The US Women's Soccer team's goalie had her 4th degree assault charges dismissed against her half-sister and nephew. I think if this was man we'd be hearing about for months (like Ray Rice, though he did knock his wife the fuck out, she DID spit on him and punch him first).

http://www.si.com/planet-futbol/2015/01/13/hope-solo-charges-dismissed

The ball is ALWAYS in her court. You have to mentally control as much as you can. If you show weakness AND insult her in some way, you may be in for it. You mustn't show ANY weakness, at which point if you insult a woman, she'll hopefully be too enamored with you to fuck you over in a really conniving way.