Ok this may seem a bit stupid to some but I stand by what I said.

After #nonothingnovember I decided to actually do something I had never done before. Thats essentially call women out on their shit.

So if a girl is rude "you're being rude." Or if a girl is being useless "sort yourself out." I've actually started to get bigger balls. Text anxiety vanished, approach anxiety gone, and if anything it actually has got me a lot of success.

In fact one plate who had ghosted, I told her "the fuck you gone" she was all apologetic, wants to meet up, smiley faces, date confirmed. I mean how rude is that? And shes very hot.

Until last night I saw the example that it didn't.

Long story short, 30 year old was set up by a random ex colleague. I spoke to her on the phone and she had a deep voice. Was a turn off, but she was actually quite hot. I decided to just hit it and quit it.

We went on a date last week and it was actually not too bad. It was easier, as shes closer to the wall, set up, but the voice thing did annoy me.

So last week I told her to meet up with me saturday. She texted me friday telling me how she has to work last minute and can we meet me sunday. I was aprehensive, but said ok.

She lives quite far from me, but in the same city. I told her to meet me at a specific place and time to which she said "can we do central" which I said ok, big mistake.

I had texted her well in advance when to meet, what time etc. I arrived at 7.30pm last night, bang on time at the area. She was texting me saying "Im running late meet me at bar x etc"

I walk to said bar, and it was absolutely freezing last night. Closed. I walk again to this other bar, closed. I was out of my comfort zone. It was sunday it was freezing, where the fuck to go. She called me laughing "im so stupid, im on the wrong train!" I was livid, I told her "meet me at area X" a swanky bar I hoped that was open, so I hopped into a cab.

So I go to Area X, this very swanky bar was open. I was dressed smart casual anyway. She texts me shes on her way. She is a total 45 minutes late now.

I see her walk in, and shes dressed as if shes going grocery shopping. Trampy, average, just absolutely pathetic.

I lost it

She laughs and half ass apologises "sorry my mum called, I was delayed wrong train." I look at this trampy dressed, low value, late, deep voiced moron and let her have it:

"You're late, you changed the date time last minute, you insisted on this area, you laugh about being late, and frankly you haven't made the effort. Do you think thats acceptable?"

I couldn't believe I said it, but I did.

She was outraged, "how dare you talk to me like a child, who do you think you are"

The date was bad, she couldn't bring herself to forgive me, I apologized for being honest. I stood by what I said. She sat there just pissed off. As was I, but I was proud of myself shaming this idiot.

She was all "I cant date someone who talks to me that way, but I get along with you, can we be friends"

I told her I wanted to make a phone call and just left. I dodged a major bullet.

The red pill teaches us standards when we increase our value. And also its taught me to stand my fucking ground. Ok confrontation is never good, but I was proud of myself in the manner of my frame.

Hope this inspires others to know when to walk away and also not be taken for a fool.