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[–]dale06075 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You should really assess the situation better before dropping in your two cents. We have a decent representation of 20's, 30's, 40's, maybe even some 50's in here. Personally, I'm a 30 year old dating a 24 year old.
This isn't a woman-hating circle jerk. The Red Pill is about becoming a better man in life. Women come as a side benefit to a fulfilling life of hobbies, passions, and the pursuit of bettering ones self.
So, perhaps a visit to the sidebar is in order for you to really see what we're about.
[–]Questionablechoice 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm 33 in an LTR with a 29 with a 26 plate and an occasion 28 ex once in a blue moon too.
I get IoI's from checkout girls at the grocery store and I am not what I would consider top 20%. I would estimate myself as top 30% I need to drop some body fat maybe 10 - 20 lbs of it to get to a nice 12 - 15%.
When you know the rules of the game and radiate an aura of value you have value.
[–]ThePhilosophicalApe1 point 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I'll just respond to this post because it's on top and similar to the others. Yeah, I read a bit of the sidebar; the posts were kind of unintelligible otherwise because of the jargon. I get the jist I think: women are generally emotional as as opposed to rational and respond to attractive, assertive men who are doing well in life. Further, women decline in "value" rapidly as they age whereas men can (though won't necessarily) increase in value.
Ok, sure. I'm not going to deconstruct that because I'm not qualified to. What I'm saying is that there is a great potential for a decline in the quality of attractive young women you can get as you age (assuming you weren't an awkward mess as a young man). This is mitigated by self-improvement, but not eliminated by it.
Because it seems like the suggestion I'm a failure is being used as a way to dismiss the validity of that statement, I'll get a bit more personal here. I can still attract good looking women, but not as many young ones as when I was three years older than them, as opposed to seven. I didn't get fat, I'm comfortable with people, and although I'm a student atm I have a job lined up for after graduation that pays out a low six figure starting salary . I'm sure all that makes me more attractive to women, including those a few years younger than myself. But I am nonetheless not in competition with guys in their 40s and 50s who carried out similar or more productive lifestyles. Bottom line: don't put off casually dating if that's something you want just because you think time is not a limiting factor.
Think about this: when you were 25, were you competing for the undergrad girls' attention with men in their 40s? I sure wasn't.
As for the way women seem to be viewed here, I've seen a lot of vitriol in the posts I read. That's just anecdotal though, so I can't say much more than that the experience was off putting to my mainstream (I suppose you'd say beta bucks) mindset.
[–]Napolean-complex4 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Although I feel that everyone is entitled to an opinion, I don't feel that anyone would benefit from yours on this topic.
[–]Senior ContributorMentORPHEUS2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Please read the sidebar and lurk before making posts, this is nothing but uninformed skepticism turned concern trolling.
[–]moose_war0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We got a sage giving us advice here. We need to take his wisdom of "give up like I did".
[–]fundude12 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Im 36 y/o with a 24 y/o female.
What the fuck are you talking about?
Betas gonna beta.
[–]FatStig3 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You got fat and have no frame.
[–]you_handsome_devil 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What's your philosophy on life? What motivates you? Everyone's experiences are different, and you explained yours. I've found that my experiences are, in general, similar to those of other men on this subreddit.
If I choose to date casually when I'm young and choose not to settle down, TRP gives me options and advocates meeting your highest potential. It's not easy, but it would be worthless if it were.
The advantage you attribute to women about being youthful isn't necessarily limited to women. When I was young I attracted a lot of beautiful girls. I'm only in my late 20s now, but that has dramatically declined.
Sounds like you fucked up. The opposite has happened for me.
[–]50pluspiller1 point 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You child are a moron.
Let's see, when I was in my 40s, I was spinning a 26 y/o, two 29 y/o's, and a 37. All models.
Now that I am in my 50s, I've slowed down a little, and upped the age of my plates, mainly late 30s early 40s... though I recently scored a 27 y/o south American girl.
I don't have a negative attitude on women, I just know how they work. AWALT!
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