Introduction

After lurking for more than 2 months, I have noticed 2 camps of redpillers in this sub. Pardon the lack of formatting, I am on mobile.

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There are the men who have experienced and got burnt by their LTR's or girlfriends. They know AWALT, and have FR's or personal experience to back it up.

Then there is the second camp. The Incels like myself. Having no luck, they sought ways and means to justify being incels by voraciously consuming redpill knowledge from sidebars, daily posts, just to keep the hatred alive. That not having one is better.

It is a self fulfilling prophecy, one of justifying inaction. The very same who say they go on monk mode, and read some mgtow to feel happy justifying the lack of women and buying a car with all the money saved. Honestly. Stop avoiding the damn problem. You can be the fittest, most handsome version of yourself but nothing would change if your mentality is still the same bitter hateful one. Anger blinds you. Stand your ground. Stop finding excuses for yourself. Get out there and live. See someone you like, go for it. Get rejected, use it as motivation.

One thing I have to thank TRP for. I dress in fitting clothes, got better shoes and started lifting for about a month. Previously I was one of those male cardio bunnies who preferred running and cycling. Now I can see some semblance of results, and I truly enjoy it. I visit the counsellor less and found an improvement in mood. I learnt to truly live. It's a struggle but it will be worth it.