Money > TRP

GaiusScaevolus · 2013-11-15T21:18:14+00:00

Sounds like you've run into gold rush culture. You could try being the alpha that's there to handle their needs in the 3 weeks the riggers are gone.

Once again, game isn't a panacea. If you're a fat ugly bastard who lives in momma's basement and working 5 hours a week at McD's, game won't make you George Clooney. What it will do is bump your SMV from 3 to 3.5-5, depending on how good you are. Game is a tool to be used in combination with everything else in you sexual utility belt (patent pending). That's why we also have /r/becomeaman, and why a significant portion of RP theory is devoted to male self improvement.

PrisonerOfLife · 2013-11-15T22:35:02+00:00

The only problem (albeit a HUGE one) with giving into hypergamy in this case is your lifestyle will be complete shit even if you're getting laid. Slaving away for someone who only spreads their legs for you is the epitome of BP and you're setting yourself up for disappointment.

For me, celibacy is always preferred over becoming a working slave for a woman who has the dignity resembling that of a prostitute. By reinforcing this imperative through their supplication, income slaves simply keep inflating the hypergamy bubble beyond its natural size.

puaSenator · 2013-11-16T05:36:53+00:00

Let me give you some real advice. Most people like to use capital as a measuring stick of their self worth. I see it all the time. There's nothing inherently wrong with it, but it's just a terrible measuring stick to judge yourself by. Like most things in life, those that worship money the most, tend to be the ones that desire it the most. The ones with money, tend to realize how useless it really is. The typical pattern is this: When you're broke and struggling, some people will use it against you to sort of elevate themselves above you. When you do have a significantly higher income, all of a sudden, they never mention money around you.

I'm not going to sit here and lie to you saying money isn't important though, because it is. It's the most significant mean we have to accessing freedom. However, it's not the most important thing in the world. You know who are the most unlikely guys fucking super models? Starving artists. Guys that don't have much in the world other than their passion for a subject. The passion is what is attractive. Women want men carving their way through the world. Typically, money follows men trying to do this. However, it's not always the case. The attractive trait is the ambition and potential, not the cash flow. Granted, some chicks from the trailer park are going to think of cash as the end-game, but you don't want them anyways. For the most part, the quality girls are the ones following ambitious men and supporting them, from running an investment firm, to hiking dangerous cliffs.

/source - have been that broke dude before

Manuel_S · 2013-11-16T12:55:58+00:00

Look, don't fuck it up.

Get the money and use it well. Never get a permanent lay that'll feel entitled to your money AND give you shit AND even dare to complain that you leave her alone.

You'll even have to hear how hard her life is and what a sacrifice she makes being with you...

Accumulate money, maybe splurge on a couple items to show it off, and up the stakes with particularly good fits and game.

Best rent a whore if you need than to buy one forever.

IllimitableMan · 2013-11-16T02:58:33+00:00

Let's not delude ourselves into thinking that money isn't #1 when it comes to dating.

The term is alpha fucks beta bucks.

Just because she's dating some $100k uneducated beta doesn't mean she won't be fucking alphas for free.

I know what you mean about chicks being waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay into your bank balance. Essentially TRP is about male power, money comprises part of that power structure, if you're making a ton of money but you don't know how to handle a woman you will be a beta just getting fiscally raped and abused for your resources. Women are cruel like that.

JohnGalt316 · 2013-11-16T00:05:50+00:00

it is "alpha fucks beta bucks" not "alpha dates beta bucks"

MrMagwitch · 2013-11-16T12:17:56+00:00

UselessMaxims · 2013-11-15T21:21:45+00:00

North Dakota ay? I'm planning on getting out there for some oil field related work m'self in a year. Major sausage fest up there though, but great way to stay in and save money.

x7CR7x · 2013-11-15T21:35:49+00:00

If you're in Calgary (which is identical to what you're describing) you're so very wrong.

Edit: This is goldigger central but various blogs detail how to deal with these filthy creatures.

Edit2: Inb4 TRP WAR between Keyboard Jockeys and Dude's who actually get laid.

HarveyMushman72 · 2013-11-15T22:02:28+00:00

Do you have a bucking horse on your tags OP? I see this all the time. You can bet these girls at the bars on the weekends when there guys are out of town.

BorMato · 2013-11-16T05:21:01+00:00

Are you in Edmonton??

W-Z-R · 2013-11-16T11:09:21+00:00

3 weeks away, 1 week home

Don't envy those poor schmucks, so many of their wives will be cheating-I'm not telling you to be the man they cheat with (I don't agree with that at all) but when fat checks are being sent home to lonely women whose husbands are hundreds of miles away, a lack of money is hardly gonna stop you getting laid.

VeryWideDoucheNozzle · 2013-11-16T20:55:02+00:00

what u just described is "Beta bucks" part of the TRP equation.

FortunateBum · 2013-11-15T22:59:02+00:00

My contention has been:

"Game" is signifying (or faking) your status in order to create attraction.

Status = access to resources.

[deleted] · 2013-11-16T03:13:39+00:00

Oooooh, sorry! So close.

What you are observing is nothing more than beta bucks in action. Your area just has more betas with more bucks.

alt30313 · 2013-11-16T00:58:22+00:00

You're not looking for a relationship, just spin plates when your off. You can fulfill their sexual needs and the needs of their friends when their men are away on the rig. Don't waste your with single golddiggers, bang the attached hyperglamerous sluts. If they don't have a ring on their finger they are fair game. They owe their loyalty to their bfs, you owe them no such loyalty unless they are dating your friends.

mordanus · 2013-11-16T00:37:35+00:00

I don't mean to be contrary here but who do you think their girls are fucking for those other 3 weeks if they aren't alpha as well as making good money? Your post only backs up what the trp says.

heisamanster · 2013-11-16T00:10:57+00:00

80k is rig money?

[deleted] · 2013-11-16T10:54:15+00:00

Money plays an important role in life and those who say it doesn't either don't have it or don't have what it takes to to acquire it.

Everyone has their own self definition of happiness. I believe only a truly happy man can be genuinely confident aka alpha. A lot of people come to TRP like me to get advice on women etc. But remember this is and was never the end goal at least not for me. The end goal is to live life on your own terms.

[deleted] · 2013-11-16T17:49:49+00:00

I think you misunderstood TRP with Seduction. Money is TRP.

Seduction teaches you about how short, bald men can be super cool and have chicks.
TRP teaches you that in reality you need either looks, money or status.

nicknameminaj · 2013-11-16T22:08:15+00:00

wait, you mean a high quality woman expects a high quality man? well i'll be a monkeys uncle

[deleted] · 2013-11-17T14:27:54+00:00

The dating scene is not skewed. These girls are going after the best they can get like they always do. You have correctly sized up the situation, but you have yet to stop complaining and put together a strategy based on that reality.

If it makes you feel any better, these oil worker guys are getting played by these de facto prostitutes. They would be much better off saving their salary and paying for sex outright on their trips back to the city.

BadgerBurger · 2013-11-16T00:36:53+00:00

Money isn't number one. One of the most successful years of my life, I was making under $30k a year, scraping by in a major East Coast city.

It just sounds like you need to get the fuck out of Calgary or Fargo or wherever the fuck, though.

[deleted] · 2013-11-16T04:25:59+00:00

Plus-1 for this. Your charm will /always/ wear off. Her ability to spend your money never will. I had to make this unfortunate realization for myself. If you've got a great job and still can't get laid, then yes, you need to work on your social competence, but you can be charming as hell and it won't matter much if you're living in your parents basement and can't give her anything in the way of resources.

LMS_THEORY_ · 2013-11-16T02:26:00+00:00

legit post

money is an indicator of alpha. Probably the most obvious sign of alpha-ness, but not the only one.

As much as I think the TRP is right....Looks Money Status Theory > TRP

Kernes · 2013-11-16T00:30:43+00:00

The usual schedule for these workers is 3 weeks in the rig camps, 1 week in the city.

Alpha fucks while beta works.

Title	Money > TRP
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Date	November 15, 2013 8:58 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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