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Help! A plea from a young college student.

nilly_welson
December 5, 2013
13 upvotes
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Title Help! A plea from a young college student.
Author

nilly_welson
Upvotes 13
Comments 23
Date December 5, 2013 7:45 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1s6kn0/help_a_plea_from_a_young_college_student/
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College student follow-up field report

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December 6, 2013
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[–]magicalbird18 points19 points20 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

No text back for a good hour after she had initiated conversation. Then

Her: Sorry I was on the phone with my best friend (: sorry I didn't respond sooner.

Me: Oh was it x

Her: No it was my ex, haha we're actually like best friends!

Too much worthless crap here. You made a shit test happen cause you're texting her too much

Ignore her text and pick her up

[–]pcadrian15 points 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You made a shit test happen

Yup. The "Oh was it x" line was almost like he was doing the shit testing to himself.

[–]nilly_welson[S] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Huh, thats an interesting thought. That makes complete sense.

[–]trudatness 15 points16 points17 points 12 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

She's fishing you - don't bite.

Just cut to the chase. When is the date?

When you go on the date and you feel the vibe that she's a game player - just stone face through it. Don't over exert. Be cocky, but fun. Respond to verbal shit tests with a chuckle and a cocky grin.

When you make the move, make it with conviction. Grab her and kiss, don't exaggerate the move, just do it - and do it so if she wants to NOT kiss you she has make a serious head jerk.

If she shines you on and pulls the "move my face kiss my cheek bullshit" again - that's 2 strikes and you're out. Don't get visibly angry or butthurt - maintain your smile and cheery disposition - look at her - shake your head and terminate the date.

If you kiss successfully, you're in. Play it cool and confident. Take her back to your place and serve up the cock.

After you fuck - don't get all drippy dick. Be somewhat distant, but keep smiling. Remember, the next morning - you got shit to do that doesn't involve her. Don't call her for at least 48 hours.

Rinse - repeat.

[–]nilly_welson[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thanks for the advice. This is exactly the kind of thing I'm looking for. The date is tonight fyi.

[–]trudatness 12 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Never let them see you sweat little brother.

Knock the bottom out of that shit.

[–]yummybits1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

First of all, kiss successfully != sex and no, he's not in. He already tried kissing her and she retracted. He needs to go touchy graby first to feel her out before making a move again.

[–]trudatness 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Never was a big believer in pre-emptive kino before the move. You get blue balls that way. I hated that shit when I was 15-21. Blue balls is 110% real - and hurts like son of a bitch.

I game should be all mental. You need to be charismatic, entertaining and funny, but be at the ready to flash the dark side when needed.

Some girls are pretty little hate machines - and when you deal with that type you have to be ready with a harsh comeback that you say with a smile. You have to be unfazed - totally unshakable.

The adult mindset is - if you are going to make out with me - then we are fucking. Or else WTF was it for? What are you 12?

And the femcunt bluepills stalking this reddit - I don't mean force yourself on a woman - but it is 100% reasonable to assume fucking is next step.

If a woman throws up some LMR, use whatever bypass game you got, then sink the bismark. If a chick puts the breaks on hard, you stop what you are doing, take the girl home and delete her number. She should be smart enough to know that making out is essentially foreplay. There is no Oops how did this happen? Oh my how did things get this far? Fuck you - you're playing head games. NEXT.

[–]yummybits2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

As soon as she knows she can have you she won't want you anymore. OP made a move on her = direct expression of sexual desire, she rejected him. PERIOD. GAME OVER. NEXT !
If OP starts chasing her and going after her she will simply pull further back. The game needs to be reversed, but unfortunately one wrong move in this game and YOU ARE OUT.
I think OP is already toasted and she already won.

[–]trudatness 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I sent him back in hoping he gets redemption. You notice I advised him on how to handle the bullshit she's likely to pull in hopes he can reframe when he laughs off the denial and leaves her in the middle of the date.

You never know maybe she gives it up, but yeah you're right - his chances aren't that good.

[–]yummybits4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Next time you see her, make plans with her. If she doesn't follow up, ditch her and cut all communications with her. You already tried kissing her and she retracted, this tells me that you haven't really seduced her.

[–]nilly_welson[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

did you tread the whole thing? we have a date tonight and we've met up between classes just to hook up during the day time.

[–]yummybits2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok. I'd recommend to stand her up and ignore her for a little while. If she texts you, tell her you had other obligations (e.g. another girl).
The bottom line is: you already tried making physical contact and she ignored you, any further advancements will only push her further away from you.

[–]pcadrian 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't make lunch plans and talk a lot for first dates. I find that the best way to have a first date is to walk somewhere (park, downtown, whatever), or be at your/her place, because it gives you the opportunity to have some kino (hold hands, put arm around her waist, etc.) and escalate.

You're texting too much, and not being flirty enough in those texts. The "live dangerously" was good, but the "was it x" wasn't. Make dates. I would've just said

Someone likes to live dangerously. When are you free next so we can get together?

[–]FortunateBum4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When in doubt, I think it's best to just ignore and be silent.

I'm really considering just not saying anything until its time for me to pick her up.

So yeah, you're already doing it.

Just always remember your goal: putting your penis into her vagina. Everything else is secondary.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You've received some good advice. A field report tomorrow morning would not be remiss.

[–]nilly_welson[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Ok so far I have what I've already done wrong. And this is great, I can learn from it. However I think I need to clarify what I am asking. We already have something planned for tonight, its a good opportunity for our first fuck.

She threw me a nice shit test (my fault for talking too much, I get it.) and now I'm curious as to how I should handle it. Again I know beggars can't be choosers especially when they post in the wrong subreddit.

[–]1AfterC2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ignore her shit. You've already planned your date. Don't text her again. You're going to see her in person.

[–]Mr_Bell1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When you see her, just talk about this IF she brings it up. Then you can A&A. "Yeah, I still go to my ex's parents for Christmas." If she laughs, you don't, so she gets this is ridiculous.

[–]nilly_welson[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Also I know this would be better suited for /r/asktrp but for some reason its not letting me post.

[–]slcjosh0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NsOyvVVgYDg

[–]Drvibe-4 points-3 points-2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

u sound beta as fuck

and this girl sounds like a dork

[–]nilly_welson[S] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks faggot. Got laid so you can kiss my tip.

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