How do I conquer my rage?

redpillschool · 2013-06-12T03:23:35+00:00

I rather like my rage. When it's missing, that's when you know something's wrong.

RedSunBlue · 2013-06-12T03:18:20+00:00

Here are your options:

Quit
Quit
Quit
Be a model worker, but document every interaction. Even if your boss asks you to do something in person, have her email you a reminder.
Limit socialization with everyone in your office by being strange. Psycopath strange.

chikinpickle · 2013-06-12T04:05:28+00:00

If people are being passive aggressive I will just act like I'm too retarded to understand what they are trying to say. Completely ignore the passive aggressiveness. Eventually they will fuck off, or think I'm stupid. Which is fine, because if they think I'm stupid it puts me at a huge advantage. :)

If you're feeling confrontational you can call them out on it, and ask them to be

If someone has an issue, they can come talk to me about it like an adult or it's not going to get resolved. But yes, women are piss poor at managing people. I very rarely have met one that can do the job effectively.

favours_of_the_moon · 2013-06-12T03:23:33+00:00

Your job performance is not what will matter in this situation.

What will matter is, if they like you or not.

A_Seabear · 2013-06-12T03:27:10+00:00

Honestly, this is what I do whenever I get super pissed at anyone in a position of authority who I can't fight head on (yet). I write shit down.

I write down how much I hate them. I write down how incompetent they are. I write down how it's a god damn miracle that they still have their jobs. I write down how much I wish they'd suffer for what they have caused me.

After that, I go and work out and I am fine.

Additionally: ALWAYS COVER YOUR ASS

Paranoia is your greatest ally here. If you choose to butt heads with your boss (or she chooses to butt heads with you) have a paper trail and recordings for everything. Print all emails and store them somewhere safe. Record all phone calls using google voice or a similar system of technology. Bug your own office/cubicle should she try and make you the fall guy for her mistakes. If you have a meeting with a person two tiers above you, wear a wire, they cannot be trusted either, especially if he/she's in cahoots with your boss. Record everything physically possible and document it on a hard drive, don't let anyone know about it.

This may seem like a fuckton of work, but if things are going sour at your workplace, but you actually like the job, it's worth every penny. Otherwise, quit, and find a better work environment.

toysjoe · 2013-06-12T13:36:01+00:00

When people get passively aggressively with me, I tend to get passively aggressive with them.

Accuse me of an act I did not commit?

I'd reply as such "Please produce to me evidence of me committing said act. Upon receiving said evidence and reviewing its context and authenticity, should your accusation be justified, I will gladly face any discipline you deem appropriate."

2013-06-12T08:32:58+00:00

Personally, situations like this is why I have a code. You obviously want to be as successful as possible in what you do, so I would assume your code as it pertains to the work environment would look something like "I will do whatever it takes to excel at my job." That is a code that deals in absolutes. If I was your boss and told you that you had to move away from your family or girlfriend to excel, would you do it? Would you be willing to take on $20,000 of debt to go to school at night and get another degree? Probably. All these things are hardships you accept and take on because you want to excel. There is also a masculine sense of pride in doing things through adversity and on your own two feet. That's easy.

Are you willing to sacrifice your opinions on life to excel at work? If you're a vegan and your boss invites you to a steak dinner to discuss your future, are you turning the steak down? If your boss is a woman and you know that if you sleep with her you'll get a promotion, are you willing to do that? Or in your case, if your supervisors are all women, are you willing to put a mask on for the sake of your career?

If you saw them outside of a work environment, you could be as RedPill as you wanted (although that would also have an effect on them). At work, however, you have recognized that you being and acting as a man may hinder your progress. So you have to look at whatever code you've set up for yourself. Ask yourself what it would mean to play their game. As someone who can step back and see exactly what they're doing, you might be able to play the game like Michael Jordan. But is it worth it? Is the value of reaching your goals more important than being rigid in the way you do things?

To you, does being a man mean never wavering in your way of doing things, even if it will hold you back from success? Or does being successful equate to being a good man? If you play the game and get promoted, you might be in a position where you no longer have to put up a front. If you don't, you might have to be stuck under these women for longer than you expect. You might have to quit, and put your career success on hold while you get back on your feet.

Every man needs a code. That code should be unbreakable. Right now, you have to realize that if your code states that you will do whatever it takes to be successful, then you have to play their game. If your code states that you will be open and honest about who you are and how you're feeling, maybe you have to quit. Every day that you go against your code, you are violating who you are as a man. Good luck.

Invincibull · 2013-06-12T03:14:05+00:00

It's not going to improve, that's what women bosses are like. Either find a way to deal with it or move on.

thereisnosuchthing · 2013-06-12T19:18:56+00:00

Just understand that they're looking for a reaction to their bullshit, because that's how they get power.

culofiesta · 2013-06-12T22:17:46+00:00

DOCUMENT EVERYTHING

Use email or a paper trail. Do your job well, have it documented. If you get blamed for something that's not your mistake prove it. I was in this very same situation and I kept a record of everything I did.

I was also in IT so I had the passwords to everything so I had a few cards of my own but it's always good to consolidate power in an office atmosphere.

fauxmosexual · 2013-06-12T04:07:12+00:00

You've got to embrace it. Rage is alpha. Swallowing it just makes you another beta hamster.

The_e-Detective · 2013-06-12T05:30:09+00:00

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Exactly_what_I_think · 2013-06-12T03:21:35+00:00

I find preparing for the worse can calm me.

Fast_Box_8509 · 2022-02-15T23:00:19+00:00

The smart thing would be to not work for a bunch of women, if by acting like women they elicit rage from you.

Barring that, since I don't want to be flippant: Find an outlet. Potentially see if you can get booked for an anger management class.

Title	How do I conquer my rage?
Author	The_e-Detective
Upvotes	10
Comments	45
Date	June 12, 2013 3:05 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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