Listen to the last podcast from "Criminal" (pretty good podcast btw) ::spoiler alert:: its about a mother who steals her own daughter id to get credit for her, and only after she dies they find out.

The father ask her daughter why does she has a college debt, because he had paid for it, turns out the mother kept the money and just gave the daughter the tuition money and ask her to get loans.

But when it hits me is that the daughter talks about how his father says:"I wasted all my life"....yep its true, he wasted all his life because he did not live to himself, he lived for a woman who was a real POS.