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Leaving TRP

_xen

April 15, 2015
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Title Leaving TRP
Author

_xen

Upvotes 1
Comments 33
Date April 15, 2015 11:13 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/32qpvj/leaving_trp/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/leaving-trp.31452
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Looks are everything, game is male hamstering.

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[–]1feminazis_stalk_me8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Steve Buscemi? Rowan Atkinson (Mr. Bean)? Danny DeVito? Rodney Dangerfield?

Sure, these guys are all actors, but they all started somewhere and busted their asses to get where they are, and they have all made it to the upper percentile.

What you're forgetting is that looks are only part of what will get you to the top. Personality, success and resources (money, assets etc) are also HUGE drawing factors. If you lack in one area, then excel in the other areas.

It's like that old saying:

"Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."

We all have to play the hands we're dealt, and very few people have a royal flush. Don't worry about who you aren't. Work on who you could be. Looks only get you so far, but at least you're not an ugly woman, who's main value will be her looks. You're a man - you have the potential to amass wealth, status and the perks (women) that come with it, no matter what you look like.

[–]rkg-pua 3 points3 points3 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Can we please stop selling the 0.01% to people like its practically possible?

For every Danny DeVito out there, there are thousands and thousands incels with shit DNA who will never have a chance (or not much of one).

[–]Isaiah4verse12 points3 points4 points 11 years ago [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link

There is no such thing as an "incel". Hire an escort or go on a sex tourism vacation. It's cheaper and less time consuming than a girlfriend. Geez

[–]1feminazis_stalk_me1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

It is what you make of it. If you see yourself as an incel with shit DNA, then that's all you'll ever aspire to be, and you'll never see yourself as deserving anything better. You won't set and accomplish goals and you won't get to experience success. The worst part? Nobody cares. The reason nobody cares is because you're a nobody - you said it yourself. But if one were to push himself to be a successful businessman or artist or musician, then yea - people WOULD care, because he would have built up his value.

[–][deleted] 0 points0 points0 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]Isaiah4verse12 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A girl will never care for you full stop. This is basic red pill bruh

[–]Short-Guy1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If what you say about short and ugly guys is true, then the only realistic way to get laid regularly is to join organizations like ISIS and rape the women they capture. So far, its working

[–]rkg-pua3 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Escorts carry an unnecessary stigma; many of these guys are already going that route (smartly).

[–]yungwarthog11 points12 points13 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I suspect you'll have more luck once you stop feeling sorry for yourself and start improving yourself.

[–]_xen[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No then I will be delusional and have false hope.

[–]throwmeaway3399 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Shoot probably most guys on here have a 5/10 face. Law of averages. TRP is not about getting laid, but if that's your goal then go for it. Giving up is easy. Ive been subscribing to TRP for over two years and finally swallowed it after about a year, started lifting, etc. I finally got laid like 3 weeks ago, went two+ years without as I wallowed in my self pity from losing "the one". Blaming your lack of success on your looks is just scape goat excuse.

I wonder if there is such a thing as alpha and beta Its called purple pill.

[–][deleted] -2 points-2 points-2 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]throwmeaway3399 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Girl I just met, but thanks for the laugh.

[–]red_gerb2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Is this a troll? I'll take a shot at it anyway.

Take this lesson: there's always someone better looking than you. And always someone uglier than you. Get OVER it. The face of men is not as important as resources. Focus on improving yourself, and improving your options/resources. Hang out in dimly lit nightclubs. If it's really bad, think of plastic surgery; it's a woman's route, I wouldn't recommend it. ps. Don't let the door hit you on the way out.

[–]_xen[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Anyone with not a handsome face is a "troll" in this society and unwelcome anywhere.

[–]SpongeCroft2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

or "lift"

you've never actually started lifting, have you?

[–]_xen[S] -4 points-3 points-2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

bitches dont care about butterfaces.

[–]fg2intw 4 points4 points4 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It's not about getting girls. It's about self-improvement.

[–]_xen[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

What's the point of being improved if no bitch will get near me since ugly.

[–][deleted] 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]AlphaXpipubs1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That is a self limiting belief.

What you believe, others will believe, it is all about the energy we bring to the interaction.

Look, some guys say because they are short they will never have hot girls - but some very short guys do great. I have dated many women taller.

And this works for any limiting belief you can think of - wealth, hair, scars, handicaps, etc. The only thing it doesn't work on is your inner beliefs. The energy you bring means more than anything, and if you belief you never will, you could be a 10 and you will still never have what you want.

http://www.pipubs.com/what-does-success-look-like/

[–]craftmaticrabbit1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You'd be surprised what some well fitting clothes, a good haircut that fits you and good hygeine will do. If you are still insecure then you don't have to wait 20 years. Save money and get some plastic surgery. Hey it could be worse though, at least you're not crippled or like you said, have aspergers. Stay positive

[–]LivingUnplugged1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Your ugly face will not stop you from fucking beautiful chicks. Only you will. If you commit yourself to understanding and implementing Red Pill Theory and Seduction Theory, you will get more pussy than you thought you ever could.

Have you read, "The Game", "Double Your Dating", "The Mystery Method", RSD forums, etc...?

TL;DR - Women are addicted to feels. Make them feel lots of different exciting things and they will become addicted to you. It doesn't matter how ugly or stupid you are. Or what a whining bitch you used to be.

[–]_xen[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Girls only care about face sorry, that pua material is all a scam.

[–]LivingUnplugged1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha. Holy shit. Really? Now I know you're trolling.

[–]TheRealMewt1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You sound like a self loathing Miscer and your defeatist attitude makes it no wonder why you never get laid. Just promise that you won't shoot up a college in a blind rage after you leave.

[–]_xen[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm just going to drive around in my BMW listening to 80's music for now.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorCopperFox3c1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You were born alone, and you will die alone. Everything in life, including other people, are ephemeral. They will come into your life for a time, but one day they will leave, whether that be death or some other form of departure. This is fact.

Yet you define value in your life by things that come and go? Things you cannot hold? Things you will never truly possess? Perhaps the issue is not that you are ugly, but what you value.

[–]_xen[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

only if youre ugly. if you have a handsome face, you will never be alone and you will have girls and friends 24/7.

[–]Do not send modmail to my personal inboxCrazyHorseInvincible0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Grounds for removing a comment or post:

One or more of:

  • General Lack of Self-Control

Childish squabbles or pissing contests, arguments about who is "more alpha", melodramatic displays of self-pity, tantrums

[–]Albizzy -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Rule one of the redpill. Confidence.

[–]_xen[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Girls don't care about confidence, only if you have a wonderful face.

[–]Albizzy -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Rule two of redpill. Have a wonderful face

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