Since I truly went Red Pill, I've had this growing problem, and it's getting worse.
I'm referring to my friends' girlfriends hitting on me.
I don't do anything special. I do not hit on these girls myself. I treat everyone the same really, and by that I mean that I don't really care what other's think about me. Therefore, I can come across as slightly arrogant, provocative, and more or less shameless. In other words, like the likable asshole I feel that I am at my core.
They lap it up, or rather, they lap me up.
They send me sneaky IOIs (hopefully) under the radars of their boyfriends. They sit really close to me if they can get away with it. They're touchy feely, put their arms around me neck, etc, and want me to teach them dance moves, which requires more touching and so on.
There's much more, but suffice it to say that while I have to admit I find it a bit thrilling, I'm also slightly uncomfortable with this.
I'll elaborate a bit:
The potential consequences, by which I mean lost friendships etc, are making me somewhat uncomfortable, because I know from experience that I don't have to do jack shit for a friendship to be ruined by a friend's girlfriend, ostensibly because of "me".
What's not making me uncomfortable, though it probably should, is the reinforcement of my Red Pill views. My prior experience with this sort of stuff was before I found the Red Pill, and I used to think that particular girl was an exception. Now I know differently, and I'm not surprised in the least. The truth fucking hurts though. In this case by proxy, since I don't want to see my friends hurt, but I can see where things are going:
My friends are mostly beta/delta, and they're certainly blue pill. They're pedestalizing their girlfriends too much and being too soft on them, and it's obvious it's backfiring. It's like watching a train wreck in slow motion. The girlfriends are regularly disrespecting their boyfriends in the company of others, like underhandedly questioning their manhood etc. My friends take it and laugh a little bit about it, but I can see that it hurts. I can also see the kernel of seriousness in the eyes of their girlfriends when they "jokingly" do this.
I cringe. Oh dear god I cringe, every fucking time. I want to scream at my friends:
"FFS, don't take their bitchery with downcast eyes and nervous laughing! Call them out for it! Make it unequivocal that you are MEN and that you don't accept their female passive aggressive bullshit!"
It's not surprising in the least that these girls like me.
Fortunately I meet these girls seldom enough that I can't see it developing into a real problem for me, and I certainly won't be accepting any 1 on 1 time with either of them.
Have others here experienced this sort of problem?
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