High school senior here. Discovered TRP a few weeks back. Some questions.

last_to_know · 2013-07-30T18:46:20+00:00

You need to focus on doing well in school and if you're not already you should probably start working out. Most of the "cool" kids in high school aren't going to be able to pull girls once they're out of school for a while. Invest in yourself now and it way pay out tenfold in the future.

GayLubeOil · 2013-07-30T19:01:05+00:00

In high school the pool of girls is incredibly small so their value is artificially inflated. In college everything is going to be better. There are going to be thousands of girls you can meet.

RPstudent · 2013-07-30T20:39:03+00:00

tl;dr If you're suave as hell or you can fake smoothness through preparation, dates will get you laid more often than any other means

I disagree with these other guys. Dates will get you laid if you go about them the right way and it sounds like you prefer them anyway. This is long as fuck u/TRPteen but it’s constructive and unless these other guys giving you advice are Tucker Max they don't have the history with women that I do.

The attitude of "Dont take chicks on dates" is the norm now. Of course it’s easier to bang a rando but it takes a set of brass nuts to ask a girl out. A date absolutely is an uncomfortable situation, not just for you, but for her too.Keep this in mind because guys simply don't take girls on dates anymore and she probably doesn't know how to act just as much as you don’t. Her agreeing to go out with you in the first place means she's interested, you tall drink of water, you.

First, offer to pick her up but don't insist as she may have a reason as to why she doesn't want you at her house. Also, and this is for every situation for the rest of your life, show interest in meeting her parents but don't actually do it unless you're definitely looking for long term. And I mean you gotta be certain this girl is special.

Now once on the date, regardless of how uncomfortable you may be, don't fucking look uncomfortable. You obviously have heard the message that girls like confidence and also want guys who don't want them. This is true. What is also true is that chivalry is not dead, it's just under-utilized. A combination of both calculated douchebaggery and chivalry and you're golden. So since you know she's uncomfortable making her feel comfortable with you is a priority. But this is not done by asking a million "Are you having fun?", "Are you uncomfortable?" "You seem bored, are you bored?" questions. The way to make her feel comfortable is to have complete control over the entire date. Don't ask where she wants to go, instead make a reservation(this alone makes girls wet) at a place that has a wide selection of food so no matter what her weird ass diet habits may be she has an option. And if you have a restaurant where you know a hostess or waiter, go there; leaving the table to say hi to someone who works there, or better yet having them approach you, sends the message that you are popular and social and also, if you went up to them, that you take initiative.

Another little tid-bit about picking a restaurant that depends on your personal choice is pick BYOB. I don’t know what state you’re from but BYOBs are money. A couple conditions on the BYOB though: -You’re only 17 and I’m assuming, unless you’re the fucking man, she will be around 17 too. It’s illegal for you to drink so this is only if you feel comfortable doing this or feel like you can pull it off. -This is the one question you can and should ask her before the date, just text her and ask “Would you like a bottle of wine if I were to get one”. If she’s uncomfortable with the underage drinking don’t push it. -I’ve never been asked for ID at a place where you BYO even when I was underage but keep in mind it’s a possibility and have a plan for how to talk your way out of that situation. -Along these lines, you’re 6’4 so you should be fine no matter what, but if the girl looks very young it’s probably not worth the risk. *Disclaimer: I don’t like encouraging HS drinking or any sort of drunk driving. But laid is laid.

Control the conversation but also allow her to ramble on about some shit if you can see her getting on a roll. Also when she talks, listen and read her body language. Replying to her by referencing something she just said(or even better something she said from a previous time you saw her) will make her think you're interested in her mind which chicks(and especially hot ones) think is impossible for a guy especially one who's seventeen. Beware though, there's a fine line between creeping a girl out and having her swoon over your attentiveness, this is just learned with time. Also when you're talking, its good to know something about the girls level of intelligence. Don't ask about her thoughts on idk the economic impact on the upper class should minimum wage be increased in the coming fiscal year, if she spends her free time keeping up with the kuntdashians. Know your audience.

When the check comes and you're mid conversation(you better be mid-conversation you awkward silence mother fucker), say thank you to the waiter and don't reach for it but ask her to continue what she's saying or you continue talking. By not reaching for the check right away you show you're more interested in spending more time with her than you are with money or rushing to get out of there. This, again, adds to the comfort you're trying to create.

When leaving the restaurant say thank you to the hostess(manners, manners, manners) and walk in front of the girl until you get close to the door at which point, step aside and guide her by you with your hand on the small of her back while simultaneously opening the door for her. After you're outside, if you can tell she's feeling it put a hand on her hip, take your other hand and lightly rest it beneath her chin, tilt her head up and, if you’ve gotten to this point with no resistance, kiss her. In my experience they always kiss back. Take her back to her or your car always maintaining the conversation, open her door and grab her by the waist before she gets in and kiss her again while pushing her against the car.

All of this should result in her blowing you in the car. And if it gets you laid the sex will be better than anything you can get at a random party.

This should work well over half the time. Another benefit is when she tells her friends about it(and she will) you'll immediately have them jealous of her and wanting you, which you can choose to take advantage of now or wait a few years. You're 17, so you don't realize this yet, but HS crushes die really hard, so when you're in the bars or clubs or wherever you end up spending your drinking years, and you see that girl from HS who magically sprouted D-Cups and an other-worldly ass in college she'll remember how nice you were to her friend and you have a good shot at hooking up even before you say a word(future advice: if this happens don’t take this girl on a date, you put that work in years prior. Take her home and one night stand that girl). 24 year old you will thank 17 year old you. Trust me.

Also, people may tell you you’re a scumbag for acting like you liked her and treating her nice, hooking up, then slowly(but surely) cutting off communication. I’ve gotten that shit from people and frankly it contradicts everything girls say they like/don’t like. You mean to tell me a girl would rather be drunk and get fucked by a random bro in a basement closet, rather than having a nice guy take her out, seduce her, and fuck her in the (much more romantic I must say) backseat of a car? In the end the girl you treat well will appreciate it for sure and won’t think of you as a dick. Just make sure you don’t say anything about wanting a relationship or a future with her and you will have done nothing insincere.

FucknaughtTheElder · 2013-07-30T19:44:16+00:00

Yeah, forget the formal 'date' nonsense. I was a God-King of some sort in HS (so my classmates, m and f, told me years later) and all I did was be oblivious to 'dating.' I had stuff I wanted to do. I did my stuff. I was nice to people, including unpopular people. When I wanted a girl with me, to hit a party or skip school, I asked her if she wanted to do THAT specific thing with me. THEY were invariably wondering if I was their True Love Forever or some weird shit; I just liked having a HS girl around, occasionally. Make sure she's safe, has fun, and dump her off at home early so you can get into real trouble later.

Under NO circumstances should you seek some kind of HS "Romance" or couple type of thing. Yeah, i know, you really want to get "laid" but the sex at this level of the game is so pathetic its just not worth the surrounding bullshit. Unless, of course you coupled up with the school's six-foot Swedish exchange student. But then you'd be a God-King, like me.

tl;dr : Delusional old man gives irrelevant advice to someone two generations younger; amuses no one but himself

EleriumAvenger · 2013-07-30T17:49:42+00:00

http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/book_of_pook.pdf

give a look through this book.

From personal experience action date lead to more dates, take her dancing, bowling, swimming, going to the park and swing then grab some ice cream or go biking just as long as you are doing something.

. by asking "will you go out with me" you give her a great opportunity to say no. say something along the line of "Hey sally, I am doing x, Ill pick you up at 7" for the most part if given direction a woman will fallow if you are confident enough.

neXianXavia · 2013-07-31T02:43:45+00:00

For the love of god, do not get set in the one woman trap.

Other than that, start lifting, focus hard on your study.

Command, and don't think, do. Don't even give a fuck about the repercussions. The consequences of your actions regarding words and talking are not going to be utterly massive unless you make it.

Stop giving a fuck about what people think, but at the same time, be the best human being you can be.

Usherai · 2013-07-30T17:42:19+00:00

Don't take girls on real dates, first off. Secondly, read the sidebar. There is a wealth of information available to you. High school really doesn't matter all that much so you can just work on being social and interacting with girls in a fun, flirty way even without explicitly gaming them too much. Social interaction is a skill like any other, and it just takes practice.

That being said, there are many other things you should be focusing on as well, such as fitness, school, etc. Really, just take the time to do the reading and develop a plan to start applying the lessons therein.

SnowOnYourFace · 2013-07-30T18:21:26+00:00

At 25, commands in texts have always worked well for me. Sometimes they'll turn it down, but you have a much better shot at it working.

Learn the power of ignoring, yet being incredibly positive when you do engage. Always have the vibe of 'fun' at your age. Think parties, not dates.

TRIGGER__WARNING · 2013-07-31T01:47:41+00:00

I'm 19. So I was just in high school. I never went on one date. I got laid, I had girlfriends, but I never did dates.

Countless times, I'd invite a girl over to "watch movies." If she accepted, I was in. We'd start a movie and fool around the whole time. I usually fucked them soon after.

The key was... being assertive. I didn't realize it until sophomore year. I just took what I wanted. Said what I thought. I didn't beat around the bush with dating, gifts, and friendship. That's the beta game.

You don't want to play the beta game. Be the guy girls want to fool around with and have fun with. Don't be the "nice guy" who'd "make someone happy some day." I got action without spending a dime or promising commitment.

But in all honestly, none of my high school escapades were particularly memorable. College is when you'll have the most fun and meet the most girls. You'll try things you've never thought of before.

Don't sweat it too much until then. Focus on getting good grades and bettering yourself. Invest in yourself, and you'll see the rewards when you get to college and beyond.

zionCgobblescock · 2013-07-30T19:37:13+00:00

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