How do you deal with a physical deformity?

Zackcid · 2014-01-08T21:38:39+00:00

This isn't the place to be posting this. Try out /r/askTRP if you've got any TRP related stuff (esp. for newbie stuff like this) or check out /r/seduction for mind tricks to help you forget about your hips. Fitness subs could even help you out on your form and tell you if it'll change.

Personally, I think you should just brainwash yourself or just change the way you think. Instead of telling yourself negative bullshit, how about you try telling yourself how awesome you are and praising? You become what you think about and girls will only care about the positive emotions you bring to the table. Don't ever expect empathy from strange women or women in general. Your looks don't matter nearly as much.

DaddyMonster · 2014-01-09T06:48:49+00:00

Do you really have abnormally wide hips? Have you measured and compared to statistics? Have you measured you body proportions?

If you do, tough shit, but that can be compensated for with exercise and clothing. Also, if you're overweight, it'll seem much worse than it really is.

Make the best of what you have and maximise your advantages. It's all most of us can do. The rest is psychological.

venereveritas · 2014-01-08T23:14:25+00:00

I know that building up my lats, delts, and obliques will help even it out, but I don't know man I just feel like "what's the point"...

I don't know if this helps, but, having been born female and having an hour glass figure, working out can do a lot in changing your physique. Yes, it takes time to build up proper muscles, but the end result will be amazing as long as you keep up with it. That's the key here, if your hips really bother you, working out wont help unless you are willing to commit to working out your body to change it. Of course, this will not change the fact that your hips are wide, so you really need to consider changing the way you view yourself.

t-_-j · 2014-01-09T01:13:47+00:00

Whatever you feel is your problem, own it. I have nasty ugly feet, but hiding them doesn't make me stronger it makes me weaker. I think you have to be proud of yourself whatever your circumstance - so you can be comfortable, so you can be confident.

AdolfGoldstein · 2014-01-09T03:48:47+00:00

Improve yourself as much as possible, don't stress what you can't fix. Believe in yourself, do shit, have good results to show in many different areas of life. This will get you some interest and respect from people.

Wowrllyscrub · 2014-01-09T05:58:00+00:00

Wrong mindset, needs more redpill.

Title	How do you deal with a physical deformity?
Author	The_BitterTruth
Upvotes	3
Comments	15
Date	January 8, 2014 9:33 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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