Even though Abundance mindset or mentality and Abundance experience are not mutually exclusive, there is difference.

Abundance with women means having options. So, Abundance experience is situation where a person is having multiple women ( more than 1) to plate at the time. Abundance mindset on the other hand is simply confidence of a person to have abundance experience. Which means that a person with no plates at the moment (or having only one) is confident that he is able to live abundance experience. At the same time a person with Abundance mindset can be alone without any plates and still enjoy life to the fullest. He is not falling into scarcity mentality because he is confident in his ability to create Abundance experience.

However, someone with abundance experience may not have abundance mindset, setting himself up to a dangerous situation. A person without Abundance mindset is still scary of scarcity experience. So, he may have multiple plates at the moment but is scared to lose them all and be alone. While a person with Abundance mindset doesn't care how many plates he has at the moment or any at all. So, it is possible to have Abundance experience without Abundance mindset. But Abundance mentality is what every man should develop foremost. It will lead to Abundance experience anyway!