How do you feel about dancing?

CoriolanusRevisited · 2015-02-06T18:51:40+00:00

Anyway, my question to the forum is, what do you consider dancing? Red pill? If you don't like dancing, is that blue pill? I've never taken to it.

Very, very few activities are inherently 'red pill' or 'blue pill'. With that said, dancing is one of the only universal human activities that virtually all cultures in all time periods do, much like language. It is a way to tap into our primal roots, and women universally like a man that dances well because it involves rhythm, hip mobility, and stamina and thus is an excellent indicator of a man's ability to perform during sex.

I would recommend you take a shine to dancing and begin thinking of it more as a means of expressing yourself as a sexual man. Women tend to enjoy dancing more than men because women are far more used to being 'on display' as sexual beings and tend to be comfortable with that to a degree many men aren't.

Also, not to be 'that guy', but you really ought to read the sidebar more. You show a lack of awareness of recognizing shit tests (her claiming you were checking out a woman had you dumbfounded) as well as not realizing women prefer covert communication (and thus dancing as foreplay opposed to foreplay as foreplay).

thereddespair · 2015-02-06T19:16:39+00:00

I dance a lot, different styles.

I wouldn't say the act itself is redpill or bluepill but how the person deals with it if its not his or her thing - and the partner wants it.

If you do it right, dancing with them, you can really turn a woman on like crazy. Even if you do not engage them, just you pulling off really extreme or sensual movements on your own - a woman can feel the intensity.

From observation, it does pull people towards you if you are good with it. Even straight women lol. I had a few times where they would come to me and dance all slutty around me, and then I do engage and go full on then.

My favorite one ever, it was with this parkour guy who was dancing topless at the club. Dancing with him almost felt like having sex, the movement the intensity the sweat and touch it was just...

Ins: Thinking about it now, after spending time dancing with such people it really made me feel different towards people in the club, men, who won't dance. They appeared boring to me, just standing there doing nothing - just acting cute.

EstefanoMoravera · 2015-02-07T01:05:26+00:00

dude you gotta dance some, man, have fun, it's cool

8jh · 2015-02-06T19:03:22+00:00

Offer to take a dancing class with her. If you're not interested in that try to avoid situations where you two would end up dancing.

0xdada · 2015-02-06T21:15:08+00:00

As a man who can dance, a woman who can't/won't dance with a man is almost guaranteed to be high maintenance in bed.

Trouble is, few women who can dance these days are semi-pro at it, or actresses(DZ!), so it's hard to just do it for fun.

argentinean · 2015-02-06T21:28:11+00:00

Being from south america, I love to dance more "formal" type of dances such as salsa, etc. I've found that it really helps build attraction (a lot of kino opportunities; confidence display; leading opportunities as the man). As another commenter stated, it is one of the most primal activities we have as human -- completely cross culture. Also you display mobility, coordination, etc., which are indicators of being good at sex. Plus it's fun.

In summary:

Primal, cross culture, millennial activity
Attraction builder: kino, escalation, confidence display, man-leading-woman activity, a lot of sensual inuendos built-in in the specific type of dance (greater in some more than in others)
Fun
Excellent excuse to bring a girl home when you're at a bar with no dancing floor / no cool music for dance

I would suggest you get out of your comfort zone, watch some videos on Youtube of good dancers and check if you find that as something you want in your lifestyle. If you think so, then go for some classes.

craftmaticrabbit · 2015-02-06T23:12:32+00:00

There is Salsa club that I sometimes go to where I have witnessed the power of being a good dancer. Countless ugly mothafuckas pulling beautiful women left and right. They of course find the right one and leave with them at the end of the night. These are dudes that you see and would never imingine they would be able to pull girls twice as young as them.

When you aproach a woman to dance it shows you have confidence in yourself and your skills. While dancing, you as a man are leading the girl and this taps into their inner submissive psyche. In the past, the hottest females I've pulled have been by aproaching them directly and immediately asking them to dance. This then allows for good conversation time and gives you a chance to flirt and talk all while consistently touching each other and keeping it physical

monsieurhire2 · 2015-02-07T05:34:02+00:00

I'm someone who dances a lot because he enjoys it. Dancing with the same person over and over again, unless they have an insanely high skill level, and you have a variety in the music and plenty of room to express yourself IS boring. Even if the person is your girlfriend, or some girl you are hot for. Any activity repeated often enough produces semantic exhaustion, or loss of meaning.

My advice to you when you go out dancing, is to learn a more formal dance, like salsa, swing dancing, or even tango, and dance with other women. This will make your girlfriend like you more, you'll get to safely express attraction for women in a social setting and vice versa, as will your girlfriend, and you'll appreciate each other more, assuming you have a strong relationship otherwise. If she likes to dance, she'll want to keep dancing even if you don't like it. This can lead to a breakup, as she'll go out dancing without you and meet guys who share her interest. If you hate dancing, you may want to find another girlfriend.

When I go out dancing, I only dancing with a girl for 10 minutes at a time. 20 minutes tops. Then I switch to another girl. If I bring a date, we dance the first and last song together. For me, it's all about dancing with lots of women, relaxing, having a good time, expressing myself, demonstrating value, getting validation, enjoying the music, etc. etc. etc. I'm not interested in only dancing with one woman, even if she's my LTR. It's also great for Dread Game because all you have to do is talk about how much you enjoyed dancing with some girl and the LTR gets jealous. This works if you are a good dancer and are in high demand. If you suck, you can't pull this.

NeoreactionSafe · 2015-02-07T16:51:46+00:00

Beer, German Music and Polka. (Oktoberfest)

It doesn't get any better than that.

One two, one two, one two, one two, one two, one two, one two...

Looking forward to summer and more festivals. Winter is not a great time for dancing, you need the warmth, sunshine and open air atmosphere.

Better than sex?

Better in the sense you can have many partners without commitment and no worry about sexually transmitted diseases.

One can satisfy their physical closeness needs with dancing.

Why take her home when you can dance with her then leave her?

Next? Next? And Next again...

cx295 · 2015-02-07T17:38:31+00:00

Ballroom is RP. The man directs, the woman follows. It's not just moving together, you are instructing her where to go and what to do. You are essentially playing a mini version of being alpha in a relationship. Your weak shitty lead will be frustrating to her but your strong confident lead will give her the tingles (and will feel and look amazing to you too). Want to wrap your arms around her? Do it. Want to push her away and get space? Do it. All the while, she is learning to be receptive and listen to what you want. The beginning will be more difficult for you but easy for her, however, the difficulty is reversed at the higher skill levels. (Just like the relationship dynamic at different ages)

As for being bored, learning the movements to an organized dance (like east cost swing) will give your mind something to do. You'll be planing ahead on what you want to do next and analyzing what your partner needs from you.

Title	How do you feel about dancing?
Author	kevkos
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Comments	21
Date	February 6, 2015 6:38 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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