I just came to a startling realization.

LiveFreeorDieMAGA · 2016-09-18T05:16:49+00:00

You really want to see what women value themselves with? Stop halfway through sex and tell them "I'm just not that into it."

reddexx · 2016-09-18T06:57:55+00:00

From experience, not all women want to be dominated all the time. Most women want to be dominated some of the time. Some women never want to be dominated. But all women want to be lead.

At first dominating and leading might seem very similar and some women can't tell the difference or the man won't lead so they'll take dominance. But women will respond quite well to a man leading; its a very masculine trait.As a man it's your job to lead: the first interaction, dating, sex, the relationship, everything and always.

A.lways B.e L.eading

Leading doesn't mean you selfishly make decisions without considering her. Think of leading like leading a successful team. You get input, you ask about preferences, you take into account her ideas but you always take the initiative and you make decisions. It's surprising how poor most men are at this. Subsequently its amazing how well women respond to a man who can lead. They fall right into following him because he allows her to be feminine.

If you lead you can also dominate her and some women want that. You may want that. Or you may not want to dominate her. Totally up to you. But as long as you are leading everything you'll never go wrong.

rigbed · 2016-09-18T03:55:34+00:00

You repeated a post from earlier this week, but yea

DenyinTheHolocaust · 2016-09-18T07:05:28+00:00

What bothers me to this day is that "making a move" can always be turned around on you like you were being a creep or being rapey. Making the leap into move-making is just that - a leap. A risk. All timing and reading.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to change it. It's just part of the red pill that's not easy for me. The hard reality for me is I probably don't want sex as much as I've been told I want sex. Men are sometimes expected to be little more than dogs whose dicks get insta-hard at the sight of a woman in slutty clothing. Well, testosterone levels really do vary. Not just frustrating for men, but also women. Especially if they're used to manipulating men all the time.

As a result, I'm a big fan of quickies when in an LTR. When the iron is hot, you gotta strike.

Toolman890 · 2016-09-18T06:49:58+00:00

Yeah, you have to dominate them whilst simultaneously worrying about a false rape charge when she hamsters your forcefulness the next morning after you tell her to GTFO even though she liked it. First thing they do is gossip to their friends about it and they all hamster and chirrup away and who the fuck knows what random idea the gossip club will put into her head. It's very annoying.

Frenetic_Zetetic · 2016-09-18T08:43:38+00:00

Every single time I've fooled around with a girl, I was initially convinced in the back of my head that "it's not happening".

20 minutes later and she's giving all the signs, and her snatch is like Niagara falls. Listen to TRP. It does wonders.

naMlliPdeR · 2016-09-18T13:18:44+00:00

I've at various times said no to sex with plates. It's always on my terms, but those few times, it was generally a few hours before she's supposed to come over, I'll say "Had a shitty day and I'm tired. Don't come over today".

First it will start with "baby, I'll make you feel better", etc. Then it turns into "do you not want me anymore?". Then basically "you asshole, blah blah blah".

They're all like that. They know their value is between their legs. When you devalue that, they go nuts.

But then they want you even more, because you must be hot shit to say no when every other chum says yes.

IronMeltsinmyHands · 2016-09-18T11:04:57+00:00

Read a few books on dog training. Apply those principles to your bitches.

eccentricrealist · 2016-09-18T07:50:05+00:00

That's more or less what Book of Pook teaches you

karpathian · 2016-09-18T12:38:21+00:00

Netflix and cuddle always turned into sex, in fact cuddle was always sex. We went out of the house to "cuddle" and it always led to sexy time. Hell even when she wanted to only cuddle and not have sex, she rubbed her butt on my dick and teased me into it and was the one who started getting naked first.

jessieyoung · 2016-09-18T12:46:44+00:00

Both women AND men's response to sex reveals their psychology. It's all about self esteem. Sexuality IS psychology. This video explains everything.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ec54P36XrZE

PaperStreetVilla · 2016-09-18T14:38:22+00:00

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Title	I just came to a startling realization.
Author	AfroGuy12
Upvotes	62
Comments	28
Date	September 18, 2016 3:51 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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