How do i turn attraction into lays?

TenmillionK · 2015-07-20T08:36:01+00:00

I literally think every time I have a date with a girl that she wants to get laid. I find this help everything progress very well.

SpaceTimeinFlux · 2015-07-20T07:44:03+00:00

just take it easy. talk, kino, escalate, pull a "netflix and chill" if you can't think of a reason to get her to your place. if she's down, it'll happen. no bullshit required. if not, abundance mentality. toss her ass out and find somebody else.

asianmasaccount · 2015-07-20T08:57:37+00:00

I have a couple of friends who are considered attractive (pretty boys). I am not considered that but I manage dynamics with women way better. I've noticed some pretty big differences in how we deal with girls that may answer your question.

So my friend gets a lot of girls who are interested due to no effort of his own, but the girls shit test the hell out of him. The way I explain it to him is "Joey, most guys have to do something that firmly establishes that they are a confident dude before a girl will look at them. You don't because girls like the way you look, so they test you in hopes that you are not a faggot (is that word allowed here? I support the glbt movement for the record). However you actually are so they leave in dissapointment and that's why you fail."

On the other hand I have to do something to get the girl interested, but once that step is done I loose way fewer girls than him. I don't get shit tested nearly as much since the initial attraction was by a demonstration of some sort of character based trait or social value rather than my physical image.

If you're a chemist, basically pretty boy's rate-limiting step is passing shit tests whereas mine is generating the initial attraction. I have another friend who can do both steps well and he kiiiiiiilllls it with women.

But the short answer is "approach them" and then "pass their shit tests". The specifics of those two steps are described in detail in the sidebar and other online resources. If a girl gives you an unequivocal sign of attraction though, you generally have a lot of room to fuck up and still succeed, so don't overthink it.

md619 · 2015-07-20T20:42:42+00:00

A couple things, especially for ONS or first date lays.

Intent. Do you show it? Game without intent is not game, it's just socializing. You have to make sure she knows what's up, even if that means taking risks of rejection or making the situation awakward. Better to show intent uncalibrated then never show it at all.

So be physical. Stand square in front of her when she talks. It's okay to give a compliment, rememebr that its push/pull, not push, push and more push.

Second thing is just doing whatever it takes to make it happen. Grab her by the hand and lead her out of the venue. Learn to deal with her friends. Stay in set and be fucking persistant. SHE WILL NOT DO THIS FOR YOU, because then she would risk looking slutty. You must lead.

Third, get her to emotionally invest in YOU. Do girls just see you as just some good emotion because youre attractive? Or are they actually invested and chasing you? Hint, if you get a lot of makeouts and girls saying "that was fun, bye!" this could be your problem. Shes not winning you over.

Last, and majorly over looked by guys on TRP is comfort. Truth is, the majority of girls are going to need some sort of connection or feeling that they're special in some way so that you wont just fuck and leave. Not always, but mostly. You don't have to go over the top gooey beta, sometimes a simple "it's weird, for some reason I really like you" can be enough. Qualify the girl. Tell stories about your life that are co. Let her feel like you're the Prince and you've chosen her out of all these other bitches. As long as you have the value in her mind to back it up, she will drop her panties. Comfort without value is what betas do. So always keep that ratio of value/comfort in mind.

rpscrote · 2015-07-21T19:41:55+00:00

Arrange logistics so you can escalate, then escalate until you're fucking her or she leaves. Look into some PUA material about this topic, they have really good templates and starting points to help you visualize what it should look like.

A_Medical_Physicist · 2015-07-20T18:40:08+00:00

I don't know if you're on it yet but get a Tinder. Odds are everyone you meet is looking to hookup so any fuck ups you make are pretty forgivable. I've never gotten less than head from a Tinder "date" (a solid third of which are simply them just coming over to my place, the rest are meeting for a drink or coffee) and it doesn't take more than hour at most to seal the deal.

On the extremely off chance you find the mythical girl who isn't looking for ONS (just because she says this in her profile doesn't mean it's the case, in fact it usually means the opposite) you have a perfectly understandable out, "sorry, this is a hookup app in my opinion." You'll never have to see these people again should you choose not, it's really one of the few low risk high reward propositions this world offers you.

But to directly answer your question, a small amount of body contact can be a good gauge. Women are programmed to be repulsed by someone they deem beneath their SMV touching them. If you can touch her arm after telling a joke you're probably fine, if she is okay with your hand on her lower back you're golden. If she makes literally any intentional body contact with you while you are hitting on her that means it's time to bring it back to your place instantly.

NotRAClST2 · 2015-07-20T14:00:10+00:00

Tell them u wanna fuck them.

Title	How do i turn attraction into lays?
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Date	July 20, 2015 7:16 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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