I used to be low value. Worked on myself and would now consider myself high value. Every time I go to the club (I only exclusively get club girls) I get interest from women - last night got 4-5 #s. Have also gotten a consistent fuck buddy from there.

My problem is I don’t know how to open girls at all. I’ve only been going out for less than half a year. The girls usually just come near me, I say something basic like hey, they start twerking on me, small talk, take them home. Last night I had more success bc a friend opened a group, the cutest one saw me and my friend talking to her group so she walked over to us and said saw you in there and thought you were good looking (I didn’t even see her) so I’m thinking how do I initiate those few cute girls in a club who won’t approach me but do in fact like me. She was being very open abt her attraction to me in front of all her guy and girl friends but never had the courage to even go near me.

Once either I somehow shittily open a convo or they start twerking on me I have 0 issues at all making the convo sexual and keeping them interested but I just don’t know how to open the convo in a way that I feel is good enough.

So I ask the experts on advice on how I can improve my openers at a club/anywhere. My mind blanks out if I see a cute girl and idk what to say to her but once the convo is started that’s ez mode for me.

A bit on why I have luck but terrible verbal game is from 17-22 I was in LTRs where the girls initiated the whole relationship and I never had to “open” the convo so I just never had to learn but I need to change that. No father figure or brothers or honestly good friend group or anywhere where I could learn good game