As part of my job, I set performance objectives for members of my team. Since we've been acquired by a large company, much of this has devolved into a pencil drill. That said, the concept is sound: set actionable, achievable and measurable goals so that you can track your progress in a particular field.

I believe this applies to TRP as much as it does to corporate America.

The particular goal that I'm going to submit to the mighty readership of this sub is as follows: sleep with at least 20 women.

Note that this goal is designed for the intermediate practitioner here at TRP. For those who are currently sitting at incel status, you should focus on more basic fundamentals, such as physical self-improvement, and short-term gains that might simply include: get laid. This goal is also not meant for the advanced Red Pill man, as it has likely been surpassed or is just unimportant to you as you fully grasp the concept of outcome independence.

But, for the rest of you, and I think it may be a sizeable minority, if not majority of readers here, let me explain why hitting the 20 sexual partner mark is a good goal.

  1. It indicates a solid baseline of understanding relevant to masculine-feminine dynamics. It's kind of like a double bodyweight squat or a 6:00 minute mile. Neither of those are particularly impressive to professional power lifters or track and field athletes; however, no one scoffs at those numbers, not even elite folks. Just as a double bodyweight squat is a good indicator that you are ready to transition into serious lifting routines, a partner count of 20 indicates that you can transition into more advanced game techniques like plate spinning or long-term relationships. Indeed, I would advise the reader not to engage in a long term relationship until he's hit 20 sexual partners.

  2. At 20 partners, something interesting happens: you start to forget the details of each encounter. At around 20 partners it began to occur to me that I could no longer recall the names of everyone I'd slept with, nor the exact circumstances of how the encounter occurred. That may seem like a bad thing, but it's not. It means that getting laid is no longer a special thing to you, and as such your anxiety levels when interacting with women will drop.

  3. This number of partners indicates that you have a process. Get laid once? It could be pure luck. Ten women sleep with you? Maybe you're just really good-looking or rich. But, if 20 different women sleep with you, it indicates that you have a system that works. Sure, your system might still have considerable room for improvement, but your fundamentals are probably sound.

  4. You have likely beginning to have outcome independence. This really follows from Item #2. Some people might need less success to gain this understanding; some may need more. That said, the fact that having sex is no longer a super special thing to you will undoubtedly help lead to outcome independence within the realm of intimate interactions with women.

Personally, I'd combine the Magic 20 goal with some interesting and entertaining sub-tasks. You don't want the journey to be a grind; it should be fun! Some of these might include:

  1. Have a threeway.

  2. Have sex in a parking lot.

  3. Sleep with a girl within two hours of meeting her.

  4. Have sex with three different women over the course of a weekend; do not shower between encounters.

  5. Bang three girls named "Cindy" in a row.

These are just some examples. Once you crest into the double-digits, you'll no doubt begin to get creative on your own. Indeed, setting some sub-tasks can actually help you out, as you'll stop focusing on the girl you're interacting with and instead focus on the task at hand. Sure, Sarah is good-looking, but she's not named Cindy; the only reason to go home with her is if her friend Carrie comes along so you can cross that threeway off your list.

Don't underestimate how much power this has. Women will realize rapidly that you are not particularly concerned about pleasing her, but rather are concerned about engaging with her in an interesting experience. Once she picks up on that, it is quite likely to make her want to join in, as nothing gets a girl going quicker than the thought of an interesting and fun experience. These goals help you provide her with that, while helping you avoid falling into the trap of trying to please her, which is utterly boring to a woman.

There you have it, gentlemen. I hope you all enjoy the ride to your first 20. I look forward to hearing your field reports.

Oh, and one more thing: encounters with 'tutes don't count. I'm looking at you, Whisper.