Here's what I learned from being in a relationship with an active user of TRP, as a woman. Here's what worked and what didn't work.

littleblacktruck · 2017-08-10T00:44:12+00:00

Once you said that you were bi, your opinion instantly lost merit with me.

trpthrowaway2003 · 2017-08-10T00:45:16+00:00

It sounds to me like you are confirming basically everything that is preached here.

It was his DGAF attitude, his looks and his fitness level that got you to approach him.

He finally told me he wasn’t seeing anyone and apologized for being a lame texter.

Sounds like he got the oneitis.

Let's see the insta

Paininabox · 2017-08-10T00:56:43+00:00

So, he is still having sex with you, flirting with other girls, not being intimidated by beauty, and keeping it cool. That you think this doesn't work is indicative, in and of itself, of solipsism; that you think what you think his goals were and what you think did or did not work is the same way he thinks is untrue.

I skimmed this, because it quickly became apparent that the vast majority of this was mental masturbation and very little honest introspection. Most importantly, you forget the most important rule on the internet.

mcgoozers · 2017-08-10T00:49:28+00:00

I notice that girls who were raped are very VERY quick to jump on another dick the very second things go bad in her relationship. Had the exact same thing happen to me. Asked for a break, and in less than 24 hrs she was already getting boned. Is it because you need the reassurance that you are wanted, to make up for the fact that you were dumped?

Omnibrad · 2017-08-10T00:56:00+00:00

4.) Bringing up opinions and how that was a struggle: As I said, I grew up very liberal. And “D” probably had a similar rhetoric to many of you guys. This was probably one of the biggest issues between us and continues to be.
...
Cause that shit just makes me lose respect for “D” the more I hear about his different opinions, and at the end of the day I just care about if he is a good person.

Translation: "Here let me insert this narcissistic story about NYU so I can pretend to know shit about fuck. I expect to use guys as emotional tampons and will drop my opinion every moment of our time together, meanwhile as for the guy and his opinions? Yeah they can fuck right off."

CallMeHaseo · 2017-08-10T01:03:14+00:00

I stopped reading when she said she's liberal 😭

Mr-Ed209 · 2017-08-10T02:02:54+00:00

I'm really confused by the part where you go back to CA.

You say you ended things and hooked up with someone else. That he was insecure and had your laptop to read your iMessages etc. It seems his insecurity was pretty much on the money? That you were on a 'break' - how was he not to take this that you split up to fuck another guy then crawled back to him after having your 'validation'?

You seem to be blaming D's RP ways for you cheating on him in 2 instances. When if you're honest they have nothing to do with how he treated you at all.

This whole post will be taken as support for RP ways. You're never going to convince the guys here that they should be open and honest and 'that's what girls really want'..

Let me ask you, during your time with D? You're 'male friends' that you feel entitled to have. We're they ever nice, a shoulder to cry on when D was ignoring your texts? That's the kind of men many guys here used to be. Invisible and ignored. Because girls lack feelings for these guys they can't empathize with them. Women don't understand many of these guys are fawning after them - why would you when your own feelings are not even close to theirs. I understand it, truly.

420KUSHBUSH · 2017-08-10T00:29:14+00:00

If you offer to go on this sub and voice your opinion despite the flack the sub gets and offer to help why do people insult you? I just don't get it

About to read and report back

zqxo · 2017-08-10T02:18:04+00:00

Finally some perspective on the actual outcomes of these techniques. In the end, real authenticity of character is what will get you far in life. You cannot hide from yourself forever, you're still "you" regardless of frame or any of these affections you add to your ego.

lopsidedlucky · 2017-08-10T01:06:34+00:00

She is whoring for validation and each of you posting here is giving it to her. You all need a side bar refresh.

Everyone here needs to stop responding to this thread. You're massively failing a shit test while coming off as thirsty beta's and validating this girl's bullshit attempts for attention disguised as

to reach and empower someone out there. Much love.

She does not know a single one of you and awalt applies. She wouldn't lose an ounce of sleep if one of you blew your face off tonight unless she could get more insta followers. No woman beside perhaps your mom is ever anywhere to "reach" or "empower" you.

Now to be reach into the weeds she has clearly broken a major rule here and hasn't even showed the respect to read the posting guidelines.

Title	Here's what I learned from being in a relationship with an active user of TRP, as a woman. Here's what worked and what didn't work.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	21
Date	August 10, 2017 12:26 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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