Making girls pay for the drinks

alreadyredschool · 2014-09-11T17:57:16+00:00

When you are out and some girl talks you into paying for her shit, don't do it. Make her pay for the first round.

enticingasthatmaybe · 2014-09-11T20:03:28+00:00

how should a man make the woman pay?

I think the bartender has this part covered. You're under no obligation to pay anyone's way. Stop feeling guilt for not doing something you're not required to do.

[deleted] · 2014-09-11T19:33:02+00:00

If they are alone and they ask, I just smile and shake my head no. If they are in a group and they ask, I laugh at them and walk away.

I'm not someone who is going to be used to increase your standing in front of your friends. I'll lower it with glee.

__ROOSTER__ · 2014-09-11T20:21:54+00:00

"You get this round, I'll get the next" works

I've also told them to go be sexy and get some sucker to buy us both drinks. That shit worked like magic.

Now if it's my plate, yeah I normally buy all the drinks. I make more. They don't get a free ride. They buy me stuff but it's more proportional to income. No different than what I'd do with a buddy that was poor.

prodigyx · 2014-09-11T18:25:52+00:00

It's is not a rule written in stone. It is more of a general guideline not to spend all night buying a woman drinks.

When I take a girl to the bar, I choose a table, motion to the girl where to sit, then I sit down myself. Then comes something along the lines of "Why don't you go get us some drinks babe" and a little slap on the ass as she is walking to the bar (this isn't appropriate in all situations). If the bar has nice beers and something catches my eye, I'll throw in a "I'll have a InsertBeerName".

I'll usually pick up the next round.

bhormaci · 2014-09-11T18:45:11+00:00

There is no set in stone rule, but for me personally if I have to spend a bunch of money to try to get laid, I would rather just go with the sure thing and get an escort.

Fortunately turning it around on them when they ask you to buy them a drink is a good filter for this.

Girl: "hey how about you buy me a drink handsome?" Me: "ahhh unfortunately I have a policy never to buy a drink for a girl, but I'll certainly let you buy me one, I'll have <x>!"

she may tell you to go f*** yourself, but hey, so be it.

LD_in_MT · 2014-09-11T22:26:24+00:00

This worked well for me: I asked a girl to a movie and it wasn't clear if we were "just friends" or if this was a date. We get up to the ticket window. She asks if I'm going to pay. I say, "Yes, if this is a date, no if were just friends". I paid and we ended up going back to my place....

slcjosh · 2014-09-11T22:36:37+00:00

I never buy a drink for a girl who i haven't seen naked. Unless they are a personal friend.

sir_wankalot_here · 2014-09-12T10:14:32+00:00

Pay for the drink, have her go to the bar to wait in line and go fetch them.

SharkPig85 · 2014-09-12T17:11:42+00:00

I have had lots of success saying confidently "nice to meet you,insert small talk here go get us a couple drinks i'll be over here" they usually would laugh it off and see i am serious and then proceed to get me a drink.

leodoestheopposite · 2014-09-12T18:16:58+00:00

Just ask her "Why?" and demand a rational answer.

You can corner her into the quasi-prostitution argument.

justmanthings · 2014-09-11T19:36:03+00:00

"make"?

Just get your own drink, and if she wants one she can figure out how to make that happen.

SQQQ · 2014-09-11T20:11:13+00:00

personally i have no problem paying for service i receive.

if she has a charming personality and is giving me a good time then paying for a drink is not an issue for me.

Title	Making girls pay for the drinks
Author	jamesbond0512
Upvotes	9
Comments	22
Date	September 11, 2014 5:51 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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