i'm 34, she is 23.

Mikand1 · 2016-03-19T17:51:11+00:00

You're wasting your time. Put that 4 hours a day you are talking into something (gym, work, education, etc.) or someone productive (plates, friends).

You're not leading, you're not alpha (whatever your interpretation is), and acting very blue pill.

Phantom-furious · 2016-03-19T18:12:54+00:00

If she isn't fucking you, she is fucking someone else. Cease contact with her and cut your losses.

[deleted] · 2016-03-19T17:55:25+00:00

This is some serious omega-male behavior, you have oneitis for a computer-girl, dude she doesen't exist in your realm of reality.

What has happened is basically that you gave her your time and attention for free, she noticed that she can get it more and more until she got bored, while simultaneously being pumped and dumped by Chads her age.

She probably got bored but didn't want to tell you the truth so she made up an excuse to make herself feel better about cutting you out. She's not interested and never was to begin with.

You were her time hoe.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t9QOQNcpuiA

You need to meet some real women and get some tangible pussy.

Also this should be in asktrp.

Dude make some effort at lifting and nutrition you sound really clueless.

Dr Cupcake:

Lurk and lift and you will make everything better.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-03-19T18:17:14+00:00

She was using you as an orbiter, b/c you're funny, witty, intelligent, etc. You almost made it out of the friendzone, but then real life crept back in.

The "re-connect" was "Hey, I miss the attention you gave me. Would you like to orbit me again? No nookie, though...I 'save' that for Chads...."

BTW, age makes ZERO difference to a girl who wants you enough. I'm 48 and my plates are 20-26. In fact, next weekend, I will be balls-deep in a 20 year old 8.5.

The height thing can be a problem, although at 1.7M you're hardly a midget. If you're going after tall women you need to be able to handle that, e.g. "Nobody is 'taller' in bed", etc.

Good luck, although you need to be chasing other women and have abundance mentality.

GiskardReventelov · 2016-03-19T17:56:14+00:00

Too much investment. Especially if you guys are 450 km apart.

TestoRed · 2016-03-19T17:57:25+00:00

"Vast intellectual culture", whatever that is, women don't give a shit about it.

All you are doing is validating her.

-Steak- · 2016-03-19T18:02:13+00:00

Do you know what you are to her? You're an interactive TV show. You're giving her attention when she wants it, and now she's done with you, likely for someone else.

Go to the gym, and focus on yourself.

abdada · 2016-03-19T17:57:08+00:00

I'm in my 40s and never had an issue playing gals half my age.

Was at a gym today with my LTR and flirted with some 18 year olds in between lifts. They'd have come had coffee with me in a heartbeat if I told them to.

pickupchange · 2016-03-19T17:57:20+00:00

Wow, I'm your same age mate and I use to date girls who are in their early 20s. I think you should stop it cause you're 450km far away, that's the biggest reason to start looking around you instead.

HAMMURABl · 2016-03-19T18:20:11+00:00

we came to a point where we were talking for near 4 hours every day

Meat-on-the-table · 2016-03-19T18:20:54+00:00

but over the course of 8 months, we came to a point where we were talking for near 4 hours every day

This translates into 40 full days. Fitting number for your betaness.

Title	i'm 34, she is 23.
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Date	March 19, 2016 5:45 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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