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Former fat guy gets into shape, his first GF gets jealous and makes him apologize for flirting with girls. He is now afraid to look at other girls since they fought. Oh yeah, she also wants to marry him.

arathorn_aragorn
July 16, 2013
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Title Former fat guy gets into shape, his first GF gets jealous and makes him apologize for flirting with girls. He is now afraid to look at other girls since they fought. Oh yeah, she also wants to marry him.
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arathorn_aragorn
Upvotes 40
Comments 28
Date July 16, 2013 7:00 AM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1ieczq/former_fat_guy_gets_into_shape_his_first_gf_gets/
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[–]AlwaysLateToThreads42 points43 points44 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Skip buying girls flowers and dinner dates. Just go to the gym. Much more results this way.

[–]luxury_banana10 points11 points12 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Real talk.

[–]n0c0ntr0l 26 points27 points28 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Her man has more SMV than she does and she's worrying about it.

[–]1favours_of_the_moon18 points19 points20 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Compare this to the recent posts about how a guy wants his girl to work out and she tweaks that he's being pushy and insensitive etc etc.

Damned if you do, damned if you dont.

[–]veggie_girl14 points15 points16 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The only correct way to do it is:

Disregard women's opinions ; Acquire skills and strength

The women will be attracted to you then regardless of what is coming out of their mouth.

[–]MrHocus8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Honestly she's holding him back. The whole post is her her her her, she doesn't once congratulate him or say she's proud of him for what was most likely a lot of effort and dedication. All she is concerned about is how he's getting more attention than her.

A quality girl would have never written that post in the manner/wording that she did.

[–]ThePacketSlinger2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She did say that she met him after he lost all of the weight, so I could kind of see how you wouldn't feel proud of something someone did before you knew them.

[–]MrHocus1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh then that's even better, then she's just like every other girl that she's complaining about (except with added jealousy and insecurity)

[–]thewrightstuff888 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The title is kind of manipulative. She states she met him after he lost all the weight. The title makes one assume that she was with him when he was fat, which changes the dynamic of the situation.

Nonetheless, this is the trade off when it comes to having an attractive bf, regardless of whether she is his first gf or not. Being attractive means that all the girls want him, and the attention is VERY compelling. She needs to understand that and do what it takes to keep him, else he'll find something better.

She can try to not be jealous but instead COMMUNICATE, figure it out, and do things that will catch his eye, since he is catching the eyes of others.

Considering the power is in his court, and if she doesn't wise up, he'll be moving on in no time.

[–]bobbyreno3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Did the far too sensible poster at the top get banned?

[–]Simpsonsdid1t3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Men have power in their looks and anyone that argues otherwise is a deluded idiot.

[–]Ragnar091 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Of course they do but not to the level of a woman.

[–]mescalineeyes8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

eh, in his position I'd just find some younger and less insecure woman. His gf is about to hit the wall anyway. Looks like he saw the signs just in time and took care of what is his.

[–]luxury_banana17 points18 points19 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

He was getting in shape before he met her, and she probably wouldn't have given him the time of day when he was fat. She's exactly like one of the women she's complaining about hitting on him. She only noticed him once he started to get ripped. Biggest hypocrite but the salient point is if you are good looking, you will have options and that is a power thing in most women's minds and makes them insecure when they're looking for someone to lock down into commitment.

Note that she was this guy's very first girlfriend. I bet that guy if he has any brains at all knows what's up. Women like her wouldn't have even touched him when he was fat. She even seems to acknowledge it.

[–]mescalineeyes2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Right, I forgot about that part.

Still, I think we can both agree that this guy can and should exercise some of his options.

The only shred of hope this woman has is that duder doesn't realize what a stud he's become and/or has major oneitis.

[–]DEVi4TION-1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I'd like to address the point on getting fit, and hypocritical women.

Your insecure bitterness is showing. A big reason he got fit is to get girls like this, and not some dumpy fugly chick. There is nothing hypocritical about a person wanting a good looking mate and looking the other way when one doesn't meet your standards. We do it all the time. Happens to every fat girl who got fit and revealed a hottie. That shit just happens and you're accomplishing nothing by bitching about why this girl likes him now. The beauty and the beast is a myth. You or I or her won't fall in love with a tubb because "they are a beatiful person" on the off chance that they could be hot underneath all the ugly. So drop that second rate thinking and focus on some real issues.

[–]neXianXavia4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Whoa, don't go shaming people now, Jesus.

He never said anything about what the guy was doing, only what the woman was doing. You've just overreacted to something that doesn't exist. Are you female?

He said the woman was being hypocritical. She said, I went out with him because he was fit, and then followed up by saying "I get jealous when other women look at him", when she was doing exactly the same thing they were doing, but first. He then said a woman has to be insecure about locking down a fit guy to commitment.

So, nothing in particular about the guy. You've taken nothing, and added "Your insecure bitterness is showing." Smooth.

[–]DEVi4TION-2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wasn't talking about the guy. I meant in general that irrational spite, while bashing women, isn't TRP. This whole 'she's trash because of hypocrisy over whether she likes a guy who is no longer ugly' angle is moot. And before some tards yell white knight, I'm not defending her, I'm arguing for rationality.

[–]luxury_banana1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Except there's a world of difference in men's standards of "Don't be fat" and the female standards of "Must be really fit" before you get anywhere near the amount of attention as the average woman.

If the amount of time and effort expended in the two were in any way near equal I'd agree that it's "insecure bitterness" but it's not.

[–]PertaVinGrahl0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

How is she a hypocrite for noticing him once he got into shape? Everyone has a "type" that they are interested in, and fat guys clearly aren't her type. She may never have seen him before that and that doesn't make her a hypocrite.

[–]luxury_banana2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She's a hypocrite because she's talking as if the other girls are only noticing him because of that--but she's not the same as them, oh no.

[–]PertaVinGrahl0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fair enough.

[–]Nutz764 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is what happens when "sex ranks" get out of sync. Athol Kay talked about this in his blog and in the book--if you haven't checked it out, go ahead and do so now.

If the OP was getting in shape to light a fire under her ass, he failed, but he does have the win of having more (probably better) options now.

[–]Kepaso2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

classic Roissy right here. His smv is higher than her, he s got the power

[–]jakethesnake761 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[I see a future with him and I want to (fix) this problem before it gets worse.] Ruuuunnnnnnn Man get away from this....

[–]transarefreaks0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

To be completely honest that sounds like it was written by a dude.

[–]jakethesnake760 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[I see a future with him and I want to (fix) this problem before it gets worse.] Ruuuunnnnnnn Man get away from this....

[–]Tarnsman4Life0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah run for your life; FREAKING RUN! My fathers girlfriend is one of those psycho DONT LOOK AT HER types; I don't know how he puts up with it.

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