I need to vent.

pdx_rp · 2014-03-10T11:50:34+00:00

she is like my little sister and I'm super protective of her.

'Little sister' or not, take that bitch off that pedestal son. This is why men shouldn't have female friends. Women lack the complexity of thought to be able to have the kind of friendship you think you're having with her. In your mind you see yourself as a super-cool, alpha big brother. In hers your just another beta orbiter, and she's right. It's not the display of high value that you think it is 'protecting' her. If you want to be friends with her treat her like any other male friend. I would never describe a friend as someone I'm 'super protective' of. This is just some weird friendzoned version of oneitis, regardless of if you consider yourself macho because 'naa she's just a friend to me bro'. Oneitis inevitably leads to being butthurt.

Mercy kill this pathetic shit and don't waste your time with her or any woman who doesn't reciprocate a relationship in any sort of meaningful way.

da-way · 2014-03-10T15:17:07+00:00

Cut contact, move on.

Disrespect and cowardice like that is not acceptable. One of two things will happen: she will try to reel you back into her orbit (this you can exploit to get a better position in the relationship, should you wish to) or she will ignore you back.

Either way you come out in a better situation, i.e. more power in your relationship -or- you got rid of a parasite.

2014-03-10T18:49:18+00:00

She probably thought about it and concluded it's not a good investment to introduce someone she sees as a beta orbiter to a potential girlfriend.

RedMindBlueEyes · 2014-03-10T09:50:14+00:00

Tell her you´re not mad, you´re disappointed that she is such a coward. And it´s a waste of your time to hang out with cowards. She needs to grow a pair. Also, tell her that you don´t accept apologies. You don´t treat people in a way that demands an apology afterwards, and you don´t accept that from others, either.

You HAVE to be confrontational without sounding butthurt. You don´t want an apology, you want a "yes, sir". Set the rules.

MrDDY · 2014-03-10T09:26:10+00:00

Next her mate. That's disrespectful. You may be a very good friend to her but that's not mutual .

mgtow4ever · 2014-03-11T04:24:25+00:00

If she is willing to ditch a friend like that she ain't worth shit to you. Cut your losses and move on.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-03-11T04:41:19+00:00

Am I missing the disrespect part? She texted you before you left that her friend backed out. How is that her fault? You secret crush little sister has no control over her cousin/friend whatever and she provided you valuable intelligence.

Beardsman2 · 2014-03-10T10:35:06+00:00

I'd tell her to go fuck herself and not speak to her again.

semigod__ · 2014-03-10T09:37:36+00:00

how exactly is she disrespectful?

Title	I need to vent.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	14
Date	March 10, 2014 9:09 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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