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| 1 | Autism, TRP and alternativesAsk yourself another question. This is a question I've been asking myself lately. Is game/pickup really such a new phenomenon? In my opinion no, but yours may be different. For how long then have men been "acting up" for a womans attention? Since the beginning of time? Or since the TRP forums began? If the answer is the former, then is it ok to act up infront of women? If the answer is no then, ask yourself if its possible not to act up infront of women? Are you forever doomed as a male to be tr… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/20 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Autism, TRP and alternativesIs there anyway you can feel authentically yourself and be good with women? I think there has to be? What are your interests in life? What are your goals? What do you wanna be in a few years time? If you focus on that then the girls will come. I suggest reading a book called Models by Mark Manson, all of his books are good | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/20 10:32 AM |
| 1 | what’s the first rule of fight club?I actually went grovelling back asking for her back and apologising 6 months after we broke up and ofcourse she said no. But I still think about to this day because she was everything I couldv'e ever wanted in a girl and a relationship. I was kind to her, I wasn't full RP, I bought her flowers more than quarterly and I wasn't afraid to tell her I loved her, i bought her gifts I took her out all the time and I was very affectionate. But I couldn't handle it, I couldn't manage the downtimes we had… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/03/20 09:44 AM |
| 1 | what’s the first rule of fight club?I actually went grovelling back asking for her back and apologising 6 months after we broke up and ofcourse she said no. But I still think about to this day because she was everything I couldv'e ever wanted in a girl and a relationship. I was kind to her, I wasn't full RP, I bought her flowers more than quarterly and I wasn't afraid to tell her I loved her, i bought her gifts I took her out all the time and I was very affectionate. But I couldn't handle it, I couldn't manage the downtimes we had… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/03/20 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Not sure where I fit in with all thisHere you are, time to start again. No ideology. There doesn't appear to be one to consume here. No "strategy" or "templates" on picking up women. No "trolling" or cringe political "memes". Just fucking honesty here bro. Start again. What's your aim in life. Where do you wanna be. What do you wanna do. Simple as that. Don't focus on anything else. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/03/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Fucking on First DateWait 2 dates. Don't fuck on the first date. This is your new mindset. You never fuck on a first date. Why? So many reasons, I don't need to list them because we all know them. And it'll just make you look more saner than every other guy too. Take people seriously man. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/03/20 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Ex redpiller detoxing and enlighteningAw, Thanks :) | /r/ExRedPill | 12/03/20 12:33 PM |
| 3 | what’s the first rule of fight club?inability to deal with problems and inability to accept problems. You expect your partner and your relationship to be perfect and you associate every problem as "bad behaviour" or "entitlement" or some other sociopathic nonsense the RPers came up with | /r/ExRedPill | 12/03/20 12:21 PM |
| 6 | Ex redpiller detoxing and enlighteningThank you man, I'm glad that of all things, I've got this right. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/03/20 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Women arent as open and tolerant as reddit suggest"But those girls know exactly how desired they are. Those girls would know how to tame and change the bad boyz. And why wouldn't they?" You see this is the bullshit part. Your creating assumptions in your mind and choosing to believe them. Not all hot women have a 100+ lay count, some haven't even made it into double digits and don't want to. Some girls have a hard time trusting guys, some girls aren't interested in casual relationships. Some girls don't want the attention. So maybe you've met s… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/20 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Women arent as open and tolerant as reddit suggestAlso on being bullied by the girl, man just laugh it off and ignore it that's all I can say and all you can really do. We've all experienced it. I'm just thinking that if it happens all the time its likely your talking to the wrong girls and are just straight up getting no chemistry with them | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/20 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Women arent as open and tolerant as reddit suggestThat social narrative just straight up is not true. Losers date hot girls all the time, there's examples of this everywhere including people I know personally and myself. Also what do you want in a girl? What kindof girls do you like? What values do you have that you think she should have too? What type of person should she be? And then ultimately where are you most likely to meet this type of woman? What do you value besides her looks? Also who are you? What kindof world are you letting her int… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Women arent as open and tolerant as reddit suggestYou haven't fully let your walls down yet. Be open to rejection. Know that your not special. Know that you will and should be rejected 99% of the time. Be fucking nice. I don't mean do things for her. I mean talk and listen, talk and listen, talk and listen. And tell her the fucking truth. Tell her the fucking truth, don't lie, don't be ashamed that you've only fucked a couple of girls. what does that matter? fucking own it. Be honest about how you feel, who you are, what you've done, what you a… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/20 10:29 PM |
| 5 | what’s the first rule of fight club?I'm so sorry to my ex. 'in my head' she was cheating on me (because trp says all women are cheaters/hypergamous, 'in my head' she didn't really love me (because trp says a woman cannot love you for you), 'in my head' I thought I had to act alpha all the time, and it meant I refused to communicate with you and it meant I didn't trust you or the words you said. I ruined a perfect relationship with a woman who loved me and did things for me all the time and wasn't afraid to show me how much she lov… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | How to fix m-f dynamics in society and lessen the impact of feminism.I mean thats its tougher for the average man to find good opportunities, this is a statistical fact for people living in the united kingdom and america I'm pretty sure. You can argue that this shouldn't get in your way and you should be as determined to achieve anyway. Which I agree with in every sense of the term. But its not hard to see that men had it easier in that they could provide for themselves and start a family much more easily than we can. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Stop giving a fuck about whether she enjoys the sex.To add to my point on the evolutionary standpoint of sex. Why does she get turned on when we get turned on? I do realise this isn't always the case however | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/17 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Stop giving a fuck about whether she enjoys the sex.Some girls like anal and blowjobs some girls don't. I didn't say they all do. this is just what I've noticed and it's how I'm trying to conceptualise reasons for why girls enjoy non reproductive sex with men. I tried to suggest that the more selfish you are in sex the better you are at it. Yeah I made big statements but that's part of the entertainment. Use your imagination you goof. You probably sit in your head all the way through sex wondering if she's loving it or not. And you probably have … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/17 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Stop giving a fuck about whether she enjoys the sex.Some of you have a real problem and miss the point of my post. You automatically expect me to cover every slight detail about what I'm talking about and can't figure it out for yourselves, such guys I would expect to complain about a post being too long. Some of you are great and get it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/17 03:41 PM |
| 5 | Stop giving a fuck about whether she enjoys the sex.And how can you possibly make that statement about me???? This forum is also full of guys like you who think they have it all together. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/17 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Stop giving a fuck about whether she enjoys the sex.you see this is exactly the kind of thinking I wrote the post against. sure I'm making sweeping generalisations here, take it with a pinch of salt | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/17 03:35 PM |
| 5 | Stop giving a fuck about whether she enjoys the sex.Yeah you see, i disagree here, I think the less you care about her cumming and the more you focus on satisfying your own sexual tension then the more likely it is that she will come.. Then again, satisfying your own sexual tension sometimes involves playing with her | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/17 11:54 AM |
| 4 | How to fix m-f dynamics in society and lessen the impact of feminism.I agree, however if you want to fix this broadly in society then I think the issue is an economic one. Today the quality of life has worsened for the average person in the west, whilst competition has risen. So, young men really don't have the means. We have to work harder. Plus, I think the government has there hands in every area of business and life, the amount of administration is immense. So, due to this its hard to get any young man motivated in the first place, hence sitting in the mother… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/17 11:47 AM |
| 1 | How do I go about my game. Aggressive or soft? I am very confused and I need clarity, anyone who can relate please give me your storyYeah this is what I used to do, I just feel like now I have more things telling me not to do this than I did before. I watch some RSD videos from time to time and they are incredibly soft now. This is what 3 years LTR did to me | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Can't muster the strength to approach anymore. Ground to dust after 3 year LTRIt seems like a disaster that only happens to adolescents. I think the story usually goes that these relationships fall apart and the falling in love is part of the disaster story at the end | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Can't muster the strength to approach anymore. Ground to dust after 3 year LTRI mean, I think I had developed a really strong narrative around her and our relationship. When it seemed like it was breaking apart I did this. I found it very hard to breakup with her for multiple reasons and while I wanted to, I felt like I couldn't so I held her up instead and this hurt me quite a lot in the long run | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Can't muster the strength to approach anymore. Ground to dust after 3 year LTRi like the last paragraph but really am not interested in hitting up 6s or 7s, I'm probably more scared of 6s and 7s than i am 8s and 9s because of the sheer fact I don't want to be seen with them. Thanks though for the good advice | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Can't muster the strength to approach anymore. Ground to dust after 3 year LTRI'm starting to really believe there is no way around it, for a while I've thought that they would just come to me, because I want to avoid the pain of approaching. But they haven't come to me, and as you said, now I must just fucking approach. I know this will be for the best. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 09:31 AM |
| 1 | How easy it is if you're blessedYeah this is it. And I add. Find something you love to do and are passionate about. And, take on a challenging purpose in life, a burden, and see it through to the end. Trying to achieve something highly ambitious is difficult but will make you rock solid. Its a journey too, however, there will be high ups and very low downs especially at the beginning. Put this shit before anything, as modern men with everything on a plate and no practical obvious purpose we have to invent our own purpose and d… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/17 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Trying to keep myself up whilst grinding it out.Yep, basically what I'm going to do | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Trying to keep myself up whilst grinding it out.Thanks, I always understood this as a sacrifice, but I'm starting to feel quite lonely, I had a girlfriend last year but it didn't work out mostly due to this work. Now I'm realising what I have to do, I'm finding myself with my priorities in order and things starting to take shape, it'll be time soon to start meeting new women and getting laid again. And the time couldn't come sooner.. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Women have unlimited sexual options - the brutal red pill on female lay countsThis is true. Especially with days of tinder and the amount of discrete sex they can have. Also, don't rule out threesomes, many have had them, with two guys or two girls. I say you have to accept this and become one of the guys they sleep with. I see only the guys open about sex and seen as "womanisers" to be the ones they sleep with. They are pursuing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/17 01:12 PM |
| 1 | All The Stories You Hear Are True. You just Have to Believe Ityeah i was gunna reply back saying this. Guys with good game can get any chick. if the jock on the team has good game too hes in any hole he wants to go. But I think most of them wouldn't bother learning this stuff. and I don't think its safe to assume you would lose your girl. if she respected you, you have high SMV, and she knows you would dump her, she wouldn't do it. Plus if your socially competent around jocks and don't act all nervous around them it'd raise your status up a bit too. As a b… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/17 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Long time lurker... NEED to get this shit off my chestSometimes it can be hard because your tied in contractually to live with these people day by day. I highly recommend you don't let them effect you. learn to ignore them. practice some meditation, by you posting this I can tell they bother you, you need to not think about this its a waste of energy. Learn to be pleasant with these people but keep them at arms distance. Meanwhile look for a new place and screen the fuck out of people before you agree to live with them for the next twelve months. T… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 12:52 AM |
| 1 | All The Stories You Hear Are True. You just Have to Believe Itanywhere they fuck there kindof girls..... then again girls do bounce around different types of guys. just like someones character might change every 3 years or so | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/17 03:19 PM |
| 6 | All The Stories You Hear Are True. You just Have to Believe ItThis big time. You attract who you are. If your not one of these guys then you'll attract something else. These stories are great and all and I believe them, but you shouldn't care if your not that guy and you shouldn't try to live up to it. Follow your own shit you'll pull your own types.. I'm an arty faggot hipster and I attract tonnes of the same spectacle wearing bitches who wouldn't be seen anywhere near a mainstream night club on a saturday night talking to some fuckboys. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/17 03:18 PM |
| 2 | AWALT: Conversation with sweet elderly granny type gets real depressing, real quickThe thing about our modern times is, the woman can do better if she just divorces. She gets all the money and property, leaves the man. What if she'd had that option | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/14 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Video Games, Porn/Masturbation, and Watching Sports: The Downfall of the Modern Mantalent and genius are a myth. discipline hard work and time investment are the reality many people can't face. A lot of people give up with the excuse of "not being talented enough". They have very limiting belief systems. Its those who believe they can do anything that get extraordinary things done. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/14 04:36 PM |
| 1 | WTF do you do for entertainment?develop good taste. go from there. turn off the tv. watch some comedians instead, there are some damn good redpill comedians out there (seth macfarlane, bill burr, oldies like george carlin and bill hicks). This is pretty much all I stare at the big screen for. Theres some classic movies too. Listen to good music, as with movies you usually have to go back in time to find anything decent, avoid mainstream, (with the internet this is easily done these days.) Find some hobbies, an instrument, a cr… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/14 09:24 AM |
| 12 | How many friend-zoned men does it take to change a lightbulb?guy answers. "yeah sure I got nothing better to do than masturbate and play video games, spending time with you is the best time I ever have. I love you, your so amazing." | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/14 09:08 AM |
| 1 | This is your life as a Beta and it sucks one minute at a timemasculine men are not just physically well built. There are many more traits. They are all one word. DOMINANT. In every situation, in all aspects of there lives, they are in control. You can feel it, they have a presence. CONFIDENCE. This is how I think artists (musicians, actors, directors) have so much success. Also they OWN the women they date, mentally and physically. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/14 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Socializing in public and in private?Here's my perspective I say go for the hottest girls closest first, get some practice. Basically realise that your day consists of many interactions with many women you usually don't ever have to see again. Don't got creeping on the girl in the corner if a girl across from you keeps looking at you. Be aware of IOIs and escalate from them at your will. I like to think its healthier to work with what you've got. You have that fear because it is a genuinely strange thing to do, you've seen others w… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/14 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with a girl's sexual history. Can a girl reform herself? How do you learn the truth about her past?find out if she's ever cheated on her past boyfriends, how long those relationships lasted, who eventually dumped who and why. Also judge how easy she was. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/14 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Finally all pieces have come together - I discovered living in the present. Maybe this might help you if you struggle.I really connect with your last paragraph, my parents do live in a very small house and I have to share with my brother and he is quite good. I tend to go for a walk outside or something. Recently just watching tv with my dad he had a strop about what i was watching, saw that i wasn't affected, then he upped his game and got infront of the tv cursing at me. bloody hell lol. I had to ignore it as my family were all asleep in the other rooms, its hard. maybe i could reframe a negative into a posit… | /r/seduction | 01/01/14 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Finally all pieces have come together - I discovered living in the present. Maybe this might help you if you struggle.This is it! find peace in yourself first! The hardest thing about this for me, its hard to stay with it when those around you are constantly breaking your rules. I understand that you end up only keeping good people around you by following this lifestyle. But sometimes there are those we are stuck with. for example, I'm back home for the holidays and spending time with my parents and brother, but my Dad is as bitter and negative as they come, constantly moaning and complaining, bitching about th… | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 02:05 PM |
| 5 | LTR Game: Maintaining FrameThis is solid, and luckily I've been applying it with out realising. Maintain frame, set your personal boundaries and expectations, look after the person who matters most. I can deal with my girl fine, but I have an issue with another woman in my life, my mother. I might need too make a post about this entirely, but I'm sure trp can help me here. My mother may aswel be a single parent. My father is pretty blue pill, he ignores the family, and he is heavily resented by my mother for not working, … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/13 12:15 AM |
| 2 | School Boys at United Kingdom school get lessons on how to talk to girls because porn has ruined their interaction with womenA non religious school too. I went to an all boys catholic, and the sex Ed was horrendous, now that I think back... Also consider the teachers, most of them are emotionally unstable, especially the women I've found to have really aggressive outbursts. I remember very few admirable teachers. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/13 10:01 PM |
| 10 | Indian woman sleeps exclusively with white guys goes against her culture. Now 32, looking for a guy to start a family with.I've thought about this a lot recently. But is it not inevitable of today's society to produce women who behave this way? A few blames, contraception being one sex is meaningless and disposable, pop culture doesn't teach you to be responsible, I think the big one is that women aren't encouraged to have children young any more and instead pursue careers, basically they're not encouraged to be women. So they spend there teens and 20s living in this paradox, chasing alphas but can't breed. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/13 10:03 PM |
| 2 | How to be in a monogamous relationship, need advice.validation? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/13 11:11 AM |
| 3 | How to be in a monogamous relationship, need advice.As a boyfriend I don't want to listen, shouldn't that be what she does to her friends not those she's fucking? That's why I'm kindof cautious, I feel like as time goes on the frame changes a bit, I feel like she's turning me into a beta with this sort of thing. Then what, after 2 or 3 years of this, attraction dies, she hops off and jumps on another one, when really she made him into the unattractive beta he became? Am I correct in saying this? What's the point in a relationship? I don't really … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/13 11:10 AM |
| 1 | A question for The Red Pill from a feminist dude.don't assume that this knowledge is solely used to fuck and chuck as many women as possible. Sure it really can be used in this way. But most of us here I think have found this place and follow its ideas in order to protect themselves. the amount of people i know who could use some of the advice on here. My best friend who has a dreadful relationship at such a young age he hasn't the time to work on his own career, my other friend who suffers infatuation after infatuation after infatuation for w… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/13 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill is hitting real hard right now.This is why I can't trust women, not just that but they'll lie to get something out of you and it makes it doubly hard to know whether what they're saying is true or not. Next mantra, trust her actions, not her words. This girl sounds like shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/13 02:27 AM |
| 0 | I am Tuthmosis from returnofkings.com Ask Me Anything!What is "love"? Is it possible to be in an ltr and be redpill? I can't trust a woman after swallowing the redpill, so what of my next generation? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/13 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Melbourne scientists have made a breakthrough in the development of a male contraceptive pill [x /r/australia]I wonder what would happen with our testosterone levels | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/13 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Good D Will Imprison YouI can't help but think, women aren't the only thing to blame for there shittyness. Maybe its contraception? The way sex has lost its purpose and meaning, means we can all do it whenever we want and suffer no consequences. Surely her mind must behave as if its impregnated and thus she becomes hooked trying to gain his commitment? I dunno, I'm finding it hard to judge a woman based on her past sexual partners (assuming you yourself have had many too). She will leave you, no matter how innocent she… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/13 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Example of a woman keeping a Beta "nice guy" for validation and as a back up plan if alpha leaves [images included]I'm in a very similar situation, trp has seriously helped me see through all womens bullshit and I find it creates a certain barrier when connecting with them. Which is good I guess cos that naturally makes us less invested which means they continue to invest more in order for us to return the investment! Which we never really can I guess, because we know the truth. Its great. She even told me about some of the guys who chase her and I just found it funny, didn't encourage it, didn't get mad. Ju… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/13 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Exeter University student named 'Britain's horniest student' - bangs 3 guys a week, gets called out in comments, and the white knights rise upslut | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/13 07:36 PM |
| 1 | The art of losing interestOnly a the time of a real man is precious, I say make every moment of your day count and don't tolerate anyone fucking you around, men and women | /r/seduction | 11/11/13 08:50 AM |
| 4 | She doesn't love you.Recently I was thinking about this, I've just been finishing all the required reading on our side bar and I came to realise something quite terrible for our future. What's going to happen to our children? I don't know about most of you guys, but I want to raise kids and I want to raise them better than anybody else can. I realise now that women even though they are the mothers and claim to be more aware of maternal duties than men, just completely disregard the importance of fatherhood. Is there… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/13 01:00 AM |
| 1 | My recent discovery that opened a new world of self confidence.Don't ever depend on one person to fulfil your needs (sexual, intimacy). It's not a fair burden to put on them. If they don't want to be intimate and have sex with you, have another or a few others you can go to. | /r/seduction | 09/11/13 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Becoming a man both males and females have no choice but to respect.Ask yourself why your even hanging out with these guys. Make new friends. I don't know how old you are but if your young then go to college meet people and do something you like. I grew apart from the group who were kicking my ass, I've got newer better friends I have more in common with making me a whole lot more confident. These guys are holding you down. I still feel the anxiety today sometimes, its hard to get over the paranoia of when your ass is getting kicked next or "if I say/do that the… | /r/seduction | 09/11/13 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Reflections on fulfilling your needs.I do think that's the wrong mindset to have, mind me asking what you study? As you think you shall become, shoot for the moon, stick your neck out and put your damn right all into your work. When your networking mean it, be serious about what you do. I'm actually studying to become a contemporary artist and I've noticed mindsets like, "you'll never get a job in that" "there's too much competition" "its too hard" "this'll look good on my cv" etc etc. I think your work needs to be your life, you n… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/13 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Reflections on fulfilling your needs.It was me, but I hadn't considered what you'd said properly and was being obnoxious lol apologies. Yeah I know that's true, but now you can decide what you do for society, our generation has that liberty but the majority just throw it away | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/13 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Reflections on fulfilling your needs.I kind of see what you mean, my position right now is that I'm on a grind, I'm 21 have no qualifications, I figure put the work in now and it'll pay off later. Better than sitting on my ass all day and I know what that's like. Could get really existential about this though.. Could just fly off to the mountains and live a solitary life.. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/13 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Girl resists my kissdid this, she tried playing games with me, trying to make me chase her. I was having none of it, disregarded the games, went and fucked some other chick. So as you guys said she would, she came up to me today apologizing for her actions, I didn't express my full annoyance because I know I felt slight oneitis and I can't trust what my mind tells me when I'm under that (honestly I was angry, but I wasn't about to show how mad it got me, plus I managed to reflect on my emotions and I sorted out a b… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/13 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Learning seductioncould you recommend any? I like models, except most that the most part is about lifestyle and I'm doing pretty well in that. That's what bothers me about most of the programs they don't just assume your attractive and tell you how to seduce a woman and get over your fears, rejection and oneitis. Sex is one of those needs I felt I never had control over, I realise now its my responsibility to fulfil that need. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/13 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Learning seductionwasnt clear on the rules of link posting on this sub, so decided to post none. But I realise its just posting other links from reddit that is forbidden | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/13 08:56 PM |
| 4 | Beta providers, beta orbiters...Are these girls usually cheating then? The situation I see in my circle is that this girl acts incredibly entitled, she definitely has a thing for me, probably because I'm not orbiting her at all and I'm hitting on other chicks (recently she saw me getting on really well with another girl, she tried to order me to come upstairs with the group, she seemed angry, I obviously didn't comply, later she said that girl I was with was a bitch, so I called her a snob there and then from the pit of my sto… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Girl resists my kissI used to have heavy oneitis issues. I can feel it coming on, but I'm finding ways to kill it. When I feel an old mindset coming on I stop it in its tracks and do something else, for example, exercise, groom, study, make a good meal, meet a friend, watch a funny movie. Escaping that mind trapping mind set and experiencing the moment I'm in more. Yeah I'm trying to deal with it. Know any other things I could do? Its barely been 9 months I think since I found these communities and its really saved… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Girl resists my kissmy minds lingering on this too much. "what should i do what should i do". I'm finding it counter productive to seek advice for specific situations, because its giving that situation too much relevance. I have a life of my own and more to be doing than wondering about this person. I can't cut off her attention stream because i'm around the same space, what i can do is give less, which is a good idea because i have lots to do with my time anyway. I'm just going to keep it cool if not cooler, I'll … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/13 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Heard the most RP shit-test shutdown today from a guy I brought to the Red Pill! Told myself that I would put it in my in my stash of shit test comebacks because it was epic to see it from a guy I have been schooling that I thought was a lost cause!I know | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/13 11:37 AM |
| 8 | Heard the most RP shit-test shutdown today from a guy I brought to the Red Pill! Told myself that I would put it in my in my stash of shit test comebacks because it was epic to see it from a guy I have been schooling that I thought was a lost cause!The most important part is where you put "calmly" in brackets, I can't stress enough how important that is when someone is being loud, mad and angry, which translates to emotional which means they're being irrational and unreasonable. This is good for anyone who tries to bring shit to your table. Don't fall into their frame. I used to see my Dad fail these all the damn time with my Mum. Now that I've found out its as simple as keeping calm and not fuelling it, it never escalates and its stopped … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/13 07:49 AM |
| 29 | Western Women Goes To Live in Japan, Complains She Can’t Get A Relationship But Attacks “Nerdy Men” Who Are Getting Laid - Someone’s Bitter!Haha true sexual market value, just her profile enough screams dumb bitch. The guys in Japan must have standards going beyond appearance, plus from the fair few Asian women I've met they're definitely smarter than our dumb typical liberal blonde moaning feminist bitch | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/13 12:01 PM |
| 2 | The theory of the One-Off Chick.I very much agree with the quote you mentioned about everything that's normal to you is magic to her. But that doesn't have to be anything worth of value or money. For me I've had that experience where I'm just being who I am and bringing her into my world of things. This worked because its been with girls I have little in common with and just share completely different lifestyles with. For example I'm an arts student and do a lavish amount of arty things, whilst she works at a supermarket and h… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/13 02:52 PM |
| -1 | The best way to become unforgettable to her is to give her great sexWhat the fuck are women doing posting here? | /r/seduction | 16/09/13 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Literally the worst example of putting a woman on a pedestal that I have ever seen. Lost two friends. (rant)That brought a tear to my eye, un fucking believable. And for what! So she can divorce him 3 years later! | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/13 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Tendencies in the Aggressive Music Scene?I've realised this recently, and looking back at what I used to listen to its no wonder I was so frustrated, I was deluded and had that emotional connection with an illusion and expected it to happen. Needless to say it never did. But, would you guys consider Eminem blue or red pill? Im talking about when he recorded his first 2 albums slim shady LP and Marshall Mather's LP.. He's incredibly frustrated by Kim, but I don't know of any history he's got with any other woman, although he talks about… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/13 03:54 PM |
| 16 | I'm starting to think strong eye contact is the fastest way to improve your game. Seddit - what are your tips, tricks, and advice with eye contact?Just thinking about this. I tend to force myself to make eye contact in general interactions and I can tell it makes people uncomfortable, they start touching there face or fiddling and breaking eye contact. However when I talk to women and friends this doesn't happen, its well received. Thinking about it I know that with women and friends I have a good motive, desire, intention. But when I force myself to speak to strangers for the reason of creating social value, its not genuine its an illusio… | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 09:57 AM |
| 1 | I do not seem to get past this: When I am making out with a girl who is clearly into me and I want to get her sexually aroused, what do I say or do?hold the frame, hold your tonality, don't be stifled by her, take her some place else to have more fun? | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 09:11 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with a girl who frequently repeats the same phrase around youLike, we'll be talking all fine, conversation flowing. Then she'll say out of the blue in mid convo, "it's because I'm so hot" and I'm slightly taken back but I disregard it usually and continue with the conversation. Its like when a girl randomly mentions her ex-bf. That's what it feels like. | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Coming on too strong?I think the eye contact thing is something you have to lead with, give it strongly or not at all. They say 70% of the time you should have good eye contact Plus dinner dates aren't a good idea for first dates and from my experience I used to get friend zoned a lot after this move. She really just got a free meal out of you assuming you paid for that too. I say you should read some more material, mark manson's models has a great section on the "dating process" | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Coming on too strong?Ask yourself this | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 07:37 PM |
| 2 | How to act when I am not playing the game, yet feel like m being judged?I think you should think about whether or not your coming across as somebody whose trying to impress everybody look cool Seeking the VALIDATION of others. Ask yourself why you behave in the way you say. You shouldn't be seeking the validation of others, or trying too hard to impress people, it shows a lack of confidence in yourself. Do whatever amuses YOU when YOU feel like it. | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 07:35 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First cold approach F-closeWell we haven't had the proper discussion yet, I just answered yes truthfully to a few dirty questions. I am yet to have the proper conversation probably the next time we meet. But truthfully I know already that she has a big history of sleeping with lots of people which I think she assumes I'm aware of because she used to be kind of notorious for it, however she reassured me that's not what she does anymore. Truthfully though I'm quite embarrassed of my sexual history and I'm afraid she'll see … | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 10:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First cold approach F-closeGeez had a girl do this the other night after outdoor sex. I reassured her of my own trampy reputation and just told her flat out that I can't be one to judge. She got back to normal immediately but now I'm worried she thinks I do what we did all the time with many girls and that I'm some sort of man whore. I'm not sure if that turns her on or makes her regretful for sleeping with me. Anyone got experience of a girl feeling dirty and regretful after being with them? My rep is also completely ill… | /r/seduction | 10/08/13 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Need help with party gameBasically DHV because you genuinely can because of all the fun your having. Balance being aloof and having desire | /r/seduction | 07/08/13 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Need help with party gameWell look and make eye strong eye contact, basically make it clear that you desire her from across the room. Obviously your busy having fun with your friends so you don't make a move. Of course you'll cross past each other during the night, maybe smile at her to maintain your desire. Keep having fun with your friends eventually she will say hi to you and she will chase you. Don't stare her down all night like a creeper obviously, make it brief but obvious that you've acknowledged her, don't apol… | /r/seduction | 07/08/13 10:37 AM |
| 1 | I need to get better at dancing. Any advice?Well, I think if clubs aren't your scene, you shouldn't compromise yourself to go to them, and not every body dances in clubs. I think its bad that we pick up smoking habits as an excuse to socialise in the quieter smoking area. Because you don't have to smoke to go out there just as you don't have to dance to go to a night club. Anyway advice for dancing if you really want. Listen to more music in your spare time, feel the rhythm and let hyoid body be one with it. Also don't be embarrassed abou… | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Wasn't feeling going out; tired, low energy, effort and interest. Still 1 #close, night club gameHmmm good thought, I think I've heard something similar, like if you study tired you should take the test tired.. Kind of makes "study high, take the test high, get high scores" a true statement. I think this over comes AA and helps you think of things to talk about, which could prepare you for low energy scenarios like day game. I had many IOIs from girls and pleasant Congo, good kino, it was good practice. Also I've texted and already arranged a date, the girl is eager for some reason | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 02:51 AM |
| -3 | I need to get better at dancing. Any advice?Don't like dancing don't do it | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 02:23 AM |
| 1 | An inner game trick I've been using for short-term but high-magnitude state boostThis sort of thing is individual to every body, although yeah, imagine doing what usually psyches you up instead of actually doing it (hint; its usually something fun that you do on rare occasion) | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Need help with party gameGet some social proof, talk to the guys there like your the fucking man and what you say is golden, introduce yourself too every body you meet. Introduce yourself to most of the girls you meet, but make strong eye contact with the ones you want across the room, keep doing this push and pull until she initiates conversation with you. Then say what you want with her relax don't be scared to challenge her or be sexual, ask her questions get her talking build the rapport, eye contact and kino are ke… | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 01:33 AM |
| 8 | [FR] K-Close after 40 seconds and why apocalypse style openers are my new bagApocalypse is the best for the club scene | /r/seduction | 05/08/13 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Losing hope, not converting my opportunities, feeling scarceThere was a whole chapter on this in the book of pook, basically it makes me careful about who I chose to try to seduce. You can't try to seduce every woman per circle. Yeah I think your right as I said though I'm on summer break, but there are no excuses. Actually the party in question is something I'm newly involved in which for me is progress since I'm used to spending my nights in with the PlayStation haha. Need to expand. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 05/08/13 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Tips for IntrovertsActually have you ever met the guy who does nothing but high five all his acquaintances and people he's just met? He'll throw an over enthusiastic compliment at them then move back to people he knows better. I guess this perceives high status and he gives off value the other guy can't reject. You'll never find a conversation with that guy until you really stop him in his tracks and take hold of the interaction, set the tone down to your level. | /r/seduction | 03/08/13 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Tips for IntrovertsI have a hard time giving value back to people. I'm generally not interested or sympathetic, because I feel a need to not compromise myself now I have this troubling paradox. You know, your not seeking validation because you don't care, but you still have to return the value, without compromising who you are. Paradox which boggles me... I guess I can't click with everybody | /r/seduction | 03/08/13 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Tips for IntrovertsI know, I'm going to the wrong places | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 09:21 PM |
| 5 | Tips for IntrovertsDon't be so responsive to him, if you don't find what he says funny then don't compromise yourself to give him more value than you think he deserves. Being silent and unresponsive can be very attractive, I have a quiet friend who doesn't struggle at all and most times he doesn't say anything. He's not particularly good looking, but he does have style like a mutha which forces people around him to respect him naturally. I say develop your silent qualities, dress in the style you want and have the… | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 09:10 PM |
| 7 | Tips for IntrovertsOk, well I still wouldn't consider most of the guys in night clubs to be intelligent people. I'm proudly on the red pill like most of the seduction community, but I feel like there's a huge paradox because we set out tactics to engage in the blue pill society. I think we compromise ourselves to take part in there mindless activities and we shouldn't ever seek validation from them to fit in. This may not be just me, I'm still 21 and a student living in London, but I can't help but feel like I'm c… | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 08:56 PM |
| 26 | Tips for IntrovertsI think introverts need to become more confident with day game. We need to become more comfortable with who we are and expressing our own personal qualities to women. Women don't only want small talk, many find you attractive when you challenge them intellectually, and this will have them seeking your validation and reacting to you, intelligence is damn attractive guys and we all know that us introverts are the most intelligent. Intellect reflects an ability to becoming a successful man. I do co… | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 04:36 PM |
| 0 | How to react to females negging you?Look at how other guys react to this. Likely she does it to everyone and its part of who she is. Guys will be playing alomng with her games. React the opposite way, ignore and she'll see something different in you and be attracted because she'll wonder why your not falling for her shit like the others | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Arranging a dateSuccess, she replied just like that and now I have a date tomorrow cheerssss | /r/seduction | 12/06/13 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Arranging a dateOk thanks, How about question marks in texts. Like is it ok to put a question mark on the end, I don't wana seem like I'm demanding. But I tend to have time and location sorted, I just don't wana seem like I'm asking or telling too much. Sorry it seems silly lol | /r/seduction | 12/06/13 03:03 PM |
| 1 | I don't know if I should tell this girl im in love with her...There are better subreddits you could post to. Askwomen, relationships etc. I'm having a similar dilemma now, I was talking to a woman at a bar last night and what a lot of women like to say is that you should just tell her. but I don't think a woman's opinion about how she would seduce herself is to be trusted lol. If you know she likes you, and you have good contact, bring it up slowly during a moment of affection. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 11:19 PM |
| 2 | How to handle passing references to boyfriends?Exactly, never are they ever really single, and I believe they usually have multiple attachments or at least options when they are single | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 01:03 PM |
| 1 | 4 fucking hour (rant sorta)ignore it laugh it off in the moment. tell him to fuck off get aggressive for a split second, you don't want to seem a push around. make a joke about him, I think its worse when you ignore these people and the girl can usually tell someone is trying to wind you up | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 12:06 PM |
| 7 | Game is Destroyed From Overthinkinghttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUdHX1Bent0 Take advice from this guy, stop over thinking, he explains why it's bad for you | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Is anyone really content, but at the same time really unhappy?You need a hobby, and I don't mean become a nerdy hobbyist. Enrich yourself with something you find interesting to do in your spare time, entertain yourself, teach yourself.. get into movies, buy a camera, cars, read books, sport. Whatever your passionate about, get into it. I think what somebody does in their spare time can make them seem more interesting and intelligent to other people, a more valuable individual. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Getting intimate then suddenly leaves with a quick unexplained excuse. (does have bf)K thanks, feel like posting just makes me anxious anyway, going to just message the girl | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 09:10 PM |
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