Ok, so i've been RP for quite some time but somehow the principles dont seem to work for me. The only way i can describe it is that despite massive improvements to my weight, bodyfat, personal grooming and standard of dress, i'm still invisible to women, despite the fact that my job (DJ in a low level club) brings me into contact with dozens of women every shift, maybe 70-80% of which pass my threshold of fuckability.

Anyway, never ever got anything from work, but this weekend (I know its a late FR but i got knocked off my motorcycle on monday so its been a hectic week) a group of post walls come in for a 30th birthday.

Most of them are pretty low quality fodder, only 2 are worth a try, a 30 year old brunette, probably a 7. And a raven haired beauty with a superb body who amazingly turned out to be 38 (Yeah, i know, i was as surprised as you). I discarded the 7 because she was drunk, and i mean false allegation drunk.

Anyway the 38 year old comes over and theres a bit of a flirty edge to it from the start which doesnt happen with me very often. She leaves, about 30 minutes later i call her over for some excuse cant remember what and i make my play for her, i intended just to get a number close because ive literally never exceeded that. Every lay ive ever had has been through the crutch of online dating. I get the number close fairly early on after some resistence (She basically wanted to get an agreement i'd play some song for her, told her it was in my playlist anyway).

After the number close i was quite content to leave her to her own devices to enjoy her night but she literally spent about 80% of the rest of her night ignoring her friends and talking to me, im spitting the best game i know (which isnt much), passing her shit tests at ever turn, mainly through agree & amplify, running kino from the hand on her back, to cupping her buttocks etc, eventually i had to say to her "Look sweetie, you're not bothering me at all, but your sisters are giving me daggers cos you havent spoken to them in like an hour, go spend some time with them and come see me at the end Slaps arse Walks away back to my decks"

Towards the end shes on about leaving and i'm playfully getting her to stay till the end of the set, thinking i might get a bit of a chance to break the physical barrier. She agrees on the condition that i give her a ride home cos taxis are a bitch at that time, she says she lives nearby and i say no problem.

Anyway i take her home, she invites me in for a coffee, i say i have time for a swift one. I make my play, in for kissing and heavy petting, her body is as impressive to touch as it is visually which surprised me, being 38. I start to take off her dress and she stops me, her son is upstairs. She keeps making out with me etc till i call it a night

So basically i get blue balled.

The next morning she texts me first (Despite her specific rule that she doesnt do that) and we chat, everythings going well, but about an hour in she's like "Yeah i dont do sleeping around" blah blah

This girl seemed DTF, she invited me back, but i did something to fuck it up, and im really not sure what. Given that i'm 27 and this is the first time ive ever taken a girl home, im sure its something i myself have done wrong.