If you have proper inner and outer game nobody can stop you. Inner mastery, knowledge of self, combined with good height , broad shoulders , great interpersonal and conversational skills, a calm and patient demeanor, emotional and social IQ you can be successful with any type of woman given the right circumstances ( you meet through friends, work, school, cold approach results can vary.)

Now a lot of you may not be blessed with these physical gifts. Shit, even those other qualities a lot of times are developed under great stress, life experiences, life lessons, trauma. Not everybody has had to suffer and come back from the bottom.

I'm not saying go out and get psychologically/emotionally abused by the top 1% Gaslighters so you can harden your mind and develop your interpersonal skills to its peak levels and strengthen your frame to a top notch level but bouncing back from trauma is a phenomenon that can't be replaced with anything.

So people that aren't blessed with great genes, height, and haven't been through a whole lot in their lives which leaves them as kind of an average joe shit I don't know what to tell you because this is personalized for person to person.

Sorry there's no one definite answer for everybody but all I can say is lift , work on knowing yourself, what makes you think certain things. Be very careful of what you let take space in your mind. If you're absorbing endless media, music, movie, tv and liberal bullshit then they're alpha and you're their beta and you'll always be under their mental chains. Strengthen your interpersonal skills, be kind, genuine , positive