I want to share the experiment I ran this weekend on body language. This is not a report of a first-night-lay or even getting digits. Those were not my goals.

I was invited to a party, and I specifically set the intention of focusing solely on my body language and sub-communications. First and foremost, I gave myself permission to just run this training session at the party without any expectations (no digits, no engaging with the intent of seduction).

I spent the whole evening at the party, 1. Paying strict attention to my body language. 2. Observing the body language of others.

It was very interesting because when I wasn't focused the goal of seduction or even talking to women, it gave me the time and space to simply observe. And for the first time, I believe I viewed the world as women do. Specifically, observing the other men and how they projected themselves. Women do this shit automatically without thinking, and it was an enlightening experience for me as a man. And I discovered that a lot of men's body-language is Beta as shit. Hunched shoulders, leaning in, fully facing their target, holding their drink in front of their chest, etc. The take-away from this is that when I took the pressure off myself and I was able to observe the dynamics of the environment.

I also made a focused effort to project an Alpha body language.
- Hold my drink low, down near my waist or lower. - Head up, chest out. Shoulders back. Lead with my cock. - Lean back. - Stand off-balance with weight on one leg and the other leg slightly forward, front foot open at 45 degrees from forward. Drink held low. David - Converse with women with my body facing at least 45 degrees away from them.

For example; arguably, these are the two of the most powerful men in the world. Obama is 6'1". Putin is 5'7". Yet one projects more masculinity than the other. Look at these pics as if you were a woman. Forget who they are, just look at their body language. Specifically the position of their shoulders, legs and feet.

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Look at this one. Obama-Putin-4 Obama is turned towards Putin. Putin's back is squarely against the chair, and he's just turning he is head to talk to Obama. Look at Putin's feet! They have to be so far apart as if to make room for his enormous cock! If you were a woman at a party and you didn't know who these men were, which man is projecting the most power with his body?

Try Putin's pose right now. * Sit down in a chair, put your back against the back of the chair and make sure shoulders are against the back of the chair as well. * Lean back into the chair and spread your feet apart until they are as wide or wider apart than your shoulders.
* Rest your hands on your thighs. * Then turn your head 45 degrees to one side.

Does this pose feel natural or unnatural to you? Do you normally sit like this? Have you ever talked to a woman at a party while sitting like this? If it feels unnatural you will need to practice sitting like this for at least 2 to 3 weeks to make the change permanent.

As an added bonus, try to see if you can get your knees wider than your feet. If you can, sit in front of a mirror and just observe the difference between knees-less-wide-than-feet, and knees-more-wide-than-feet. Knees-more-wide-than-feet has a different effect than knees-less-wide-than-feet. Women notice that shit! And it is totally automatic for them.

Back to the party. I held a conversation with some guy's wife and it was practically over my shoulder. My body wasn't aligned to be facing her but rather to the center of the circle of people. I simply turned my head to converse with her. The intention was to communicate that my goals were more important than her attention. I also opened her husband and spoke with him for a bit, and she interjected comments and re-initiated the conversation between herself and me. I'm 5'6" and her husband is 6'2". And she was paying attention to me fully.

Secondly, I gave myself permission to have fun on the dance floor without seeking out any partners. I was just there to have a good time, and I didn't engage another woman even once on the dance floor. I was just dancing by myself and having a good time.

I spent the whole evening telling myself, "Head-up, shoulders back, rock-out-with-your-cock-out. Legs spread, take up space. Cock forward. Put my arm on the chair next to me. Relaxed, confident."

The highlight of the evening was when a woman, pregnant with her beta-husband's child, came up to me at the end of the evening and said "And you Sir, are a good dancer."

Now to me, this is absolute success, given my goals. I never danced with a woman the entire evening. I was just having a good time on the dance floor by myself. My intention was to project entitled masculinity through body language and nothing else. And unsolicited, a woman that I didn't even make eye-contact with the whole evening came up to me and gave me a compliment. Specifically about my body-language.

So my advice to newbies is this: if you truly want to focus on improving your performance, realize that it is a life-long journey and give yourself permission to start off with the basics. Take baby steps. Don't rush to smash it. Spend the next few weeks focusing just on your body-language and observing the body-language of everyone else, especially other men.

You've gotta paint the fence to perfection before you can kick ass. (Obligatory Karate Kid reference) Focus on building a solid foundation that projects Alpha. "Slow is smooth, smooth is fast". Focus on just the basics, and worry about smashing it later. By giving yourself permission to focus on the basics, you can take the pressure off by giving yourself time to internalize Alpha body language. And you can also make some interesting observations about social dynamics as well.

Success is measured by achieving the goals you set for yourself. And it's totally ok to set small, short-term goals that focus on building a solid foundation. It's not all about your number and first-night-lays. The war is won one battle at a time.

Remember Brothers, rock-out with your cock-out