How does theredpill feel i should act given my situation.

rebuildingMyself · 2013-08-25T08:08:59+00:00

Spin more plates

favours_of_the_moon · 2013-08-25T08:12:45+00:00

A woman cannot resist (or exist without?) this type of constant attention, validation and most of all, behavioral reinforcement.

In ages past, you could just total these dudes out. Nowadays, you'd be condemned and shamed for doing it. Not that it wouldn't make her panties wet, but because now she will have less attention and validation. And isn't that what Femmunism is really about?

You could become even more passive aggressive with them than they are. If that's what you want to do.

Max___Power · 2013-08-25T12:31:48+00:00

There is no cheating going on, can confirm

Unless you have secret cameras/microphones embedded in her skin, then no, you cannot confirm that there is no cheating going on.

themoor · 2013-08-25T12:52:32+00:00

If you start pouting and acting like a jealous bitch about this around her, she's gonna dump you and hump him.

And its probably a bit too far down the line to suddenly draw a line in the sand. That boundary has been crossed and she seems in control.

What to do? Well, one thing that comes to mind is to have her see you chatting up other women and get her jealousy going a bit. When she throws a fit, just bring up how she interacts with other guys. Then explain the easy solution is for neither of you to have such close contact with the opposite sex as it is disrespectful to the other. Agree on that boundary then and there and then when she crosses it again, do a hard freeze out, withdraw your attention.

Hopefully she'll get the picture.

thegman84 · 2013-08-25T08:47:28+00:00

I think some extra information could be useful here....

Ages?

How did you find out the guy called her beautiful when she woke him up? I mean were you there? Did your gf tell you he said that? If she told you, did you get the sense that she did it to make you jealous?

YouDislikeMyOpinion · 2013-08-25T15:49:42+00:00

You want a real answer to your question? Ok, here I go.

Any skinny girl with a vagina will have orbiters that will fuck her on a moments notice. Most non-famous, non-rich, non-super-good-looking guys don't have female orbiters.

I'm going to start off with this:

Do you know that food joint near your house? The one that's always packed. People would rather grab a bite to eat at the place that's packed rather than that pretty empty place next door. One reason is pre-selection, the fact that other people are going to it means that it has a much higher chance of being good than the pretty empty place next door. Another reason is for the social aspect. It's hip, it's trendy to go to the place that's flooded with people. You get to be part of the excitement and novelty. As long as there are people regularly going into that packed place, and there are new people that haven't tried it, this cycle will repeat.

You can see the same thing happen with a guy that has a lot of girls interested in him. If you're group at a lounge was talking with another group, and you had very attractive female-friends talking to you and enjoying your company, it would increase your value to other girls over the guys that don't have women talking to them. Have you ever been quiet during a group conversation? Did you ever notice how people stopped paying as much attention to you?

You are currently not on a level playing field with your girlfriend. She has the advantage. A scenario where you would have the advantage would be where you are a very attractive catch for most girls. Even if you would have the same type of orbiters that your girlfriend has, it would completely change the dynamic.Your orbiters would would be worth much more than hers. Whereas her orbiters may just want to fuck her, your orbiters would most likely want to have some sort of commitment with you.

The reason I put the previous paragraph in here is because you said that you don't want to spend time with girls unless you're going to have sex with them. Which is perfectly ok. Secondly, he is flirting with your gf, which is also perfectly ok. I mean, why should you deny such an innocent interaction between a girl and a guy. Is he a murderer? Is your gf a serial killer? Do you want that guy locked up and have the key thrown out? Do you want to have the NSA access code to all of your gf's personal files? I mean, what do you really want?

I was in your position once. I wasn't at ease with anything. I didn't really understand how to feel, but I know I didn't want to feel that way, and I didn't feel like myself, because I am not a person that wants to feel like that.

I live my life now, and I don't have any of the issues that I had before. I don't feel jealous, ever. Get your life to that point, because when you get there, it feels amazing not to have those problems anymore.

I will never tell you how to act. You do whatever you think is best.

I got tired writing this half way through because I'm on a crappy res monitor for the next little bit. I might update it later. I'll pm you if I do. I probably made some mistakes, maybe even some logical ones because I didn't reread it on this pixilated mess. It won't flow very well.

Title	How does theredpill feel i should act given my situation.
Author	absolutelyq
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	August 25, 2013 7:49 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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