More actionable lifestyle advice and less motivational stuff please.

suzumakes · 2017-11-05T23:13:49+00:00

OP you are about ready to leave this sub. You want some ideas about what to do to actually get that amazing life that's preached about. That's great. Find a group of people you like, go have some boys nights, consider joining the service, finish college, try to figure out now what you'd like to do every day for the first 10 years of your career before you wind up supervising other people doing that thing.

You'll realize the guys who are still here after getting to the point where you are already are just masturbating about having a great life. I check Reddit when I'm stuck on a range or at some barracks or waiting on a meeting, these guys saying you want your hand held, they live here. This is their "awesome alpha life". You're already ahead of them, it's time to think about what you want to do as a job, what is the thing about what you love that can also be a job people will pay you for? I love solving problems. I'm a medic for the guard and I write code. I solve problems every day. I love being around people and talking to them, I have a baller development team and I love those guys. Enjoy life, make mistakes, run from the cops a few times, enjoy things. You're on your way man. You're on your way.

JaspersChest · 2017-11-05T23:01:25+00:00

You want us to hold your fucking hand and tell you what to do with your free time?

This sub isn't here to give you a blueprint to live your life by. You decide for yourself what you want and how you want it. Grow a fucking pair and find your passion, quit depending on others to tell you what to do.

evolveto · 2017-11-05T23:29:10+00:00

There are bunch of stuffs you can do !

Sports you are interested in, there are plenty to try ..

Different forms of dance, most dance classes are generally after 6 PM.

Acting, Learning how to make a movie.

Writing, Learn a language.

Its like hit and trial, you try 10 different things and some you would like to bring into your life and eventually get better, but give it a try for atleast 20 hours. You will know the answer, whether to continue or move on ! Also have a Goal!

frendo223 · 2017-11-06T01:39:13+00:00

this sub has been overan by low smv betas wanting to have an ltr these hoes

it will actually be toxic if you want to raise your smv more, slay and play. as in literally TOXIC it will actually hold you back

ive done an expierment and some of my lowest value comments got upvoted and my highest value comments got downvoted

a_strategos · 2017-11-06T02:29:13+00:00

Try getting up and going into the gym before work or class. You will feel strong the rest of the day, and by exercising discipline early in the morning, you set yourself to remain in control for the rest of the day. The obvious benefit of gaining fitness pails in comparison to the benefits of becoming more disciplined. A man who is disciplined controls his frame more easily and achieves his goals more readily. Actionable enough?

practicepricipleprep · 2017-11-05T22:39:02+00:00

You want your hand to be held.

As an adult man, you should be able to use the general advice and apply it to your personal situation.

However, I will start you off with some advice: Lift, study game, meditate, and meet new people. That is where you begin.

I just gave you 4 areas of improvement. Now, it is up to you to find posts and articles (there are plenty) on each of those 4 topics.

Once again: Lift weights, study game, meditate, and meet new people.

You are welcome.

BambaKlava · 2017-11-05T22:55:57+00:00

An issue I see coming up time and time and time again with this sub is that most of the posts are all inner game motivational BS rather than being posts that give actionable advice on creating an awesome lifestyle.

There's tons of posts that give advice on how to integrate hobbies into your lifestyle.

Even snooping around I notice a ton of material often discouraging men from spinning plates and encouraging them to be loner incels, what gives.

I bet you did zero snooping.

GayLubeOil · 2017-11-05T23:46:11+00:00

Hey Red Pill faggot Beta Male here can you guys hold dick and tell me exactly what I need to do? I don't like abstract theory or big picture posts because I'm a 100 IQ Normtard who can only follow simple pragmatic directions.

Which shoe should I put on first if I want to be an alpha male, left or right? Also can someone please write a step by step script that will grant me access to those vaginas y'all keep talking about? I want to have sex allready!

Rian_Stone · 2017-11-06T00:19:02+00:00

you value leeching narcissist.

do some shit, stop living vicariously through TRP

SoulRedemption · 2017-11-05T23:52:14+00:00

There are several posts with a lot of good actionable advise. Quit looking for what you want and start reading then choose. Filter for top posts

michael_wilkins · 2017-11-06T01:43:42+00:00

Some actionable advice:

If you want to fill up your weekend, find a skill or service you can perform and get a single person to pay you to do that. Just one.

You have a 9-5 job so you should be easily able to squeeze some cash out of that into a mini nest egg.

Now take that skill or service that you got someone to pay you for and A) find someone else or B) get that first person to pay you again.

If you want more social stuff, pick a few of your coolest friends and organise something fun to do. If your friends suck, be friendly to strangers wherever possible, you'll make new, cooler friends.

mrbonsoir · 2017-11-06T03:11:55+00:00

“No posts on how to make the very lifestyle this sub hyped up “ -paraphrased from you.

That’s because my good man I believe all those answers are on the blogosphere surrounding RedPill.

If you read the sideBar like one is supposed to then you find that much of the actionable stuff is already hiding there if you dig a little deeper.

This place is pretty much a forum and you get all kinds of people posting thinking they are hot shit. The real answers are on the other blogs like Illimitable Man or Black label logic for instance.

I just use this forum to get some interesting stories and read some field reports. I don’t actually get my actionable content from here.

And neither should you.

MattyAnon · 2017-11-06T04:01:05+00:00

inner game motivational BS rather than being posts that give actionable advice on creating an awesome lifestyle.

Agreed, your point is valid OP.

I don't see any advice on lifestyle choices you can make, hobbies you can take up, and things you can do to be that guy who is living the very lifestyle this sub preaches.

True.

Even snooping around I notice a ton of material often discouraging men from spinning plates and encouraging them to be loner incels, what gives.

This is simply not true, so I'll ignore this point and get back to the main one.

So first of all, the first most actionable thing you can do is lift. I miss the old days when "lifting is non negotiable" was stated regularly. Really, lift. It's non-negotiable.

Next: it's really difficult to do what you ask, because everyone's situation is so different. It depends on:

What YOU want.
What size and type of city you are in
Your career
Your personality.
What are you prepared to do to get what you want? Would you move house? Move city? Move country? Leave your wife? Ditch your friends? Or is keeping some of these things important to you?

Everyone has different priorities. I can tell you what I did to get where I am, but the details aren't as important as the underlying motivations.

It's clear from talking to people on asktrp that they want a perfect plan. I rarely read "I've tried 27 ways to dress better but none of them work, please help". Instead it's "how can I....".

The message is fucking TRY. Do what works for you. Try that. Didn't work? Try something else. Tried 27 things this week and still can't put your shoes on the right way around? Ask for help on AskTRP. But fucking try first.

OP, your weekends are free. You want to make the best use of them to get where you want to be in life. What did you do this weekend? Start there. Did you try something and fail and figure out how to improve next time? Or did you search the internet for the perfect plan and do nothing?

I don't see any advice on lifestyle choices you can make, hobbies you can take up, and things you can do to be that guy who is living the very lifestyle this sub preaches.

Lifestyle choices preached here a lot include: don't commit to a woman too much, advance your career, get transferrable skills in your spare time, socialise.

What more do you want? You want more precise than that? Ok, here's your PRECISE actionable list of things you can do:

Lift
Join a public speaking group.
Get at least one night a week where you meet with other people to do something social and productive together. More concrete than that? Do fucking cake decorating at your local college. Be the best fucking cake decorator in your city.
Get the loudest most obnoxious shirt you can find in your city. Make sure it fits well. Buy a cheap set of handcuffs, break in two and wear on each wrist. Wear these when you meet strangers and learn to handle shit tests from women. Claim to have broken free when the pigs tried to arrest you because your shirt is too awesome.
Learn to show more gratitude to people providing free advice to you on the internet. This will teach you humility.

TunedtoPerfection · 2017-11-06T04:31:37+00:00

This sub has been around for roughly 5-6 years now to my knowledge. The PUA and seduction community that it has some roots in has been around even longer.

The information you are asking for is here already, it is in posts that are 3 -4 years old. It has been reposted many times after that in one way or another.

It is not our job to spoon feed you information you can easily find utilizing a search bar.

Also I can't tell you what specifically to do with your life and weekends you must discover that yourself. You have to find your path in life. TRP is to help you not get fucked over by the Blue pill bullshit you've been feed since birth as you find that path. It's to show you that you won't find your princess in the "love of your life" because there is no "love of your life" it is an illusion and a fantasy. Women aren't these holy creatures of perfection as you've been taught so don't sacrifice your life and goals for them blindly because other people told you "that's how it works."

But as I just moved to a new city alone, having these types of questions last time I did that, here you go. I do this every few years pick up and move to a new place to get some new experience. It lets you see who your true friends are and who is just cool with you because your nearby and it's easy.

If you have no idea about what you want to do with your weekends or what path your life will take do this:

Save up $1500 or be able to budget this for 2 months:

Every 2 week you are going to find 2 hobbies to try out. Doesn't matter what they are, and you are not doing this to meet women. The only rule is 1 MUST be a social hobby where you engage with a group of new people. If you have always wanted to try something go find a way to do it, you have 2 weeks to see if you like it enough to continue. After those two weeks you are going to form a strong polarizing, informed opinion about the activity. Doing this will give you topics of conversation other then "Nice/Bad weather bullshit." Doing this will also being to force you to make strong polarizing opinions about other things such as movies, albums, songs, books etc. You become interesting when you have a strong supported opinion about things rather then "oh yeah GoT that shit is insane. Dragons are cool and shit"

Examples of what I did first time around include Rock Climbing, DJing, Cart racing(At like K1 where they track times and have a series you can join), computer programming and repair, you get the idea go wild. ~ $150 a week should more then enough cover the cost of trying most things for a few outings.

Do that for 2 months and you will probably find a hobby to enjoy and grow a social group through. If not do another 2 months. You'll probably have a lot left in the budget, this is for when you find something you like you can dive into it quickly and not pussy out because of money issues.

Once you have your life in order doing things YOU find passion in, then start spinning plates(if it hasn't happened naturally already). When you have shit to do and places to be you will not be effect by 70% of the bullshit guys cry and whine about on this sub.

I could give a fuck if sally from starbucks flakes on me after I invited her to join me at the club. I am going to the club to see my friend spin a house set and see how I can be a better DJ. I'll be on the dance floor seeing how his track choice and ordering moves me through the set. If Sally wants to flake, whatever I'll still have my fun for the night. It's not my deal if Sally doesn't want to join me this fun outing. That is the beginnings of abundance in your life and that is when things get fun with the other sex.

Title	More actionable lifestyle advice and less motivational stuff please.
Author	beliefthistuff
Upvotes	25
Comments	24
Date	November 5, 2017 10:27 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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