Background: http://goo.gl/CSCzrR (reddit log is down)

So, M called me last Sunday, on afternoon, to ask if I was on the mood to eat something. I'm like "wtf, I thought this boat had sailed". Anyway, I had plans and told her that I would call her on Friday to go out. Remember that M wants an exclusive LTR.

I get to her apartment yesterday by 20h and she is wearing one of these dresses, really short, great cleavage. Please notice that M has great legs, and a hourglass body, so these dresses look really nice on her body.

She enters the car, and there comes the shit tests. As advised by /u/derp_pills, I make it as familiar as possible: kiss, hand on the tights, small talk until the restaurant/hotel. But as soon as I try to kiss her, she goes "nope, 2 kisses on the cheek, like friends". Obviously a plot to try and bend me into exclusive LTR. Nope.

I let her run errand on her shit tests, just showing that I'm not appreciating it. We eat (she pays), and she says that it's a shame that we can't hang out. I say to her, it's you who is placing the impediments. She continues on her shit tests and I call her on her bullshit: "Ok then, I'll leave you home and head to a party".

She goes silent for a few minutes, and then says "I'd just like to only cuddle for a while, but I think this is not possible anymore". I look at her and say "I think we can cuddle a little". I'll take my chances.

We head to the motel. She takes her clothes off I take mine. More shit tests.

Not this time.

She still doesn't want to kiss, but is accepting any other advances. Dicking ensued.

M never came from penetration alone. She needed cunnilingus to reach orgasm. Not yesterday. She came twice in an hour time span. Lots of kissing after that. Changed mind much?

End of the night: recovered a plate. The rules are laid out now, and she doesn't care that I have another woman, at least not enough to complain again.

Keep your frame. They will come to you.