Now I'm fairly new to the red pill and am on asktrp alot but what I noticed one day may help you.

As an experiment one day I decided to stop giving validation away. The results were weird, addicting and unusual.

1) Women started seeking my validation. It was really fucking weird, almost annoying to the point where I was getting to the point of saying shut up, leave me the fuck alone. These were attractive women who never really paid me much attention. You know how people respond when they see something they dont like, such as a spider. One actually done that little jump when I didnt ask her how her day was.

2) Immovable. When you aren't trying to make others feel good, you worry alot less. Ironically I had never felt so confident that day. And you know what is incredibly easy to deal with when you feel confident...shit test. Now theres this guy that I have to assist at work everyday. Give all of us shit. He started his usual on me and without even meaning to deflected every shit test to the point he got bored and started tormenting another coworker. Turns out guys shit test too.

3) Respect. In this case it was self respect. I shouldnt need to explain this but its a nice feeling.

How this experiment came about: I was going to start monk mode with the main purpose to avoid all social interactions due to my mouth not knowing how to stop running. And by stopping myself from giving validation, it would mean I could give that validation to myself.

Just thought I'd share.

Edit: In terms of validation, I mean socially. No interaction unless necessary. Not being a dick but keeping it short and sweet. No excess talking. No asking questions. Just enjoying my own silence