I see a lot of stuff on here cursing women and just plain misunderstanding them. Since understanding the fundamental and higher nature of women is key to getting into their panties and keeping them around, I thought I'd contribute with the reality of the female mind.

My qualifications are that I've had sexual intercourse with more than 100 women (I stopped counting after 80, but that was more than 9 years ago now) had quite a few long term (by TRP standards) relationships, was dating three women and having sex with their friends as well - WITH THEIR KNOWLEDGE - for more than a year and have a psychology degree.

So, here's the secret to understanding the female mind, regarding sexuality specifically:

  1. They want to have sex with someone they are attracted to and safe with. Makes perfect sense, right? They want to know they'll have pleasure and they want to know that the man they're allowing literally inside them won't hurt them, is clean, etc. Simple, reasonable, good. This is the same way men feel! We want to have sex with someone we find attractive and know won't cut off our dicks in the middle of the night or give us a disease!

  2. Women want to be admired and valued and held in high regard. Why? Because they are human. All people want this. You want this - that's why you think it's important to have a lot of money and big muscles and fancy showy stuff. You want people to look at you and think how great you are!

  3. Women want a connection with their partner. If you don't have a connection, why stick around?

I think you get the point, kids. Women are just people. They want the same things as everyone else: Pleasure, security, fulfillment and spiritual satisfaction.

So, I know what you are thinking now. Is it true? Did some guy who doesn't objectify women and base his self worth on how big his biceps are or how much money he has or how many women he slept with actually fuck so many girls?! Did he really have any long term relationships??! COULD HE HAVE FOUND LOVE?!

Yeah, it's true. Here's how:

  1. I was, indeed physically fit. I was getting laid before that because I'm charming and witty and kind and non-judgmental (you know something women like? being able to have fun in bed and not be considered a slut later.) but yes, of course I was attractive to more women after I got in shape. I wasn't the incredible hulk or Bruce Lee or anything like that but I was just fit. Why do girls like that? Because it shows discipline, determination, hard work.

  2. I am a nice guy. My entire MO was to be friends with a girl, lady, whatever, spend time with her and get to know her and if it felt right then I'd just ask, hey, how about it? I've heard about the friend-zone thing, but I've never seen it. When a girl feels safe with you... when she IS safe with you, she can feel horny. That's not to say I didn't flirt, or that they didn't know where it was going, but we met as friends and stayed friends or parted as friends. If she didn't want me, no problem, no reason we couldn't still hang out. Want to know a secret about hot girls? They've got hot friends. No amount of hotness is worth hanging out with shitty people, though, so if I couldn't actually like her and her friends I just didn't bother trying. Know what? Women feel the same way. You can be super hot and rich and if they don't like you, peace. Nice knowing you. Or maybe use you for your dick.

  3. I treated them like gold while maintaining self respect. I don't mean I opened every door, pulled out every chair and put their coats on their shoulders. I mean I treated them like valuable, worthwhile human beings whose opinions and thoughts I wanted to hear. And if I didn't, I didn't pretend. Perfect example was this girl who absolutely was DTF. Name was Halley. Really pretty, kind of a scene girl, grey eyes and black hair and nice big tits and a flat tummy and all that. Damn nice body. Third or fourth time hanging out alone, we'd been linking arms, holding hands, kissed, we were heading back to my place and it was just obvious we were going to get it on. She said the word nigger. By, bitch, nice knowing you, no cock for you. Moral of the story - don't compromise yourself or your values, but show them you value them just as much.

  4. I learned how to pleasure a woman. Just like women talk about everything else about a man, they talk about how he is in bed. Pretty simple stuff. Read "The Art of Sexual Ecstasy" and dedicate yourself to making a lady sound like a church organ.

Sound ridiculous? Contradict most of TRP? Yeah, well, the reason most of you guys are on TRP is because you aren't getting any. OF COURSE GOOD ADVICE WILL COME FROM OUTSIDE.