My Experience with Oneitis

M_I_Z_Z_O_U · 2017-10-23T00:41:26+00:00

I agree - oneitis is the worst thing that can happen to a guy. I've had it twice in my life (I'm 28), and I wouldn't wish it on anyone.

You sound pretty young. I want you to know that I went through exactly what you're going through. Losing my first girlfriend was the worst thing that ever happened to me. It totally fucked me up. The only thing that helped me was going to the gym every day and pushing myself until I'd nearly pass out. People would look at me like I was fucking insane, and for all intents and purposes, I was. My advice to you is to get your ass in the gym and push yourself. No fucking excuses. Know that you'll find someone else and this will pass.

Good luck, brother.

rikleeRed42 · 2017-10-23T03:40:44+00:00

you and everyone elses [including me] oneitis story:

i had oneitis, it really sucked, i went crazy, i eventually got over it, i learned a lesson. the end.

magnificent18 · 2017-10-23T00:13:36+00:00

I’m glad you learned! This example will help many other guys in the future who have similar issues and can relate!

azhiker · 2017-10-23T07:07:25+00:00

Thanks for sharing, this seems painful to experience. Good luck on your journey.

WorldNewPilla · 2017-10-23T07:39:14+00:00

Wow, what a story.. Thanks for sharing man. I wish you all the best.

Work_In_Progress92 · 2017-10-23T02:06:08+00:00

Just don’t try to do too much at once because you will get overwhelmed and then you will stop trying to improve yourself.

Read the material and internalize. Lift heavy.

NotAnotherSJWAgain · 2017-10-23T01:26:58+00:00

Ok fellow readers. What is going on? TRP is infested with low quality posts lately. From 20 year old virgins. Giving life and relationship advice. At this pace I might have to unsubscribe. It’s ok to be a late bloomer, we all start learning at some point, etc. But this sub and this community is not about the blind leading the blind. Not even about the one-eyed leading the blind. We need experienced, authoritative, credible sources of inspiration and insight. I would suggest the mods remove such posts and redirect them to some other related sub.

NOMOREZERODAYS1 · 2017-10-23T11:32:36+00:00

GIRLS THIS GIRLS THAT.

Focus on your downsides and your upsides will take care of themselves.

Oneitus is the worst place a man can be lets be real, you deny yourself the sexuality of other women and why? because one vag makes you feel good lol? nah

keysomea · 2017-10-22T23:47:21+00:00

Look, I advocate with the whole self improve for the sake of self improving. But as an EC appointed not too long ago we self improve because we want success and one form of success is external validation. TRP is and always will be about sexual strategy.

Title	My Experience with Oneitis
Author	SpiderBeast25
Upvotes	26
Comments	21
Date	October 22, 2017 11:39 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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