Things will start off great, and in six months or a year she'll hate you and be miserable if you act too beta around her.

You might as well say "I hate bathing or brushing my teeth and I'm just going to sleep in the train station and never wash my clothes." Yes, plenty of men do this, but it's not attractive.

LTR is called "Red Pill on Hard Mode" for a reason. You have to maintain a baseline of alpha traits to sustain an LTR just the same way that you have to brush your teeth if you don't want them to rot out of your head.

Dr_Shakalu22 · 2016-01-01T18:47:13+00:00

I'm extremely happy in my relationship, but it's not because I act beta. Not that I act full on alpha constantly, but my girl knows that I'm the man and she's the woman, and I'm driving. She cooks, bakes and cleans for me, and she pleases me sexually in every way possible. She has literally called me an alpha male before, and it works like this because I have come to learn AND apply plenty of RP principles to our relationship. I know that the relationship would not be as happy (for both myself and her) if I was still acting in blue pill ways. Now that you've been given the secret hiding in plain sight, why would you ignore it?

cant_hold_me_down · 2016-01-02T09:30:23+00:00

Terrible idea. The very ESSENCE of the Red Pill is that YOU WILL NEVER BE LOVED BY A WOMAN THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE.

It's simply not in their nature. You can absolutely find a very un-slutty girl with a low n-count, maybe even one with a 0, but that doesn't mean she will be any different that the mega-sluts with N-counts in the 4 digits. She will never love you unconditionally. She will never love you the way you love her.

If you can't accept that, you are still plugged into the matrix.

Govedo13 · 2016-01-02T00:01:16+00:00

Been there, in long term you lose. I was in same position several years ago, done the same thing, had the same conclusions... After a few whores I found the unicorn, I was her first, she had everything that I could ever want.

Fast forward several years after at the first moment of weakness (got hit by a car, had rough time recovering and lost my job and got fat due to lack of exercise in the process)- the unicorn in that I invested ton of time (10 years) and money just ran away as fast as possible. She didn't even waited to the moment where I would be able to take care of myself alone, it was really embarrassing to having my parents helping me for several months till I was partially recovered. Women care only about your status not about you at all, if you loose your status you are as good as dead for them.

Fast forward till nowadays- now I am quite happy that this car hit me. If it wasn't for the accident I would had married her and god forbid have children with her. In the process I learned that something is wrong with the world and women and this knowledge helped me to find the TRP and to fix my life after being shattered into pieces. Next time when I play the LTR game I would be a lot better prepared and I would have all of my tools in line in order not to get screwed again.

Currently I am spinning plates- catching up for the lost time, having fun, making good money, I look better in my late 20s then in my early 20s, I am a healthy, free and happy.

Good luck to you. I hope you would make the obvious choice.

Sayer101 · 2016-01-02T02:50:39+00:00

LTRs are hard mode. In life, where the stakes are highest, you should play through the game on the easier difficulties to increase your likelihood of getting through hard. You only have one checkpoint/life in the real world, all it takes is one slip up on hard mode and you've lost it all.

I wish you luck, hopefully this works out for the best for you.

Dustin_Bromain · 2016-01-02T05:26:33+00:00

My LTR is a very submissive girl that has a plethora of qualities that I really enjoy about her. However, she absolutely acts up from time to time, and that's where the TRP training comes in most handy. Dread game, busting shit-tests and acting dominant around her is key to the relationship. Always be the dominant player in the relationship. It's the way that a healthy LTR should be: a dominant, strong male leading the submissive, cute LTR around.

Title	For '16, I'm going full circle
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Date	January 1, 2016 4:28 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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